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The photo above was taken when it snowed a few days ago, this year is 60 years old, just retired, this is what people often say to be the year of the flower nails! For some reason, I can't always associate 60 years old with my current state of mind, as if retiring from Hugh is just completing a task, a goal. Now in front of his eyes, a new goal and a new task appeared: "In order to have the physical strength to play crazy, run and ride every day to do yoga, play with the gym to hang the bar." "In order to be able to shoot a new image when traveling, I make props such as costumes and hats for myself whenever I have free time." "Challenge the fear, be afraid of the water but learn to swim." Afraid to drive a driver's license, go to test driving, and plan to be able to travel by car. "The foundation is not easy to remember, but I have to pick up spoken English, listen to audio during fitness, and dream of self-guided travel abroad!" ...... All in all, there are busy little fun, small goals, and retiring is busier and more fulfilling than when I went to work!
Now every time I hum the song "The Years of Growing Up", I taste the lyrics as if Singing to the bottom of my heart: "... Growing up, I no longer have a feeling of regret. Growing up let me know that I had lost too much. Growing up, let me know that I should cherish everything I have..." Speaking of the current state of mind and self-confidence is really an unforgettable thing when I was in school, which led me out of introverted inferiority and embarked on a sunny and confident road!
I was born in the countryside from a young age, is the old and small family, there are three brothers and two sisters on it, my adolescence was deeply loved and overprotected by my family, so I was timid and introverted and did not love sports, I did not go out of the house every day, I did not have to do housework, it was enough to study well! Therefore, from elementary school to junior high school, I am a real honor student nerd, and I will not play any games that children like, but I am willing to take a book between classes and hide in the classroom to read. Therefore, there are few advantages outside of learning, watching the little friends play crazy every day with dexterous and happy looks, let me envy, in this regard, I often inferiority, always play can not be high level, small partners group when I am treated as a poor student with the master to play. This situation lasted until the third year of junior high school, and we held a unified examination in the whole township, saying that we wanted to put the results of all the schools in the township together. At that time, my father was a teacher at the school, and when he passed by the township government after work, he found many people looking around at the newly posted list of the general examinations for each grade on the wall, and everyone pointed and talked about it. My father also squeezed into the crowd to check my grades, "Wow, my name appears at the top of the list in the eighth grade report card!" Father was so excited, listening to the parents around him who was asking who knew this first place? Who was the lucky parent? The father couldn't help but be overjoyed, and withdrew from the crowd with excitement, rode home, and released the good news to the whole family! Looking at the happy look of the whole family, I suddenly understood one thing, good academic performance is my ability, I have no reason to be inferior, I can do a good job in learning, I can also do other things well, as long as I can study it like a book, I will definitely do it well!
So, after studying, I changed the habit of quietly hiding in the corner and reading books, took the initiative to participate in the classmates to do games with them, because of the outstanding results, although the movements were clumsy, everyone patiently tolerated me, after a while, I learned the various games they played, and enjoyed the joy of the game with them normally.
Since this turning point, encountering the shortcomings of my own personality, I have never been inferior, I will calm down to find a way to face new challenges, and then bravely try, so that I have learned one skill after another outside of books! It was with this confidence of constantly trying new things that I completed the teaching work of the first half of my life well until I retired!
Once, when I took us to a classmate party in a car driven by a male classmate, I heard him confide in his heart: "Old classmate, the most intolerable thing in my life is that there was a female classmate who once ranked in front of me in the junior high school entrance examination, she was first, I was second!" Haha" "Oh? Are you second? The person behind me was you that time, and I still knew it! My father talked to me about the ranking of girls I cared about, only to tell me that there was a boy behind me, and he didn't remember the name. "I was depressed for a long time because I took the second exam, and then I worked hard secretly, but no matter how hard I worked, it was difficult to surpass you!" You were my imaginary enemy at the time! Hahaha", after this class reunion, my self-confidence is stronger, and the students use their innocence to frankly talk about the affirmation and praise of me in their youth, which gives me great encouragement and makes me have the courage to face various crises and survival pressures after middle age!
Now that I have just left my job, I have begun to explore the second half of my life, pursue a healthy and quality life, and improve my ability to create happiness! I really benefited from this exam when I was a student!
Dear friends, how did you live your green years? Are there any stories of growing up to overcome your weaknesses? Welcome to leave a message to communicate, and encourage progress together!
About the Author:
A heart filled with stories
I don't see the wind and frost after 60
One hand writes the bittersweet and sour under the lights of thousands of homes, and the other hand writes about the feelings of what you see and hear on the road of travel.
A resilient woman who has just retired and is developing her potential through writing.
My greatest wish is to follow you
Share the joys and sorrows of the world
I want to continue to write in [Toutiao] and accompany you from confusion to
Be clear about the direction.
Each of your [likes]
I'm all for power!
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