In our lives, it is not rare to encounter love, it is rare to encounter understanding.
Understanding is more rare than love, and it is more important than love.
It is a pity that a person loves you but does not understand you.
But if someone understands you, even if they don't have love, they will feel at ease.
Understanding is a kind of trust.
Even though I am misunderstood by the whole world, if you understand me, I have the courage to smile.
Relatives and friends of Luoyang asked each other,
A piece of ice heart in a jade pot.
——Tang Wang Changling, "Furong Lou Sends Xin Gradually"
Understanding is a kind of fulfillment.
Your dreams, your feelings, I may not be able to participate, but I can drive away the sadness of your brow and support you to use your dreams as a horse and live everywhere.
Confidant in the sea, the end of the world is like a neighbor.
Nothing is wrong, and the children are together.
- Tang Wang Bo, "Sending Du Shaofu to Ren Shu Prefecture"
To understand is a kind of care.
Knowing your good, I feel that only the best time and the best scenery can be worthy of the unique you.
If I were the Qing Emperor in his years,
The newspaper blooms with peach blossoms.
--Tang Huangchao, "Title Chrysanthemum"
Understanding is a kind of steadfastness.
Gifts to others, if not valuable, I can't take it.
But when I meet you, a book, a flower, or even a fallen leaf can be my gift.
Fold the flowers and send them to the Longtou people.
Gangnam has nothing, talk about giving a branch of spring.
——Southern and Northern Dynasties Lu Kai's "Gift of Fan Ye's Poems"
When understood, etiquette becomes an optional existence. Can be arrogant, can be frivolous.
I am drunk and sleepy and go,
The Ming Dynasty intended to hold the qin.
--Tang Li Bai, "Drinking with the Ghost in the Mountains"
Suddenly, I understood the meaning of seeing each other and hating late. Obviously, it was the first time we met, but everything you said fell softly into my heart.
Walk to the end of the water and sit and watch the clouds rise.
Occasionally valued Lin Shuo, talking and laughing without repayment.
- Tang Wang Wei, "The End of the South"
When understood, thoughtfulness becomes an easy task. Because all your feelings are my feelings.
Change my heart, for your heart,
I know each other deeply.
——Tang Gu Jie, "Appealing to Heartfelt Feelings: Where to Throw People Away at Eternal Night"
Every encounter has become a carnival of life.
How many times in a lifetime can I laugh,
When you meet wine, you must get drunk.
--Tang Cen Shan, "The Night Collection of Liangzhou Pavilion and the Judges"
And not understanding is an unspeakable pain.
The mountain has wood and the wood has branches,
The heart is happy and the king does not know.
- Pre-Qin Anon. "Yue Ren Song"
It's a deep loneliness.
Startled but turned back,
There is hatred for no one to save.
Picking up all the cold branches and refusing to perch,
Lonely sandbar cold.
--Song Sushi, "Bu Suzi, Huangzhou Dinghuiyuan Residence"
It's a helplessness.
Poor night half empty front seat,
Don't ask the gods.
- Tang Li Shangyin, "Jia Sheng"
It was a sigh hidden in the bottom of my heart.
I want to pay my heart to Yaoqin.
There are few acquaintances, and whoever listens to the broken strings.
——Song Yue Fei, "Little Heavy Mountain, Last Night The Cold Clam Couldn't Stop Singing"
So, if you have someone who understands you, you're lucky and happy.
Please cherish it!
Good-looking skin bags are the same, understand your soul to pick one.
One person who understands us is better than thousands of friends. This understanding is more important than love.
Love, some thick and some light, will scatter. But understand, not near, not moving unchanged!
Lin Yutang said, "There is a person in the world who knows himself and can not hate." ”
It is better to pan a flat leaf boat, wear a green shirt, boil a pot of tea, and wait for someone who understands us.
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