How to look at the things that the retired old man in the city opposes when he wants to marry a rural old man

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The old man in the city wants to marry an old woman from the countryside, and most people here will approve of it, but if this matter falls into their own home, the attitude of the children will be surprisingly unified, that is, opposition. How many people understand the truth of the world, and will always give their own suggestions and opinions when others encounter things, but when things fall on themselves, how many people themselves cannot convince themselves that they have become their biggest and insurmountable hurdle.

So what do you think of what the children of the retired old man in the city oppose when he wants to marry a rural old woman?

How to look at the things that the retired old man in the city opposes when he wants to marry a rural old man

First, most children cannot accept the reality of remarriage by their elderly

People accept the remarriage of other elderly people, but when their own elderly people remarry, most children cannot accept this reality.

People are actually more tolerant of remarriage and will sincerely give blessings, but when it is the elderly in their own family who remarry, most of the children cannot accept it. Because there are inseparable feelings for the deceased father or mother, because the father or mother who is divorced and does not live together always keeps the belief in the parents who are a lifetime, because emotionally they have long been accustomed to trusting the father or mother who is not together. There are also some children who think that their parents are husband and wife, although one of them has passed away or divorced, remarriage is actually a betrayal of past feelings and the other half, because of this obsession in the heart, so they cannot accept the reality of remarriage of their elderly.

Second, most children oppose the remarriage of their elderly people mainly because of the issue of property disposal

Adult children who oppose the remarriage of their elderly may be less emotional, but the focus of consideration will definitely be on the disposal of the elderly's property.

Regardless of whether the family is poor or rich, the thing that the elderly cannot get around when they remarry is the disposal of premarital property, and it should be known that even poor families are poor and worth everything. The old man remarried, and most of them also had their own children, and these people became a family, and the amount of property that each person expected to receive was less. Moreover, the property of the elderly, in the concept of most children, will be determined to be their own, when someone wants to share a piece of the pie out of thin air, it is natural to vigorously protect their own interests, who do not want their own property to be reduced or destroyed in the end, thus opposing the decision of the elderly to remarry.

Third, those who sincerely respect the old man's choice to remarry will also worry about the other party's impure purpose

Adult children are mostly rational, and at present, negative incidents of remarriage of the elderly are endless, making them worried about the remarriage of their elderly.

Even in the remarriage of the elderly, how many remarriages are actually for the property, hoping to seek more benefits for themselves and their children, and very few are sincerely remarried for emotional purposes. After remarriage, the elderly are transferred their property, suffer abuse, do not get the care they deserve, and cannot run in and fight hard. As a child, I also hope that the elderly can meet good people, get good care, get physical and mental comfort, and can live happily and healthily in their old age. However, in the face of the emergence of various responsible information, children in addition to property is very worried about this is a good thing, but let the elderly suffer, life is not stable, so that for the purpose of protecting the elderly will also be worried, so directly with an attitude of opposition to protection.

If the elderly meet a good person and get the blessings of their children, they will be happy and happy to remarry, but although the children are open-minded, they will object when things come to their heads, which is an emotional bondage, a consideration of property, and a concern for a stable life in the future.

There is nothing wrong with opposing itself, and as a child, I also hope that the elderly will be happy and healthy, which is just a worry about the possibilities of the future, and it is also a manifestation of a different kind of love for the elderly. If the elderly remarry, communicate more with their children, and must also see the object clearly, do not let themselves be desolate because of choosing the wrong person.

I wish that the old people who remarry can meet good people, achieve their hearts, be happy, and be healthy and auspicious.