In early March, when many major events occurred at home and abroad, the entertainment gossip that rushed to the hot search was only the news of the big S flash marriage.
An uproar and singing on the Internet, many people do not understand how big S flash marriage again.
In reality, the real motives of these two people are unknown, but the following dialogue is interpreted in the TV series, and it may be possible to understand the psychological activities and similar motives of those who are flashing marriages.
1. Background
The woman was 40 years old, had a marriage, divorced after her husband had an affair, and lived alone with her 12-year-old daughter, only a few months before the end of the previous marriage.
The man is 35 years old, rich second generation, handsome and golden, just chased after the current fiancée a few months ago, but also just began to get married, and finally after convincing the father, decided to marry his fiancée, because of a chance encounter with the woman, love at first sight, decided to abandon his fiancée and pursue the woman.
After dumping his fiancée that night, he rushed to the door of the woman's company the next day to meet and have dinner.
The reason is that when the man met the woman on the previous golf course, the woman was very generous to admit that she had just divorced, and the dashing attitude impressed the man.
Later, in an outpatient clinic, the man heard the woman screaming in the clinic room, crying and snatching the door out, and then he took his fiancée to play a roller coaster to hear whether his girlfriend's screams could make his heart move, unfortunately his girlfriend did not scream, so he came back from the playground and decided to break up with his fiancée.
Second, confession and marriage proposal after love at first sight
The man who watched the scene said to marry me, which scared the woman.
The woman felt that the two had only met once, which must be a joke.
The woman feels that the man is too impulsive, the man said that he has talked about many girlfriends, think he is very rational, so he has not been married until now, in order to date the woman, just broke up with his fiancée.
Very well said.
The woman thought that such a short idea was normal, and it was considered an episode.
The man is very adamant that he will not change, and the woman sitting opposite is the partner he wants to spend the rest of his life with.
The man is well aware of the woman's mentality after the divorce, although the woman said that she was five years older than him and had a 12-year-old daughter, but the man did not care, even if he abandoned the unmarried singer's fiancée, he would marry the woman.
Because he fell.
The woman said to let him think about it in a different position, if he proposed to a man who had only met once, would the other party feel crazy.
The man said to divide the situation, like now the two can talk, both are single, the standard is quite good, there is no reason to refuse.
Then the man said a lot of affectionate words, and sure enough, the woman was an auditory animal.
The woman's attitude slowly eased.
The two began to talk and laugh.
The woman thinks that the other party is fresh, because she has not been in contact with a divorced woman, so she mistakenly regards her sister's tenderness as a fantasy.
The man asks the woman if she has ever had a boyfriend who is five years younger than himself, so don't predict things that have not been tried.
Then begin a confession.
The woman felt frightened and felt too burdened, but the man said that I could say it gently, but that's how I like you, depending on how you accept it.
The woman wants to start from the friend to understand, the man feels that there is no need, since the feelings have arrived, it is time to get married and have children.
Halfway through dinner, the woman realized that the man opposite was a master of the love scene.
The man thinks that the woman has a history of marriage after all, and should know more about men than himself, so the level of the two is equal, which is very appropriate.
Elementary school students and college students can't talk together, even junior high school students and high school students don't have much in common, although they will talk for a while, listen for a while, but they can't be too long.
The woman asks her feelings if it is not important, but the man rightly says that it is precisely because of the importance that he will try to persuade the other party to accept himself and marry himself.
Then the man began a new round of confessional proposals.
The woman began to shift the subject, believing that her conditions the man's parents would certainly not agree to.
The man said that everything has a sequence, and since the result is the same, it is up to him to decide the order.
The man said that even if he crossed the mountains, he would marry the woman for the rest of his life, and if the ex-husband let her lose trust in the man, no matter how difficult it was, he would try to make the other party trust the man again.
That's why he is so frank and frank, and only through personal experience will he not regret it.
Why not try it hard and really don't want to remarry?
Second, one night to win the woman's love field master
The woman went from being very panicked to the two of them laughing and eating this confession dinner.
At this time, the fiancée who was abandoned by the man was drunk at home, and he was in great pain.
The man is talking to the woman about having a second child after marriage, and his child must be born with the woman, and discussing the honeymoon to Provence, France and other topics.
The woman feels that the man is only 23 years older than his daughter, but the man says that many men become fathers at the age of 20, and once again emphasizes that it is not impulsive and temporary emotions, and he is willing to wait for the woman to agree to marry him, whether it is a year or two.
At this time, the woman's heart has been completely captured.
Then the man said that he could take her daughter to the amusement park tonight, and he was only watching from the side, and the woman was surprised and felt that the other party did not consider whether he was very tired.
The man said how tired it would be to play with his lovely daughter.
Although the woman was ostensibly rejected, she still asked her daughter to go to the amusement park.
After a meal of kung fu, the man successfully pursued his prey.
The next day, the man wanted to meet the woman downstairs before the business trip, although the woman still insisted on not taking the initiative to hug the man, but the man did not hold back, chased to the elevator entrance, kissed the woman, the woman just went from there.
The two began a sweet date.
Third, enlightenment
After watching this affectionate confession, it is not surprising that a divorced woman who can take down a divorced woman who has only met with her once in one night can quickly rekindle her first love after a month of divorce, and flash marriage.
Women's auditory animals, men's visual animals, which are the most primitive impulses, coupled with a lot of halos and interest considerations, modern people's marriage is more and more like fast food fast food. 、
There is no reverence for marriage, and divorce has become commonplace.