Wen 丨 Peach Xiaojing
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-01-
A twenty-year-old woman is a glass of boiled water, without any color or impurities.
Fifty-year-old woman, a cup of tea, wafting with fragrance and bitterness.
Whether it is boiled water is delicious or tea is tempting, there is no definite answer.
Maybe many people will choose boiled water, but there are always people who like to drink tea, because tea is more fragrant and tea is more thirst-quenching.
So, even if a woman has reached her fifties, she should not be presumptuous in thinking that she is not attractive.
Fifty years old, just a number, does not represent anything at all, and women should not easily admit defeat.
Even though the years have carved a deep mark on a woman's face, it cannot hide the tenacity and charm in a woman's bones.
Even though time has dyed a woman's sideburns and hair white, it cannot prevent the arrival of love.
Love will not be gradually separated because a woman's age is growing, no matter how old a woman is, as long as there is love in her heart, there will always be someone to love.
But if even the woman herself gives up on herself, then even if her face is still there, love will only deviate.
-02-
Many women are accustomed to blaming their gains and losses on heaven's arrangements, believing that love and non-love are not something they can control, so they choose to resign themselves to fate.
But it turns out that whether a woman is obsessed or disliked is all in her own control.
Just as the so-called "people will win the day", as long as women are willing to manage themselves well, they can seize every glimmer of life, even if they are not favored by God, they can stand out.
The reason why some women can still make men obsessed after the age of fifty is because she understands this truth.
Therefore, after the age of fifty, it is not simple to make men obsessed with women.
She's always doing what she wants to do
In the eyes of men, they have always been their own women, living the most dashing and living the most wanton.
Men are very envious of such women, and they also want to live such a life, so they will involuntarily approach such women.
After a woman reaches the age of fifty, she can always maintain herself and insist on doing what she wants to do, which requires a lot of courage and boldness.
This is a quality that many women do not have, and it is precisely because of the rarity that men will be obsessed.
Many women have long forgotten themselves in the passage of time, obviously want to do something, but have never been able to take the first step.
How can a woman get the happiness she wants, if she is so forward-looking and cowering?
After the age of fifty, if a woman wants to make a man obsessed, she should insist on doing what she wants to do, so that she becomes less simple.
She has been trying to improve herself
How many women are still insisting on improving themselves?
Not to mention fifty years old, some women are obviously only twenty or thirty years old, but they have not been able to continue to improve.
Women don't take promoting themselves seriously, and the end result is not being taken seriously by men.
Observations have found that after the age of fifty, women who can still make men obsessed have been trying to improve themselves.
Although her energy is no longer as good as that of young people, she has never stopped her steps and has never given up on promotion.
By virtue of promotion, she has a charm that time cannot hide, and she also gets happiness that others do not have.
Such a woman is not simple, if you also want to be as happy as her, you should learn from her and insist on improving yourself.
She has always understood the difficulty of men
I remember Zhang Ailing said: "Middle-aged men often feel lonely because as soon as he opens his eyes, he is surrounded by people who rely on him, but there are no people he can rely on." ”
Men have always longed for the arrival of understanding and dependence, but there are not many women who can really satisfy him. It was hard to meet one, how could a man let go?
Although some women are fifty years old, they still have a deep heart for men, because she has always understood the difficulty of men.
She not only knows the efforts of men, understands the bitterness of men, but also relies on her own strength and strives to share for men.
Because of this, men feel unprecedented warmth and happiness.
This is a good life that men dream of, and even if the woman who satisfies him is no longer young and no longer beautiful, he still loves it to the bone.
I have to say that after the age of fifty, the woman who can still make men obsessed is indeed not simple.
-03-
Many women always talk about age, thinking that age is the original sin of not getting happiness. But in fact, women are unhappy, regardless of age, and related to their own choices.
Those women who choose to give up on themselves, even if they are young and beautiful, it is difficult to make men obsessed. And women who choose to be themselves, try to improve themselves, and understand men with their hearts, even if they are more than half a hundred years old, are still fascinating.
It turns out that after the age of fifty, the woman who can still make men obsessed is not simple.
When you are envious of others, you should also reflect and change yourself.
You must know that only reflection can allow you to see the gap between yourself and others. Only change can bring you closer to happiness.