Watching "Pearls of Treasure" at that time, He Feng was the most popular character and the most incredible role, because his personality changed too much before and after, which was simply unacceptable.
In the first 50 episodes, He Feng is a business tycoon who is ruthless and far-sighted, and he is also a gentle and delicate perfect man, he is not like Song Shiwan who is merciful everywhere, but pays more attention to the spiritual communication with the other half, many people like He Feng precisely because of his special affection, he has a deep and righteous love for Yasi, everything is considered for her, it is simply the type of person that every woman dreams of.
But before He Feng and Yasi had a lot of love, then how sadistic they were.
After he was kidnapped, although he saved his life, but this was a life-and-death disaster after all, He Feng's whole person was destroyed, his words and deeds were the same as the previous judgment of the two, he became suspicious, arranged bodyguards everywhere around the home, closed the door, and manipulated everything through monitoring. He lived a life of chaos, even suspected IELTS of infidelity, and the family atmosphere was so tense that it was suffocating.
Looking at this film now, He Feng's temperament has changed greatly, it seems that it is caused by kidnapping, it is post-traumatic stress disorder, but in fact, the kidnapping incident not only made him "crazy demon", let him suffer from mental illness, but also released his suppressed true self, "crazy" after He Feng, not completely lost his mind, what he did only reflected the other side of his personality.
Yin and yang are two sides of the same body, hiding from each other. If a person looks perfect, then he must be very aware of his shortcomings and be good at hiding weaknesses. He Feng was like this, how clear one side he showed was, and how dark the other side of his heart was.
First, he did not suspect the ghost after he was "crazy", but he never felt safe.
He Feng is an Indonesian overseas Chinese, born poor, fled to Hong Kong when the local Chinese were expulsion, started from scratch, cut all the way, and successfully squeezed into the list of Hong Kong's super-rich, the hardships in the process can be imagined.
Self-made people who become big things often have to do what others can't do, and ordinary people can't tolerate it, and He Feng is also like this, he is used to being lonely and has a sharp vision.
Yu Weiting, a close friend who fled to Hong Kong like him, said that when he first met He Feng, he could see that he had a calm and introverted style that was different from his peers.
Beyond the calm and introverted of peers, it can also be said that it is a teenager and an old man. Young and old people, from the analysis of psychology, are generally because they did not get enough care and warmth in their childhood, endured pain and responsibility that did not match their age, and the cruel environment made him have to mature early.
And such a character stems from the fact that he has never backed up, everything depends on himself, the mall is like a battlefield, and every decision he takes every step may lead to failure, so he is cautious and cautious, there is no full certainty not to shoot, and there is never a sense of security.
He Feng's lack of security could be seen in the way he spoke.
Yu Weiting absolutely trusted He Feng and loved him, which He Feng knew very well in his heart. But every time they talked, they only saw Yu Weiting expressing his chest directly, but He Feng either smiled or played Tai Chi and did not answer Yu Ti's questions head-on.
He never spoke half of what he said, and as you can imagine, his heart was extremely insecure, and he felt that no one around him could be fully trusted, so he never revealed his heart.
Second, he endured humiliation and burden, and his emotions were suppressed for too long.
After He Feng defeated Song Shiwan, he whistled, his face was full of pride, and he turned away with a flirtatious look, and the audience was confused, is this still the elegant and personable He Feng? Why don't I know him!
At this time, his true disposition has begun to be revealed, after years of dormancy, he finally defeated his opponent, he finally no longer has to bear the burden of humiliation, he can be king, he can be his true self.
And what is the real He Feng like? Netizens called him an "old fox", which is really very accurate. He is good at disguise, never easily shows emotions, in the face of such an insatiable and arrogant opponent as Song Shiwan, he pretends to be a pig and eats a tiger, retreats step by step, bows down, always remains calm, and never relaxes.
His condescending appearance made his son He Zhenan look down on him, let his close friend Yu Weiting have damaged his assets for him, he did not say his plan, he endured humiliation and burden, just so that one day he could defeat Song Shiwan and become the boss of the business world, and at the same time show the evil spirit of these years.
Song Shiwan was sinister and cunning, and if he didn't see the flaws, He Feng could only be careful everywhere.
His son was too cowardly to scare him countless times, why should he give up his own interests to Song Shiwan, he would rather be misunderstood, would rather argue with his son than explain, and not say his true intentions.
His close friend Yu Weiting was also unaccustomed to him being suppressed by Song, believing that He Feng was also one of the big men in Hong Kong's business circle, and although his assets were not as good as Song Shiwan's, he did not need to endure Song's blatant oppression. Yu Weiting loves He Feng, she can't watch He Feng being pinched in her hands, she wants to stand up for He Feng, she frantically sweeps Song Shiwan's stock, pushes up the price, Song increases his holdings again, intending to let Song's cash be trapped, she does this, at the risk of being trapped, what she gets is not He Feng's gratitude, but betrayal.
In the later stage, in order to ensure that Song Shiwan was crushed in one fell swoop, He Feng revealed the news that Yu Weiting was seriously ill to the media. The moment she saw the news on TV, Yu Weiting's eyes were shocked and angry, and she couldn't believe that the only person she trusted would actually betray her.
But He Feng is such a person, in his heart, his true emotions are not important, must always be hidden, family and friendship are not as good as the title of "Hong Kong's richest man", sons and close friends can not become obstacles on the road to his own success.
After being kidnapped, his true disposition was revealed, and he was not a willing to follow others, but a solipsistic person. He is not without temper, but he is not within the scope of his control, and he will not easily show it.
People whose emotions have been suppressed for too long have difficulty not to have psychological problems.
He has been dormant, and wisdom will hurt.
The kidnapping incident made He Feng's inner hidden emotions all erupt, he had no patience for anyone, only gave orders, did not trust anyone, and was full of fear of the outside world, all of which was actually because he was afraid of losing his hard-won status and money, and his heart was full of fear.
Third, his doubts about IELTS's feelings did not begin after the madness.
He Feng loves IELTS, otherwise he would not have considered her in every detail, nor would he have guided her so patiently.
But he is also insecure about this feeling.
Their feelings are not favored by anyone, everyone thinks that IELTS is trying to get his money, does He Feng fully believe in IELTS? Of course not, after Yu Weiying reminded He Feng that IELTS approached him step by step with a plan, He Feng hesitated and euphemistically proposed to IELTS to break up.
As for the later union of the two people, in addition to true love, it is also providence as He Feng said.
In his heart, Jiahe is not completely without threat, otherwise when he gets married, he will not personally invite Jiahe, nor will he put down his body, let Jiahe teach him to change magic to make IELTS happy, He Feng is very clear, Jiahe and IELTS grew up together, know IELTS better than himself, and he is also a very important person in IELTS's heart. It was just that He Feng at that time was rational, and he was still able to distinguish IELTS's emotions.
The kidnapping has devastated him physically and mentally, lost his confidence as a man, and his monitoring of IELTS, the slightest suspicious sign, makes him think that he has caught his wife's cheating hammer.
He was emotional and started to beat IELTS and vent his anger recklessly.
Fourth, the extreme desire for a position of power is his inner demon, and eventually it also eats him back.
He Feng has an extreme desire for wealth and power in his heart, for this desire, he can not be "himself", he can also sacrifice family affection and friendship, this is his heart demon, he succeeded because of this heart demon, and this heart demon eventually devoured himself.
He defeated Song Shiwan in one fell swoop, raised an eyebrow and said to his son: In the future, our father and son will join hands and show their fists and feet.
The son finally understood his father's good intentions over the years, but he also felt uneasy and afraid, He Zhenan said: "I want to see clearly, this person in front of me is not the Daddy I used to know."
He Zhenan could not understand that his father was already a figure on the list of Hong Kong's richest people, what was the point of not being the first, why did he think so carefully for the position of the richest man, and the organs were calculated.
He couldn't understand his father because he didn't have the ambition of his father.
He Feng has a great desire for power, never give up until he reaches the top, even after the kidnapping incident, he knows that his body is no longer competent for high-intensity work, he also wants to control the overall situation, he pushes IELTS to the front of the stage, lets her take charge of the group business, controls behind the scenes, once IELTS has something that he does not do as he wants, he scolds and strikes, because whenever he feels that his interests are threatened, he will rise from the heart intolerable fear.
After the kidnapping, he has post-traumatic stress disorder, but he does not trust anyone, refuses to accept treatment, and only locks himself in a small room at home, allowing his demons to rage, and eventually ends up depressed.
Compared with He Feng's ending, there is also a small role in this drama, Sun Huaide, Kang Dad's boss, who has also been kidnapped, but from beginning to end, his temperament has not changed in the slightest.
After being kidnapped, Mr. Sun not only did not worry about his own safety, but also taught the kidnappers not to self-destruct their future, and others were fighting for his suffering, but he did not identify the kidnappers and wanted to let people go.
Even after knowing who the kidnappers were, he also paid for them to help the kidnappers change their lives.
Mr. Sun repays his grievances with virtue, accepts others with a broad mind, and lets others go, so his heart has never been burdened and can be frank and comfortable.
The same encounter, the two people's ending is completely different, so the key is not what happened, but how the individual treats it.
There have never been natural disasters, only man-made disasters.
If being tied up is a disaster from heaven, He Feng's inner demon is a man-made disaster.
Things are not like He Feng believes that "the less others know about me, the safer I am", but to let go of the psychological burden, he can be safe.
Everything one sees and feels is a projection of self-consciousness.
A good person, everyone is a good person, a trustworthy person, and a person who is hostile to others, in his eyes, everyone is against him, and anyone can harm him.
If He Feng didn't have so many interests and power in his eyes and not so many calculations in his heart, he wouldn't have looked vicious because of fear, and he wouldn't have died so early, and a generation of tyrants would have fallen, which was regrettable.
About author:Yang Yiyun, a national second-level psychological counselor, author of the best-selling book "Controlling Emotions". WeChat public account: A little psychology (ID: yidianxinlixue123).