In the past two days, the news about Brilliance Chenyu's new love affair has spread wildly.
I believe that everyone has seen the video content, here is not much to say, today I will simply talk about whether these two people are really lovers.
When Brilliance Chenyu's new relationship was first exposed, it was still early March, and the reason why I only wrote about two people now is because I found that between these two people, it seems that it is not as simple as a scandal.
First of all, introduce the identity of the heroine.
The girl in the photo is called Wang Yueyi, a post-95 girl, who is also 25 years old this year.
Although there is no fame in the entertainment industry, it is also a small Internet celebrity, and there have been two works, but there is no splash.
The most familiar thing for everyone is probably the identity of the creator of her eye bag frog emoji.
Flipped through her Weibo homepage, quite a black tail sauce that smells, very free a girl.
At first, the two were exposed to a new relationship, because they did not have any response, so netizens did not take it seriously.
However, there are also enthusiastic netizens who have archaeologized the bits and pieces between the two, and through a series of dark pokes and pokes, netizens have found that the relationship between the two seems to be not so simple.
For example, the two people's front and back feet are dyed with the same color of hair, and even the way the ears are wearing studs is exactly the same;
Another example is the same photo gesture of two people;
As well as the current heads of the two, it is very coupled.
The most convincing is Wang Yueyi's song list, all of which are Hua Chenyu's songs.
After being discovered by netizens, she set the playlist to a private mode.
This operation is quite a bit like the feeling of three hundred and two silver here.
So you say that if these two people have nothing to do with each other, it seems to be too absolute.
However, rather than whether the two people are really in love, I am more concerned about what exactly is this girl Trying Hua Chenyu? (Not that Brilliance is not good, do not spray)
As we all know, in celebrity love, most of the parties that are most likely to be sung down are strength problems.
Hua Chenyu's strength, needless to say, but after the love affair was exposed, the most unwilling was the woman's fans.
Yeah, what was she trying to do?
The mathematician Pascal has such a description of love: once a great soul begins to fall in love, it is extraordinaryly enthusiastic.
Once people fall in love, the real gods and horses are floating clouds.
Take Brilliance Chenyu, as a social partner, I believe that he definitely has a lot of remarkable places.
But if he is married, he really needs too much time to grow.
If you want love to go on for a long time, it is enough to maintain passion; but marriage is far from enough.
Hua Chenyu gave people the feeling that he had always been a particularly pure big boy.
For example, when it comes to emotions, he will be shy to the point of being helpless; when it comes to some words about sex, he is also confused; as for falling in love, he also has no feelings, simply on the line.
As a result, what makes people drop their jaws is that there is a child when they turn their faces.
On January 22, 2021, Zhang Bichen wrote an article with gentle wording and no dissatisfaction with Brilliance.
What about Brilliance? The full text is 10 words without any explanation or apologies.
Later, it was still the network public opinion that rebuked too strongly, and Hua Chenyu only had a second post, but zhang Bichen was not mentioned from beginning to end.
After that, Hua Chenyu continued his route of pure love boy, while Zhang Bichen, because of the sudden child, the career stopped for a while.
Did Brilliance Ever Love Zhang Bicheng?
I believe there is, but I believe he loves himself more.
Otherwise, he would not let Zhang Bicheng bear all of it alone, and he would not be able to say a word when Zhang Bicheng was scolded by his fans as a sieve.
There's a good saying:
"Love is something that begins with appearance, is trapped in talent, is loyal to character, obsessed with the flesh, obsessed with sound, and finally defeated by reality." And marriage is something related to love, but it is more of a sense of responsibility, a sense of responsibility for the family, a sense of responsibility for the partner. ”
Marriage without a sense of responsibility can hurt people the most.
I still remember that earlier, I talked to my friends about the criteria for choosing a mate, and at that time, we who had not yet been beaten by life, invariably put true love first.
With feelings, what bite the teeth doesn't all hold on?
But now I find that the idea is naïve and a little silly.
Choosing a partner is not only a bondage to emotions, but also a sign of life settlement, which affects not only yourself, but also the next generation.
Adults have enough to drink, but what about children?
A partner without a sense of responsibility is a deadly poison, and if you haven't experienced it, it's just your child sharing your partner's inaction with you.
"As soon as I was born, everyone knew who I was, but I didn't know who I was", "I didn't ask him for money, I just wanted him to tell me what happened when I was a child".
An accident between Jackie Chan and Wu Qili brought Wu Zhuolin into this world, and Wu Qili gave her a nickname: Little Dragon Girl.
The name sounds very cherished, but the life of the little dragon girl is fragmented.
Because of Lin Fengjiao's forbearance, Jackie Chan was able to return to the family with her whole body, and Wu Qili and Xiaolongnü were not so smooth.
Because of Jackie Chan's abandonment, "wild children no one wants" has become the most obvious label on the little dragon girl. Because she has no father, she is bullied at school, and she is pointed out by neighbors as a wild child... Even her mother, Wu Qili, had never tried to care for her in the past.
Wu Qili was very strict with Xiaolongnü, strict to the point of being a little extreme.
The little dragon girl did not obey, so she let her hold the thick book "Ci Hai" and stood for 2 hours;
The little dragon girl did not want to sleep, so she punished her for constantly copying "I do not sleep" until 5 a.m.;
When the little dragon girl is older, she directly hits it with a belt.
Wu Qili admitted that she was a crazy mother, but she did not feel that she was wrong.
Why?
Because she thinks she's the biggest victim.
But what did the little dragon girl do wrong?
From cutting her wrists and self-harming herself to repeatedly arresting her mother and arresting her at the police station, many people have only seen her rebellion, but have never understood her unbearable and uneasy.
In the book "A good marriage is to fall in love with each other again and again", it is said that we are the first model couple in the life of our children.
Our attitude toward our marriage is the first premarital counseling lesson for our children. ”
A bad marriage hurts no doubt two generations.
Psychologist Zhou Guoping once said this:
Sex is physical life, following the principle of pleasure. Love is the spiritual life, following ideal principles. Marriage is social life, following the principles of reality. These are three completely different things.
The difficulty of marriage lies in how to unify the three in the same opposite sex, not to let the temptations and pleasures of the habitual paralysis, not to let the trivial reality damage the passion and ideal of love.
The difficulty of marriage is that marriage is a social organization that by nature demands stability, but sex, which is its natural basis, is naturally inclined to trade.
Love and marriage are not equal, and house and home are definitely not a meaning.
This is one of the reasons why I advise both men and women to be cautious.
Because it's not just about you alone, it's also about being responsible for your next generation.
Bill Gates was once asked, "The smartest decision in your life is to create Microsoft, or to do charity?" ”
Bill Gates replied: "No, it's about finding the right person to marry." ”
The appropriateness here is not only the two people's heart-to-heart connection, but also the righteousness in the face of difficulties and the sense of responsibility to share with each other.
Men should take their wives seriously, and in the same way, women should also polish their eyes and marry people.
Qi Wei said: "Marriage is not the terminal station of love, marriage is just one of the big stations of the love train, you decide to buy a ticket (get a license) at this station, whether you can sit all the way to the end, it is not easy to say." ”
If the purpose of the trip is unknown, let's try to choose a scenery that can bring us a good mood.
At the end of the article, send a carnegie's words to all the girls: women, in a lifetime, can not identify jewelry, identify clothing, but must learn to identify men.
Reading countless people is not as good as reading people have skills, the end of the article is lit up and praised, we encourage together!
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