Do you remember how happy you were to be a father and a mother? I remember when I was 25 years old, my husband was 28 years old, the years were quiet, and the birth of the child was just in time. But in recent years, elderly mothers have been frequently mentioned, and the age of the father has rarely been mentioned, is it really not so important to have children, the age of the father? The answer may be a little different from what everyone thinks.
How much do you know about the star daddy? Now there is another official announcement, which is enviable
On March 14, the day when Li Yapeng was at the door, he posted a wedding photo of his marriage with his little girlfriend Haiha Jinxi on social platforms, as well as a hand-in-hand photo of a family of three. The official announced that he had remarried, and he was happy with his son, which was really a day of double happiness. Many netizens have sent their blessings, congratulating Li Yapeng on opening a new life and joining hands with the family to go to a better future.
Official announcements, joys, blessings, all the goodness comes to the face, the formation of a new family represents the beginning of a new life, the birth of a child represents the arrival of hope, so everything looks so beautiful.
Let's not forget that Li Yapeng, who is immersed in happiness at this time, is already a 50-year-old "middle-aged man", so it can be said that he is old.
Late marriage and late childbearing in the entertainment industry are of course not uncommon, and Andy Lau and Aaron Kwok in the four kings are all old women, and they are all 50 years old before they become fathers. Even if they are ordinary people around them, there are many who, for some personal reasons or wishes, do not marry and have children until they are forty or fifty years old.
We are all well aware of the risks of giving birth to elderly women. The fact that pregnancy is difficult, the risk of pregnancy is higher, the difficulty of childbirth is greater, and the recovery of the body after childbirth is relatively slow, these facts make many mothers want to have a second or third child.
However, we cannot ignore that behind these elderly mothers, there is also an "elderly father". Some people say that like Li Yapeng and Aaron Kwok, such older and high-quality men, their wives are young and beautiful, so even if they have children at the age of 50, what does it matter?
Children are the life of parents and mothers, and the health of children has a very close relationship with parents from the beginning. Therefore, the healthy development of children can not only focus on the mother, the influence of elderly fathers on children is also very large. If it is our ordinary couple, Dad's childbearing age should also be taken into account.
How old are the dads, and can they be considered "old dads"?
Older fathers do not have clear age boundaries like advanced mothers, and the best age for men to have children is between 25 and 35 years old. In general, 40 years old is a watershed, and if a man is over 40 years old to have children, we call him an "old dad".
Unlike moms, once they enter menopause, the body can no longer have fertility when they no longer ovulate normally, and older dads are fertile. However, older fathers also have a lot of influence on the birth of a healthy baby.
Therefore, if men want to have a healthy baby, it is best to choose to marry and have children at the optimal age for childbearing, otherwise they may have these effects on children.
The influence of elderly fathers on their children is not small, and parents should pay attention to them
Older dads are more likely to cause their children to have mental retardation or genetic defects.
There have been statistical studies of children with mental retardation at home and abroad, and they have found that the older the child's father, the higher the chance of the child suffering from mental retardation. Children whose fathers are between the ages of 30 and 35 will generally have a higher level of intelligence. Therefore, fathers want a smart and intelligent child, try to take advantage of this age to have children.
▼ As dads get older, their children are at increased risk of developing mental illness.
Experts have done experiments and genetic surveys of dozens of groups of families, and found that children born to elderly fathers and mothers are more likely to have genetic mutations. Among them, the children of elderly fathers have about 6 times higher rates of mental illness than the children of young fathers.
Don't look at those old fathers, most of the children born are very healthy, you know, the health of the child, is the common wish of parents, such a risk or do not risk.
▼ Elderly fathers will increase the chance of maternal miscarriage and premature fetal death.
Studies have shown that regardless of the age of the mother, if the father is over 40 years old, the risk of miscarriage is significantly increased during the wife's pregnancy. There are also many folk sayings that when the father is older, the child born will be ugly and so on.
Since there are so many risks for elderly fathers to conceive babies, what should those fathers who are ready to have a second or third child do?
First of all, a physical examination should be done during the preparation for pregnancy.
Husband and wife are preparing for pregnancy, not only the woman should go to the hospital for physical examination, but also the man should also go to the hospital in advance for a physical examination. In the first trimester of pregnancy, we should go to the hospital for some corresponding andrology examinations.
Maintain a healthy diet during pregnancy preparation.
During the pregnancy, dad should quit smoking and alcohol, supplement high-quality protein, supplement trace elements, calcium, iron, zinc and selenium, and improve physical fitness.
During the pregnancy preparation, Dad went to bed early and got up early, insisting on exercising.
During the pregnancy, dad should develop good work and rest habits and avoid staying up late. Dad should exercise more, physical fitness has improved, and it is also good for conceiving a baby.
If you are a parent who likes children, it is still recommended that you have children early, after all, the child's business is no small matter, eugenics has always been our common goal.