The student era can be said to be the happiest time in a person's life, although at that time to accept the discipline of the teacher, although there was a bunch of homework to do, but at that time I was really happy, and the feelings at that time were also very pure.
Those times can be called youth, and there is always a group of people in youth, accompanying us strangely, accompanying us to love and love. At that time, playing well is really playing well, and the feelings are not mixed with any impurities, which makes people envious.
The happiest part of my student days is not the class time, but the ten minutes between classes. Although it was only a short ten minutes, those ten minutes of happiness could not be exchanged for forty-five minutes in class. On March 19, in Beijing, a student shared a video that went viral.
Most of the school time is in class, and the ten minutes after class are for everyone to relax, to play, to prepare, to go to the toilet. Some people choose to go to the toilet during the ten minutes between classes, and some people choose to play with their classmates.
Generally speaking, it is a good relationship to play together, whether it is a boy or a girl, as long as they can play together. There are many phenomena of boys playing with boys, there are also many phenomena of girls playing with girls, and of course, there are also boys and girls playing together.
Boys who can play with girls can be said to be friends of women, their temper is very good, their personality is cheerful, and they are especially popular with girls. A fun incident took place at the school in Beijing, where a male student and a group of female students played together.
Looking around, the boy was having a lot of fun with a group of girls. It can be seen that these girls like to play with this boy, and the appearance of the boys around them makes many people envious. When watching the boy play with a group of girls, several boys next to him looked dumbfounded.
The envious look of these boys makes people feel funny, only to see the same actions of these boys, the same place, the same eyes looking at the boy who is playing with the girl, as if thinking: Where did I lose? How the hell did he get mixed in.
Some netizens saw that scene and made an evaluation: boys who play with girls have a good temper. However, it will not be a male god that girls like. We were able to play with them purely because we liked their temper.
Some netizens also said: Such boys can only play with girls, but they are very pure friendship, not the love that everyone understands, and playing with such boys will not have the love of men and women.
Kotani's view:
Seeing the scene of this boy playing with this group of girls really laughed to death, and I don't know how many boys can envy that scene. Maybe this is emotional intelligence, this boy must have a high emotional intelligence, or have a good temper, will play with this group of girls.
There seems to always be a boy in youth, who can play well with girls, but can't play with boys. Or maybe the boys didn't want to play with him, and didn't know whether they deliberately distanced themselves from him out of envy or jealousy.
But in any case, the boys who can play with girls are enviable. Such people must have strong social skills when they wait in society, and I hope that they can maintain their own characteristics and not be worn away by life.
Here Kotani would like to say, please cherish the feelings of the student era, the feelings at that time are really pure, it is difficult to have such feelings after leaving school, and it should be cherished.