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Why don't many people send a circle of friends? The person who shared the wrong happiness became the manifestation, and the person who shared the wrong sadness became a joke. So where there is any empathy, more is cold and warm self-knowledge.
People who used to think that the circle of friends were clean or deleted were cool, clean and neat, and could afford to put it down.
Not sending a circle of friends is not a rush to show off or tell the world about a little thing, but to be able to accept the result calmly, whether good or bad.
There will never be great joy or sorrow again, and I will no longer be swayed by the eyes of others. Whether it is a small thing in real life, or a sad thing, and some joyful things have lost the desire to share, just know it!
Never close the circle of friends, to half a year visible, to a month visible, and finally to three years visible.
From the circle of friends on the day, to the circle of friends in a week, to the circle of friends in a month, to the circle of friends in a few months, and even to the circle of friends in annual units.
We understand that true sharing is not with others, but with ourselves.
Decreased desire to share.
I don't want others to know about my recent life status, because I understand that no one really cares about me, and everyone is busy.
There is a colleague who used to see her send a circle of friends to quite a few times, you decided to imagine, almost every day your circle of friends will be dominated by her screen, three out of five are hers.
Suddenly one day I felt as if she hadn't sent a circle of friends for a long time, and the circle of friends that clicked on her changed from openness to three days visible.
I asked her how she had suddenly changed her mind? She said: In the past, when I was very naïve, I sent a circle of friends for a little thing, always paying attention to who gave me a thumbs up and so on, and I cared a lot. Later, I slowly found that there were few likes and comments, and no one noticed you at all, but my family would take the initiative to send messages to greet you.
In this world, no one wants you to be well except your family!
Protect your privacy
Due to the current WeChat, more than half of the contacts are related to work. We tend to add a lot of people who are not familiar with each other because of our work. There may also be a lot of bosses, leaders, teachers. For these people, there are many things we don't really want them to know.
First, I feel that my personal private life does not want them to know, after all, I am like this when I go to work, and I am a different person after work.
Second: it is precisely because there are too many unfamiliar people that you have to worry about too many problems when sharing. After all, sometimes sharing wrong becomes a joke!
Share with the wrong person, and the joke will become a joke.
Reject useless socializing and don't want to waste time
The ancients sighed: "The deceased is like a sifu, who does not give up day and night." ”
My roommate, I remember the three years of college, she rarely went out shopping with us, rarely played games with us, rarely went to class with us, and so on.
In fact, this is not a problem of her lonely personality, on the contrary, she is a very cheerful person, and she treats people very harmoniously.
We always ask her why she doesn't send a circle of friends? Is your life so boring that there is nothing to share?
She said, "Circle of friends? I almost forgot about the function of the circle of friends, it has not been updated for hundreds of years, how can you care about this?" I said, "Don't most people like to post something in the circle of friends now?" She said "Ha, then I may not be an ordinary person, I think... The circle of friends is actually not important, because I refuse to socialize uselessly, there are few real friends, and a few confidants in a lifetime is enough. People who want to care about you will naturally care, not when you send a circle of friends to pay attention to you. The circle of friends is used for drying, not that I don't want to dry, but I have never thought about drying, and less sending a circle of friends is equal to less trouble."
Less circle of friends is equivalent to less trouble, and people who care about you will naturally take the initiative to care about you.
Most people do not send a circle of friends, not because of "independence", nor because they do not fit in, but because everyone chooses a different lifestyle.
At the same time, people who do not send a circle of friends will be very confident and proud, and they clearly know what they want. And will try to fight for it themselves, rather than showing off in some unrealistic way, so as to meet their sense of need.
Today's topic: Why don't you send a circle of friends?
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