Chinese people's housing is particular about feng shui. Most people do not understand feng shui, but when they go to people's homes to be guests, observe the furnishings and layout of the master's home, they can still experience different life pursuits from the details.
The character of the owner can be seen from the house.
I remember when I was just married and renovating the house, due to lack of experience, when I bought wall tiles, I underestimated the area of the balcony wall, resulting in insufficient tiles.
Because it has been on the balcony floor and cement, wall tiles, so until the end of the workers found that the wall tiles were not enough, and when they went to buy it, they ran out of stock, ran to several places, and did not find similar.
So the workers said that there was a surplus of wall paint anyway, otherwise they would directly apply paint. I didn't bother to run the market anymore and agreed.
Two or three years later, the paint on the balcony wall has begun to fall off, and the rest of the home is well maintained, only the balcony makes me feel particularly bad.
After the birth of the child, with more and more things, I want to put the cabinet on the balcony to organize and store, but the wall of the balcony is not moisture-proof, so I have to give up.
According to my original idea, the balcony can not only store, but also put a treadmill or something, and now because the walls are not moisture-proof, so I have to make a bunch of tidying boxes to mess around, now my balcony looks more like a warehouse.
Later, I found that not only this one thing, but also many lazy behaviors such as "making it up", "will be done", "almost got it", etc., brought about all kinds of unwillingness and troubles.
When I was in adolescence, because I was not in good health, I "will" finish reading the major I didn't like, and after graduation, I "made it up" to participate in a job I didn't like, and I obviously liked code words but I was too lazy to study.
I always felt that I had no talent, and I was unwilling to work hard to make up for the lack, so I still lived a "almost necessary" life, although I knew that it was not too late to start working hard in life, but I did not really start to seek change.
The word inert has penetrated deep into the marrow, and from time to time I feel hopeless. For me now, just defeating inertia can bring new meaning to life.
A person's diligence and laziness will not only be reflected in the family, but also in the work, after all, personality is something that cannot be changed.
The pattern of the owner can be seen from the house.
Go to a friend's house as a guest, the house is a small duplex structure. It looked atmospheric on the outside, and I thought the inside must have been luxuriously decorated.
Unexpectedly, after entering the door, I was greeted by a very simple living room, kitchen and bedroom, which felt no different from our two-bedroom house.
I think it is strange, obviously the first floor already has everything, so what is the use of the rooms on the second floor?
With doubts, I followed my friend to the second floor, and the scene in front of me was really exaggerated. The entire second floor, nearly 60 square meters of space, was used by him to fill the books.
The three rooms, divided into academic, artistic and miscellaneous categories, were stacked with tens of thousands of books, and I felt that he could open a bookstore by himself.
The outdoor terrace on the second floor was converted into a sun room by him. There were so many books that there was no place to put them, directly on the table, on the ground, at hand, and we sat in the fragrance of books, drinking coffee, basking in the sun, and chatting for an afternoon.
It was probably one of the best times I can remember, talking a few words when I wanted to talk and looking at the book at hand if I didn't want to talk.
It's a beautiful day.
My friend, although the education is not very high, read a lot of books, IQ and emotional intelligence are online. He runs a cultural industry company on his own, and in addition to work matters, he basically spends his spare time reading books.
Many friends are willing to talk to him about things that they can't think of in their work and life, and he can often bring people a feeling of empowerment through three words and two words.
His pattern is vast because he reads a lot, and many setbacks are swept through him without alarm, and many sufferings are nothing more than necessary tests in his view.
In many moments of life, "see the big with the small" will be used. A person who can stand on a high place, the home is very clean and tidy, his cultivation and personality are certainly very good, and his future achievements will certainly not be bad.
The quality of the host can be seen from the house.
Instead, I first met a real estate businessman, a type of person with high education, high income, and high quality of life.
The decoration of his villa is also extremely luxurious.
The first time I came to the door, he took me for half an hour to admire the decoration and layout of his villa.
Between the words is how much this thing is, which country I brought back from, and so on.
His study was very large and there were many books, and he looked at the sun, and there was a thick layer of dust on the desk, but people clearly said that they never went in to read books, which was a decoration.
The dining room is spacious and bright, with well-laid out utensils and a kitchen full of cooking utensils, which is unexpectedly dusty.
He ordered me takeaway, sorry to say that the family never cooks, the post-90s wife will not do it, he does not have time.
The snooker room and KTV in the basement are also beautifully decorated, quite large houses, turning around, but making people feel cold and cold, without a trace of fireworks.
How to say it, his home in my eyes, like a grand small clubhouse, but there is no taste of home.
He said that he came from the countryside and caught up with the good times, so he would take advantage of the victory and chase after it, make his career bigger and bigger, and bring his relatives to the capital to make money.
The real estate tide after 2008 really made him a fortune, but later, he left the main positions of the company to his relatives and friends, and mixed with them every day to enjoy the pursuit and flattery.
So that within a few years, the company was in a mess, and in the end it still did not keep the ten thousand family wealth.
With the decline of the real estate industry, he was beaten back to his original form, and his wife abandoned him for having no money and left him, and I heard that he finally returned to his hometown in Shandong.
The most luxuriously decorated house gives people a dirty feeling. It is conceivable that the owner's attitude towards life is also general, and it is naturally difficult to get the care of life.
From the house, you can see the attitude of the owner towards life.
Her girlfriend and husband are both foreigners, and when she first came to Beijing to develop, she also thought about finding a local to marry herself.
After kissing her a few times, she gave up.
She said she didn't want to use this excuse to stay in Beijing, after all, marriage is a major event in life. She didn't want to live her life with an inferiority complex and a clinging mentality.
She told herself that if she wanted to stay with her own efforts, she should focus on work instead of marrying someone.
Later, she met her like-minded husband and started a family with him and had children. Although to this day, they have not been able to own a house of their own in Beijing, the little two have turned their lives into poetry.
Because of the two births, the girlfriend missed the opportunity for promotion, and finally she simply became a full-time housewife.
With her seniority, writing skills and good connections during her work, she is busy writing columns and shooting video lectures for parenting magazines.
She took her children as an example and patiently guided the scientific parenting of mothers, which was recognized and sought after by many mothers.
She completed her career as a housewife. Not only does it bring economic income to the family, but it also realizes its own meaning in life.
Because of her self-confidence, her whole person has become radiant.
Stepping into her door, the clean and tidy living room, the children's room full of childlike fun, the cute tableware on the dining table, and the vegetables grown by the balcony lady herself all conveyed to me the feeling of warm family atmosphere.
I thought the house was bought by them.
As a result, my girlfriend told me that the house was rented by them. Raising two children and caring for the elderly in the two old homes in the north and south, the current economic conditions do not allow them to buy a house.
I said that this house is really well rented and the decoration is very suitable for your family. The girlfriend said that it was not, the house was quite old, and we re-decorated it ourselves with the consent of the landlord before we moved in.
Why? I kind of don't understand, anyway, the rented house, just live in it, why spend this wrong money, to others to decorate the house ah.
The girlfriend smiled and said, I have discussed with my husband, maybe in another 10 years and 8 years, when the children are older, we can afford to buy a house that really belongs to us here.
But before that, you can't always make it up.
Children need space for growth, and I don't want children to think that a rented house is not a home, what they should know is that as long as the family can be together, where to live and what kind of house is home.
A person who loves life will definitely decorate his home in his heart, so that it has unlimited possibilities, no matter what the current environment is, he will carefully clean up and decorate, and he can feel an upward force every day.
Some people may say that there is no sense of belonging without a house of your own, but I would like to say that when you leave this world, you can't take anything with you.
As long as the health is still there, the years are good, as long as you like, as long as you are willing to work hard, it is good to live anywhere. When illness comes, when war comes, the world is no place to live.
Let's cherish the current life and build our own house with our hearts.
After all, "the house doesn't care how big it is, it's enough to live in" and "happiness is not how big the house is, but how sweet the laughter in the house is."