In life, some people advocate a simple life, that is, to reduce the desire for materials, the family only prepares some necessary home appliances, in addition, can not buy or buy.
Originally, I also liked this concept of life, saving can also reduce the desire for materials, but after looking at the life of the big mother below, I can only say that I am simple.
Aunt Yin is 65 years old, she has a 60-square-meter house, in addition to a bed, there is no other furniture, not even a bathroom, if you don't see the cleanliness in the house, you think it is a rough room where no one lives?
It is reasonable to say that people who have no desire for life should not like to communicate with people, but Aunt Yin signed up for a blind date, what does she really think?
01. Minimalist life, because you don't want to lose
Aunt Yin has a son who has a family, and when her wife died, she was very sad.
At that stage, she would be heartbroken when she saw the old objects in the house, and in order to alleviate the sadness, her son changed a new house for her, just to let her come out of the past emotions.
Coming to the new house, Aunt Yin simply did not buy any furniture, the house was also extremely simple to paint, refrigerators, TVs and so on, how did she live?
In the morning, Aunt Yin will go to the street to buy fresh vegetables, only buy the amount of food of the day, more than not at all, clothes are only some change, enough to wear, usually when there is nothing to do, she will go to the park to exercise, watching the park people come and go, time passes quickly.
Because there is no bathroom, she goes to the public toilet during the day and uses the pot at night, which really simplifies her life, and she has a pension of 2300 yuan per month, which cannot be spent at all.
There is a saying that goes: "No one has near-term worries, but he must have far-sighted worries." ”
With the increase of age, Aunt Yin also realized that her health was not as good as before, she was worried that her life alone in her later years would have obstacles, and she did not want to burden her son.
In her opinion, there is an old partner who can take care of each other, and going out to exercise will not be alone, so can she really do it?
02. Don't want to be changed, Uncle is very nervous
Uncle Ren, whom The Red Lady introduced to her, is also a person with heavy feelings.
After the death of his wife, it was difficult to get out for a while, and he lived a very depressed life every day, and he was depressed for a while.
Later, he tried to cook his own food and learned to grow vegetables in the yard, and his busy life made his mood improve.
Look at Uncle Ren's yard, you know how much he loves life, his yard is lush, planted with a variety of seasonal vegetables, there are tomatoes, corn, celery, cucumbers, beans, etc., as well as grapes, pears and other fruits, Uncle Ren, who is healed by life, also has a need for feelings, his vegetables are too rich, I hope that someone can share happiness with himself.
Uncle Ren said that his requirements are not high, as long as the other party is diligent and thrifty, simple and kind, speaking of thrift, is not the portrayal of Aunt Yin? The Red Lady did not hesitate to arrange for them to meet.
Accustomed to living in her own space, when she came to Uncle Ren's vegetable garden, Aunt Yin obviously showed a satisfied smile on her face, she admired that there were not many such diligent men, and she also had a good feeling for Uncle Ren.
Seeing that Uncle Ren's kitchen had 2 large refrigerators with double doors, Red Niang smiled and said, "You really have too big a gap, Aunt Yin's family does not have a refrigerator, and your family has two." ”
Uncle Ren waved his hand and said, "Send you a refrigerator." ”
It's really a local tycoon, haven't fallen in love yet, a refrigerator will be sent out, although Aunt Yin will not really want it, but she also feels warm to Uncle Ren's generosity.
The two sat down to chat, and Red Niang asked Aunt Yin if she could accept the arrangement of Uncle Ren's house, and she nodded, "I have a strong ability to accept, and I can adapt to everywhere." ”
It can be seen that she is very satisfied, so can Uncle Ren accept a frugal life?
Listening to the situation of Aunt Yin's house, Uncle Ren opened his mouth in shock, involuntarily looked at the furnishings of his own home, a little worried about being demolished, and asked: "Will you throw all this away?" ”
Aunt Yin smiled: "No, take your time, adjust a little." ”
It seems that there is still a sense of wanting to change, and people can't help but laugh.
03. Everything has a degree, and it is good to suit yourself
In fact, there is nothing wrong with a minimalist life, but everything is measured, and if it is too much, it will be counterproductive.
The life of the elderly, the layout of the home should be mainly practical, the necessary telephone, refrigerator, TV or to have, can alleviate the tediousness of life, but also improve the quality of life.
If there is nothing in the family and lives like an ascetic, then life loses its interest.
In the old age, since you want to find a wife again, but also have certain quality requirements for life, you need to spend your mind on yourself, money will not bring you happiness, the right money will have happiness.
I like the life of an old lady next to me, she loves life very much, she will study food every day, and then clean up the house, she will not be overly frugal, but also wasteful, whenever you see her, you can feel her happiness.
As children, we also have to pay more attention to the elderly, some elderly people will go to an extreme of life, or spend money excessively, buy back a lot of useless health care products, or be particularly thrifty, even spoiled dishes are not willing to throw away.
We understand the idea of saving for the elderly, but we do not agree with being too frugal and finding a lifestyle that suits you is more conducive to the physical and mental health of the elderly.
Let's talk about the elderly blind date, some old people are not eager for love, just to have a companion around, to avoid trouble with their children when they are not in good health, the old man's mind can understand, but if you meet an inappropriate person, it will add to your own blockage.
Therefore, if you have time, you can talk to your parents more, they have the willingness to go on a blind date, you can help with the reference, so that the elderly can also avoid encountering the wrong person.
For example, Uncle Ren and Aunt Yin, the gap between the two is actually very large, one is to love life, the other is excessive frugality, although the essence is simple, but if you live together, it is easy to have contradictions, because they will avoid wanting to change each other's thinking, which is human nature.
A person will feel safe in their familiar state of life, so can their blind date succeed?
The answer is unknown!
The two left contact information, gave an open ending, promised to learn more, as to whether they can come together, but also to see if they can accept each other's lives.
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