If a woman just takes you as an object of relief at leisure

Like, is a difficult to restrain, control of the emotion, so if she really likes you, how can it be hot and cold to you, suddenly close and far, and then calm and rational, love is difficult to hide.

Be self-aware and put yourself in the right place in any relationship.

Don't just coax you just because someone else gave you two pieces of sugar, and keep the two pieces of sugar and be complacent, even willing.

In the human world, the most fatal expectations with illusions must know how to stop losses in time in all deformed and meaningless relationships. The money wasted can still be earned back, and the time wasted can also be counted as experience, but the feelings that are wasted can never be replenished.

Avoiding your feelings being consumed, being entertained, being consumed, I think this is a very important ability in life.

I like a quote from Miyazaki:

"If you like a person, then you take two more steps toward him, and if he sees you coming and has no intention of greeting him, then you stop."

If a woman just takes you as an object of relief at leisure!

1, at every turn, "evaporation in the world".

I can think of you, think of you, and always talk to you to pass the time when she feels very bored and empty. Most of them are her initiative to contact you, and whenever you take the initiative to send the past message, it will basically sink into the sea, and even the perfunctory reply will not be obtained, and it will stop abruptly.

For example, when chatting, the first second is fine, and the next second will "evaporate in the world", either she has something to do, or there is an important person to accompany.

After three or five days, I suddenly thought of you again, chatted and suddenly disappeared. When you miss her very much, you can't help but send a message of greeting, basically can't wait for a response, unless she is bored again, but if there is something to do, it will completely ignore you as a person.

So you don't matter at all, she doesn't care how you feel, after all, even if you lose you, it's not a loss to her. Can't see that the message is fake, there is something to do, someone to accompany, no interest in returning is true.

2. Talk only about topics that interest you.

What happened to you, including what you saw, she wasn't interested or wanted to know, and whenever you talked about it, she would turn a deaf ear, pretend not to see it, and then continue to expand the chat content that interested her.

When you have bitter water to talk about, send a lot of messages, all about your thoughts and voices, always wait a long time, before lukewarmly responding to a few words, or perfunctory response to an expression.

So when chatting, you will always have a feeling of "accompanying the chat", not allowing you to expand the content that interests you, and can only respond to the topics she is interested in. If not, even if she is bored, she will choose to terminate, because she is really not interested in your things, and she is even more bored.

What you want to say is always interrupted just right, obviously it is a topic that you are not interested in, but also show a warm response, otherwise you will lose an opportunity to chat.

3, will not give you an accurate answer.

You like her very much and have repeatedly expressed your intentions, but she always pretends to be confused with you and refuses to talk along with your topic, which is equivalent to not giving you the opportunity to open your mouth to show your heart. In fact, she knows very well why you say these words and what you want to open through these words.

When you directly hint at her, you also pretend not to understand your hints, and then chat about some innocuous topics, and then "evaporate in the world" again.

When she has no clear attitude towards you, and she really can't avoid it, she finds a reason to say that she has something to do. In fact, you know very well what this attitude represents, but there are still illusionary expectations.

She can make vague jokes with you, but you can't, which means she can entertain you, but you can't entertain her, and you can't make a joke that crosses the line a little.

4, say turn the face and turn the other cheek.

You always comfort yourself, she just has a bad temper, but you don't know the value of not making her tolerant, accommodating, and tolerant. For example, you know that she is in a bad mood, kindly asks what happened, and in the case of two more questions, she does not hide her boredom.

Moody, tantrums when you say you lose your temper, will not take into account your feelings, because you are not important, only to show the most willful side of yourself.

Do whatever you want, anyway, just take you as a dispensable chat partner, not worth her wasting her mind and feelings on you. So sometimes you find her inaccessible and don't know how to get along.

When chatting, you are always cautious, for fear of accidentally saying a word, and then provoking her anger, attacking yourself with some indifferent words.

5, do not let you into her life.

In the process of getting along, we mainly talk about some innocuous topics, and do not involve her secrets and life, because we are unwilling to give you the opportunity to understand her. So you may have known each other for a long time, but you know each other very little, or you have said a lot about yourself, and she has never mentioned it.

I don't want you to know about her life, nor will I let you into her life, making you feel like you can't see the light, and the distance between you can never be closer.

What you know, just based on her performance speculation, did not actually have the most internal communication, it was all to pass the time, the pastime of boredom.

So in these cases, at least you yourself are clear, she just takes you as an object of entertainment when you are bored, an object of relief in your leisure time, and an object of venting when you are restless. If you really like someone, how can you not have a responsible heart?

Even if you like her again, you don't think about her all the time, you must rot this love in your heart. You can hide in the bed and cry, it is really uncomfortable, you can also drink until you vomit, but you can't have illusions and make yourself cheaper and cheaper. It takes you to think of you, what is this.

Retract their enthusiasm, politely withdraw, no one is sorry for anyone, but they politely quit the scene, and they have figured it out to be appropriate.

It is people who have obsessions, but they cannot be obsessed, do not exhaust all expectations, and then think of turning around and exiting. If you think about it, maybe you don't really like her.

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