If the husband and wife want to be long-term, then the feelings cannot be problematic, and if the feelings are problematic, the marriage will basically go to breakage.
And if you want to keep the feeling fresh, let the feelings but the freshness period, there are many ways to maintain this feeling.
Whether the feelings between husband and wife will become obsolete actually depends on whether the husband and wife are willing to take the initiative.
For example, the husband often buys bouquets of flowers for his wife, the wife often surprises her husband, eats popcorn together, and enjoys the flowers together.
Always remember that life can not avoid repetition, but repetition will make people feel bored and monotonous, and often change the tone of life, this dullness will be swept away.
In addition, if you want to maintain the relationship between husband and wife, physical mutual satisfaction is also extremely important.
As a husband and wife, when in a relationship, because the man is generally in the active position, coupled with the male physiological functional characteristics, it is sometimes inevitable that he will be unable to do so.
At this time, as a wife, we must comfort and understand her husband, and we must not provoke her husband with inappropriate remarks. After all, for men, this kind of thing is very sensitive, and once it is greatly stimulated, it will even go crazy and do reckless things.
For example, an incident in Xinjiang is enough to illustrate how serious the consequences can be of this often overlooked small contradiction.
Recently, the procuratorate of Shufu County, Xinjiang, disclosed a case in which the wife scolded her husband for being "useless" during the relationship, and was beaten to death by her husband.
Previously, the man Ai Mou and his wife Tu Mou made love, and it was normal for a male and female sexual relationship to have a relationship between husband and wife.
However, when having a relationship, perhaps because the performance of her husband Ai mou failed to satisfy his wife Tu Mou, this made Tu Mou feel very angry, and he scolded his husband Ai Mou for being "useless" in a fit of anger.
Although it is not necessary to achieve a satisfactory level of sexual intercourse between husband and wife, for some couples, this kind of thing has a great impact and is related to the feelings between husband and wife.
Many men and women who cheat in marriage are because it is difficult to get satisfaction between husband and wife in intercourse, so they go astray with red apricots.
This time, the husband Ai Mou was humiliated by his wife when he failed to satisfy his wife, and Ai became very angry because his wife's words made him feel very faceless.
Physiological problems are difficult for men to change. If a person can change anything else through effort, but this kind of thing is basically difficult to change, this is also a sore spot for many men.
His wife's words seriously stimulated Ai, and Ai was out of control and became very crazy, and even picked up something to beat his wife Tu.
Whether Ai Mou actually wanted to kill his wife is unknown, but the result of the matter is that his wife Tu Mou was beaten by her husband, and the rescue was ineffective and died.
After Ai was arrested, he was indicted for intentional injury.
For this matter, many netizens have also commented, and this kind of thing has undoubtedly given many women a wake-up call.
Some netizens said:
Once I also said that my husband was "stupid to die", it seems that I will have to be careful in my words and deeds in the future!
I stopped talking in front of my husband, as long as I knew it in my heart, I was afraid of being beaten.
This kind of man is also too terrible, just because of a word to beat people to death!
Men don't like to hear words that hurt their self-esteem the most, if the other party is really physically unsuitable and can't stimulate him, have more understanding.
Whether a man is physically strong or not, don't say it to him, it's your own destiny.
To love him (her) is to tolerate each other, since you choose to be together, communicate more and talk more, not blindly ask and belittle.
For this matter, the author would like to say that the feelings between husband and wife are mutual support and understanding, not just reflected in the harmony of sexual life.
In addition to money, I am afraid that what men are most afraid of is that women say that they are useless during intercourse, and this stimulation and its self-esteem hurt men, because for men, biologically speaking, this is the fundamental embodiment of whether a person is a man or not.
Even if the wife's needs cannot be met at the time of the relationship, the wife should give the husband comfort and consideration, rather than export stimulation, or even insult and humiliation.
If the husband and wife really love each other, they will not be shaken by other things. And sex life is only a condiment in the feelings, but it is not a substitute for the feelings of the couple.
All in all, husband and wife can only go further if they support each other, understand and understand each other.