From a legal point of view, regardless of which spouse, there is no maintenance obligation to the other half of the parents. Article 21 of the Marriage Law clearly stipulates: "Parents have the obligation to raise and educate their children; When the parents fail to fulfill the maintenance obligation, children who are minors or who are unable to live independently have the right to require the parents to pay maintenance. Parents who are unable to work or have difficulties in living in the event that a child fails to perform the maintenance obligation shall have the right to demand maintenance from the child. ”
This law makes it clear that children need to support their parents because they have children. The rights and obligations between the two parties are equal, but the daughter-in-law and son-in-law were raised by their own parents, not by their in-laws and in-laws. Therefore, their support for the other half of the parents is not a legal obligation, but only based on traditional morality, ethics and family relations. Even if they don't support them, others have no reason to be harsh, after all, this is not their obligation.
Moreover, after the divorce, the relationship between husband and wife is gone, and the moral support naturally disappears. However, there are always some thick-skinned people in the world, who know that their sons are divorced, and they still want to rely on the former daughter-in-law's family and refuse to leave. Qiu Lei was very unfortunate to meet such a pair of "ex-in-laws", and it is said that Qiu Lei's marriage is also quite sad. She and Chen Hua are free love, and when the love was strong, she also single-mindedly wanted to marry him and live a good life. (Involving privacy, the parties do not use their real names, only to cooperate with the narrative)
After marriage, her behavior will never go wrong, supporting her in-laws, taking care of children, and taking care of the housework. Unexpectedly, she fulfilled the responsibilities of her mother, daughter-in-law and wife, but Chen Hua did not fulfill the responsibilities of her father, son and husband. He said that he was busy at work all day, did not have time to take care of his family, and actually did not take much salary to Qiu Lei. Qiu Leihua had to be meticulous in every penny, of course, if that was all, the problem was that Chen Hua had actually cheated!
She worked hard at home, but he spent time with his lover outside, who can accept this? Unable to bear it, Qiu Lei simply filed for divorce, and the house was purchased by the Qiu family for her daughter and belonged to premarital property. Chen Hua could not get a penny, and could only move away with his parents, as for the children. Qiu Lei wanted it, but Chen Hua didn't want it, after all, he was bent on forming a new family with his girlfriend as soon as possible. Therefore, the child was also given to Qiu Lei, and after that, Chen Hua never asked any questions, relying on Qiu Lei to raise her alone.
Unexpectedly, she did not ask Chen Hua for child support, Chen Hua's parents instead used the excuse of visiting their grandchildren to act recklessly, and at first Qiu Lei did not change the lock because of her past love. Chen Hua's parents can still come and go freely, and their things have not all moved away, and they can come and live for a while from time to time. This is Qiu Lei's generosity enough to think that they are the grandparents of the child, so she did not tear her face. As a result, the two old men intensified, did not say a word to Qiu Lei, and directly forcibly moved into her house in the name of taking care of her grandson.
This stay is nine years, during which Qiu Lei has discussed many times, hoping that they can move out. Helplessly, they just refused, originally at this time Qiu Lei could have been ruthless and used legal weapons to protect her legitimate rights and interests. Chen Hua's parents illegally and forcibly broke into other people's homes, and refused to quit after being asked to quit, which affected Qiu Lei's normal life and living tranquility. Article 245 of the Criminal Law: Whoever illegally invades another person's residence shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years or criminal detention.
Unfortunately, Qiu Lei was not so cruel, and nine years later, she really couldn't bear it before she decided to find a program group to mediate. At first, Chen Hua wanted to be confused, saying that he would wait another three months and let his parents move away in three months. Qiu Lei refused, chasing after him to tell him what day it was, but he did not speak. After a while, Chen Hua proposed that Qiu Lei write an agreement, promising that he would buy a house for his children in the future, and Qiu Lei would not be able to live in it. And asked to sign the agreement, must let the son who worked outside the home come back, Qiu Lei must sign in front of the child.
Qiu Lei did not want to involve the child, and the outrageous thing was that Chen Hua actually said: I want the child to see how you treat your parents, and I want to kick my parents out and sleep on the street. I don't know if he is too weak in legal awareness, or if he is talking nonsense with his eyes open, that is his parents and not Qiu Lei's parents, why does his parents want to support his former daughter-in-law? As for the child, it was time to come back and see what more outrageous things his father, who had not fulfilled his maintenance obligations, could do.
The two sides argued for a long time, Qiu Lei still insisted on not letting the child come back, and Chen Hua finally took a step back under persuasion: to take his parents back to his home. This ridiculous farce is the end, there is nothing wrong with being kind, but being too kind will only hurt yourself. Therefore, when legitimate rights and interests are infringed, we must not blindly tolerate it, and we must learn to use legal weapons to defend ourselves. You must know that sometimes people's hearts may not be able to change people's hearts, and you will make the other party inch by forbearance, just like Chen Hua and his parents in this farce.