The perspectives on which parents and kindergarten teachers consider issues are vastly different.

Kindergarten is definitely the first experience of life for 3-year-old children, the first time to leave their parents in the true sense, the first time to go to the outside world that needs to be socialized. For them, the tests are high.

As a result, they will experience anxiety about entering the kindergarten. Every time I watch my child cry with tears in their hearts, parents are even more sad. Moreover, sometimes parents are more reluctant to have children.

After entering the kindergarten, there are endless conflicts between parents and teachers

Parents want teachers to see only their own children

When the child goes to kindergarten, the parents will be like losing their souls, the child's figure is in their minds, what is the child doing now? What is your child eating today? Does the teacher care about the child?

If children can be monitored in real time, parents will give priority to this kindergarten. But the contradiction with the teacher began to occur from this time.

Once the child is seen in the video being wronged or left out in the cold, the parents will bombard the teacher at the first time and question the teacher. Even if you understand the truth that the teacher is not skilled, it is with unwarranted expectations.

Children are not born social experts

The process of children going to kindergarten is the process from scratch, such as social skills, toilet skills, language expression skills, independent sleep ability...

Until the child really masters these abilities, it is perfectly normal for the child to be wronged! After all, children are not born social experts, and contrarian quotients also need time to grow.

However, most parents will not be at ease to let their children grow up alone, they will be overprotective, and when they go to kindergarten, they will hope that the teacher will take on the responsibility of protecting their children.

Teachers are naturally more than enough and insufficient, even if they see the problem, they must give children enough time to grow up alone, which is also a place that many parents can't do.

"Why don't you lift your child's pants"? Parents openly questioned in the group, and the ending snapped in the face

A parent started a debate competition with the teacher in the kindergarten class group, because the child went home and complained to his mother, and his teacher did not lift his pants. The mother's focus was not on whether the pants were put on, but on the teacher's rejection of the child.

Subsequently, the mother immediately questioned the teacher in the class group, and the tone was very strong, not so much to seek the teacher's explanation, but to ask the teacher for guilt.

The teacher sensed the parents' aggressiveness, and thought about not making things bigger, and wanted to solve it privately with the parents, but he did not expect that the parents did not rely on it, and it was very good to divide the winners and losers.

So the teacher had to open up the problem to the class group. This parent must be very embarrassed to see the teacher's explanation! After all, her original intention was to put pressure on the teacher, but she did not expect to be opposed by the teacher.

After reading the teacher's explanation, other parents can also understand which thing is right and wrong, and the wrong side is naturally the student's parents out of nothing, and everyone gives the teacher a thumbs up.

What a joke a 5-year-old can't lift his pants!

The child who was rejected by the teacher is already 5 years old, and according to the law of the development of children's motor ability, the big action of lifting pants can be perfectly completed as early as about 3 years old, and it is obvious that this child is far behind.

Even ignorant parents should be able to perceive that their child's physical development is somewhat slow. When encountering this situation, what are you waiting for if you don't rush to help your child learn?

Presumably, the problem lies in the educational philosophy of this parent! Is it that this parent is not involved in the growth of the child, and even the child does not know that the child cannot lift his pants when he is 5 years old?

The excessive doting of parents has become the biggest obstacle to children's growth

In such a situation, we can't rule out the possibility that this child is overly doted on by other parents at home, just like lifting pants, such a small thing, parents are reluctant to let the child complete it by himself, whether it is to love the child or harm the child!

In addition, when the child complains to the parents, the parents' first reaction is to agree with the child's approach, thinking that it is a natural thing for the child to let the teacher lift his pants, and does not it also expose the parents' attitude of disrespecting the teacher?

Finally, when parents solve problems, their attitude is extremely bad, and the ultimate purpose is not to solve the problem, but to embarrass the teacher, is it not a negative example for the child?

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