Someone said, "There are two kinds of men, and women love no matter how much they love, they can't be anywhere else." One is a poor man who often cries with you, this kind of man just doesn't want to spend money on you, and even wants you to post upside down. The second is a man who regularly borrows money from you. The average man takes face and dignity very seriously. If he really likes a woman, he won't let women look down on him and look down on him, and he'll work hard to earn money to maintain his dignity. ”
Although this cannot be measured by whether it is true love or not, at least it can say something, and it is not completely unreasonable. After living with his boyfriend, he never spends money or pays rent, indicating that he has no intention of sharing at all, and there is no sense of responsibility, and he eats for free, and he is at ease, of course.
Only lip service to care, is this love? Countless times a day of care and greetings, does not mean that the other party really loves you, when a man really loves you, full of you, usually do not care about the work and life of girls, people will suddenly appear to be concerned about all aspects of women, this care is more detailed and comprehensive, meticulous to care about your safety and warmth and life and so on, not the form of good morning and good night no more "care".
This kind of good morning and good night or countless greetings is just a sense of freshness, to put it bluntly, it is driven by psychological needs and physiological needs, if you have to say that it is love for you, it can only be said that it is psychological and physical love, and the spirit and the depths of the heart really love you are completely different things, can not take shallow care as a kind of true love.
Love does not rely on the mouth to say, but to watch the action and pay, in the morning he will bring you breakfast? Will the rain give you an umbrella? Will it give you clothes when it's cold? Can he help you with money when you're poor? Love to see the details, ask good morning and good night is very common, not love or not love. If a man loves you, he will definitely fight for you and be willing to give to you. Girls looking for a partner must find a reliable and responsible man, no matter how good it is, it is better to do well.
Some people on the Internet, to a person who is not very familiar, can say, love you, cute. Does it mean that this person loves himself to the bone for the other party, which is a bit ridiculous. This kind of love is superficial, and the average stable person will not have this operation, even if he is very loving, he will not send a message vigorously, because he is afraid of causing some unnecessary trouble to the other party.
Analyze the problem from a two-point of view, if you like him, and can bring you pleasure, rent, pocket money is not a thing. If you're tired, you don't give money, you don't pay rent, and you don't see what's not good, then separate.