Text/Wang Xinmin
Whenever I attend a wedding and see the complicated process of the groom marrying the bride, I can't help but sigh: It is not easy to marry a daughter-in-law! It is also common to hear that after the wedding, the groom was tired and hospitalized with a fever. I can't help but sigh in my heart, the long march has just started, and the difficulties are still to come!!
To say that a man's real responsibility begins after marriage, just like Sun Wukong has transfiguration, the role changes from a single son to a multiple son, husband, father. Not to mention the social role, let's say that these three roles are enough for you to drink one pot, to be precise, enough for you to drink three pots, let's say, just like saying that Shaanxi people, Sichuan people and Hunan people eat chili peppers, only by carrying forward the fearless spirit of not being afraid of spicy bitterness, spicy bitterness, and not being afraid of spicy bitterness, can we be like Transformers.
The ancient poem says: Whoever says anything will repay the three Chunhui. As children, it is not too much to repay the parenting kindness of their parents. Therefore, for the parents, especially the parents in old age, the courage to bear, the obligation to support the parents to dare to take responsibility, just say that I, there are still two old people alive, but the old age is inevitably sick, there are diseases to be treated, go to the pharmacy to buy medicine or hospital treatment is a common thing, as we all know that today's medical treatment is difficult, then we must carry forward the spirit of not being afraid of suffering, go to the queue early to register, accompany the doctor to check, buy medicine and injections, and even be hospitalized for surgery, that difficult not to say, there is no spirit of not being afraid of spicy and bitter?
Sichuan people eat peppers pay attention to spicy, the relationship between husband and wife is a bit spicy, now women are liberated, the family status is increasingly improved, most of them are the family's big take, not spicy is impossible, too spicy is not OK, can't stand it, what to do? This is to put some spicy and bitter spices, such as pepper, even vinegar, a little sugar is better. Shaanxi people say that the unreasonable daughter-in-law is a ma fan, and the ma fan daughter-in-law is probably a common phenomenon, as the saying goes: the husband and wife dog skin socks are not anyway; and it is said that beating is kissing and scolding is love, so the husband and wife should not be too real, then they must not be afraid of spicy, and treat it as the lubricant of the husband and wife.
Today's children cannot be as many brothers and sisters as in the past, they have suffered hardships and suffered sins, they are all soaked in sugar water, coupled with the limitations of only children and school education, communication skills, tolerance levels, tolerance and hardship spirit need to be exercised, cultivated and improved, but not all at once. For the child's personality, willfulness and misunderstanding, as a father, we must first practice Journey to the West, unyielding, not afraid of swords and fires, not afraid of ninety-nine eighty-one difficulties, hard work, open-mindedness, tolerance, manhood, do not worry about it, and do not see it in general with children. Second, learn the theory of contradictions, balance and resolve the misunderstanding of children with their wives or other family members. Insist on the protracted battle again, I believe that children will always grow up and understand things, and with a family and children, they will experience the happiness and bitterness of their parents. Then again, children don't have a little personality, they're not spicy, and it's not necessarily a good thing. As long as he walks the right path, he will do good deeds. Therefore, you may wish to be afraid of not being spicy like Hunan people, and the more spicy the more addictive.
The word "male" is composed of "field" and "force", that is, to dare to contribute like a farmer, to be bitter, not afraid of spicy, only when it is bitter and spicy, can life be regarded as sour, sweet, bitter, spicy, salty, and full of five flavors, red orange, blue, blue, purple and colorful. A responsible life is more abundant, more practical and meaningful. For writers, it is more stylish and creative and challenging, and it may be a rich life material.
About the Author
Wang Xinmin, pen name Xin Min, Wang Rui. Shaanxi Dali people. In 1983, he graduated from northwestern university with a major in Chinese language and literature in the Department of Chinese. In the same year, he was assigned to work at the Shaanxi People's Fine Arts Publishing House. In 1991, he was transferred to the Shaanxi Provincial Press and Publication Bureau, and successively served as deputy director of the research office, deputy director of the distribution department, and former second-level inspector of the Propaganda Department of the Shaanxi Provincial Party Committee of the Communist Party of China. He read and wrote in his spare time and began publishing in 1982. In 2008, he joined the Chinese Writers Association. He is the author of the essay collection "Xingyu Collection", "Book Friend Jia Pingwo", "Not Confused Collection", "Land Beautician", "Life Advice", "Tortoise and Rabbit Race", "Chunhua Qiushi" (the latter two co-authored with their daughters), reportage collection "Jia Pingwo Fights Lawsuits", "Truth told", "Walking Horse Shulin", "Weihe Flood Disaster", "College Entrance Examination Perspective", "Qin Cavity" Chorus", "Jia Pingwo Chronicle" (1990-2000), "Jia Pingwo Chronicle" (2000-2010) "Silver Bells on the Loess Plateau - People's Artist Zhen Enfeng" Planning More than 20 films such as Jia Pingwo" and so on. Among them, "The Great Perspective of the College Entrance Examination" was listed in the "Latest Works of Contemporary Chinese Literature" list, and "Silver Bells on the Loess Plateau - People's Artist Zhen Enfeng" was selected as a fine publishing project of the Propaganda Department of the Shaanxi Provincial Party Committee of the Communist Party of China.
Source: Shaanxi Wentan WeChat public account