The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often begins with an indecent title.
The daughter-in-law enters the in-laws' house and wants to be respected by the in-laws. Even if you don't get the favor of your in-laws, at least you can't insult it openly. A lot of words are spoken by the in-laws and family members in order to have a happy look, without the slightest consideration of what kind of feelings the daughter-in-law feels in her heart.
When the mother-in-law sees that her daughter-in-law spends more money, she will say that she is a "loser daughter-in-law", and she will file a complaint for her son at every turn, and then she will say something ugly in the open and in the dark, so that the daughter-in-law will not come to the stage. If the daughter-in-law makes less money, she will be called a "useless thing". You will feel that your daughter-in-law is inferior to her status, and you will give your daughter-in-law rules at every turn.
If the daughter-in-law has no intention of having children for a long time, the mother-in-law is even more anxious, saying that the daughter-in-law is a "chicken that does not lay eggs", and everyone says this, so that the daughter-in-law cannot look up in front of relatives and friends. If the daughter-in-law is a second marriage, then the mother-in-law is even more arrogant, thinking that this is a major shortcoming of the daughter-in-law, no matter what the circumstances, will take this matter to remind the daughter-in-law, you are not qualified to bargain with me.
The mother-in-law felt that whatever she said, the daughter-in-law should do. She did not look up to this daughter-in-law, but she could not help her son, so she could only gamble with her daughter-in-law and launched one quarrel after another, so that the whole family could not be at peace.
Such a mother-in-law's ideological awareness is not so high, if she really meets, don't be angry about what she said. If you can't stand it, find her shortcomings, go back as they are, and let her taste the public exposé. Knowing that the daughter-in-law is not easy to mess with, she will restrain a lot.
After Si Qi and Fu Qiang got married, they have been fighting with their mother-in-law, and the words spoken by her mother-in-law are very difficult to hear, which makes Si Qi feel very uncomfortable. I didn't expect God to use this way, so that there is no longer a gap between the two people.
Between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, because of a title fall out.
Living with the mother-in-law, it is inevitable to bump and bump, today the dish is too salty, tomorrow I think the other party is too noisy, in short, there will be a lot of unsatisfactory places, you have to slowly run in.
Si Qi can endure other things, and the only thing she feels intolerable is that her mother-in-law can't move and say that she is a "second-hand product". Si Qi had a short marriage, less than a year, the man had a bad temper and loved to gamble. Si Qi felt that there was no way to live with the man and decided to divorce.
Marrying Fu Qiang, the two people are willing to do each other, and Fu Qiang also knows that Si Qi has such a difficult past. Rich and strong people are honest, do not like to talk, before falling in love with Siqi, they have not had much contact with girls. Therefore, the mother-in-law always felt that her son had suffered a big loss.
Fu Qiang is 6 years older than Si Qi, so Fu Qiang feels that he is taking advantage of himself and has not suffered any losses. Every time he advised his mother not to always trouble Siqi because of this matter, but her mother just wouldn't listen.
Two people often make a mess in the house for this matter, and quarrel fiercely. Fu Qiang did not know how to comfort his wife, nor did he know how to persuade his mother, sandwiched between the two ends of the angry, often no way to hide, do not know how to face these two women.
The mother-in-law felt that the daughter-in-law quarreled with her, it was lawless, and she did not respect her, not only calling her at home, going out to play, talking to the neighbors, all became: "The second-hand goods in our family make me angry." Chatting with relatives in the group, I will say at every turn: "Our family's second-hand goods are spending money indiscriminately..."
Si Qi did not want to argue with her mother-in-law in front of everyone, but just gritted her teeth and swallowed into her stomach. The more ugly her face became, the more proud her mother-in-law became, and she also had an expression: "I said so, can you do with me" expression.
Si Qi was very depressed, and even considered whether it was right or wrong for her to marry into such a family. When you can't sleep at night, you take into account the point of divorce. Fu Qiang likes children very much and hopes to get pregnant with Si Qi as soon as possible, but Si Qi is always restless and unwilling to consider the problem of having children.
The relationship between the two children also slowly became tense, and Fu Qiang misunderstood, feeling that Si Qi did not look up to him and did not really love him, so he was reluctant to give him a child, and the marriage between the two people seemed to shatter as soon as they touched.
The sister-in-law was divorced.
These days, the mother-in-law does not have trouble finding Si Qi, because the sister-in-law is married, she is very busy, and at this juncture, she does not want to have any discordant sounds, so on the surface she maintains a harmonious appearance.
The sister-in-law's marriage is very lively, the mother-in-law has given a lot of dowries, and the wedding can also be said to be a beautiful scenery. She asked for a dowry of 200,000 yuan, and for a while she felt that her daughter was golden and expensive, and she saw Siqi with a look of contempt.
After a busy day, everyone was tired and had back pain, and was about to rest, when they suddenly found a car at the door, and the sister-in-law came down crying and crying. Everyone was a little confused for a while, because the groom was blue in the face, and when he came in, he said that he would quit the marriage and wanted to return the dowry money.
After the second marriage, my mother-in-law humiliated me with second-hand goods, and my sister-in-law was returned on the night of marriage, which made me laugh. The thing is, before the sister-in-law had a boyfriend, the mother-in-law asked for a 200,000 bride price. The young man is also very realistic, saying that if you don't buy a house, 300,000 can also be taken. But the money is spent on the wedding room, and there is not so much dowry money.
Just because of this, the mother-in-law did not agree to the sister-in-law's marriage, saying that the marriage room is a must for men, and the bride price is also indispensable, there is no bride price, refuse to marry. The two families broke down over this matter, and the marriage was not completed, so the mother-in-law entrusted someone to talk to the sister-in-law about the in-laws.
The mother-in-law felt that this was a shameful thing, so she didn't want the in-laws to know a little bit of wind now, so she hid it very tightly. But there is no unventilated wall in this world, and a relative at the wedding dinner party drank too much and said that he had leaked his mouth. The groom felt that the sister-in-law had reached the point of talking about marriage with others, and must have been "unclean", especially if he was still hiding from him, there must be a lot of cattiness, so he dragged people back to his mother's house and wanted to repent.
When she heard the groom say, "I don't want to marry a second-hand goods", Si Qi couldn't help but laugh, and her mother-in-law also had today. The sister-in-law is actually very honest, sexy and like her husband, she belongs to the type of not loving to talk. I was suppressed by my mother again, and I couldn't say anything if I had grievances.
The mother-in-law explained to the groom: "How can you talk like this, my daughter-in-law is innocent, she is just not married, you can't talk about her like this." The groom said, "If you don't go to the hospital for a test, or I won't dare to touch her, what can I do if I stay?"
Hearing him say such a thing, Si Qi was also angry, the girl's reputation was still gone, really go to the hospital, this matter must be how ugly it is to hear.
Si Qi said: "Little sister, we are not married, meet such a man with no eyes, forget it, as long as you meet a good man like your brother, no matter what you have experienced, the other party will not be so embarrassed about you!" ”
The mother-in-law also said: "Yes, we can not want money, marriage can also give you a refund, but you do not bring such insults, you must apologize, otherwise you don't want to go out of our house!" ”
Looking at this situation, the groom has no confidence. And it was also the only time that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law agreed to the outside world, and both of them angrily rebuked the groom for not being a thing, easily listening to other people's rumors, and not trusting their wives. The groom felt that his request was also a little excessive, and he looked at his pale wife with some regrets.
After this matter was resolved, the mother-in-law knew what kind of humiliation her daughter-in-law had suffered, and she no longer mentioned "second-hand goods" and got along with her daughter-in-law well.
What a woman is so hard for a woman.
Feelings of this kind of thing, that is, you love me, if you care that the other party is married twice, don't marry into the house. Having become a family, don't say anything, alienating people's hearts.
They are all women, and they know what kind of suffering it is to be misunderstood. It's a sad thing to do with anyone. If the mother-in-law is embarrassed by a narrow-minded daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law is likely to do extreme things out of anger. Mother-in-law will also pay a terrible price because she can't keep her mouth shut.
Whatever the reason, don't let the curse come out of your mouth. If you want your daughter to be treated kindly, you must accumulate virtue and avoid right and wrong. Otherwise, the retribution will come to himself, and it will be too late to cry.
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What would you do if you were verbally insulted?
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