Because my articles always focus on the concept of "constellations and personalities".
There are many readers and friends, in the communication with the author, often ask some questions about the "constellation".
However, recently because of the articles Written by the author, they are all about the analysis of the "deep psychology of the constellation".
The questions asked by readers also began to "change in style", and they all began to revolve around "philosophy".
Yesterday, a reader friend asked the author: "Teacher, what kind of personality traits do you think are most needed for "success"?" ”
The author thought about it for a while and then replied: "Persistence"!
Why do I think "persistence" is a necessary element of "success"?
You can think about whether the most successful people in your circle of friends are the people who have insisted on doing one thing for years and never given up.
You can also recall that among the people you know, if there is a person who has "a skill" and does a better job than others, it comes from "perseverance and accumulation over the years"?
Well, again, she can stand out in a certain area: whether it's when everyone is bored and pulling out a guitar to pop up a moving melody; or when everyone else is helpless, she suddenly comes and solves the problem.
They all mean that she is needed by others; and the essence of "economy, market, society" lies in "demand": when your "specialty" is needed by more people, your "personal value" will be more obvious, and then you will be closer and closer to "success".
In terms of feelings, the same is true: if you have a friend of ten years and a friend you have just met for a week, her understanding of you will obviously be different from how well she fits in with you.
And she thinks about you, and the possibility of thinking about you will be greater.
Then, it means that you are more likely to be "happy".
If "success" represents "harvest": then, you can persist in "friendship, love", which means that it is easy to "succeed" with you.
Therefore, the author believes that persistence = harvest = success!
So, what kind of personality do people who know how to persevere generally have?
They will generally be more "focused", when looking for a thing, they will not easily choose to give up; for an interest, she will be more affectionate; for others, they will know how to be grateful and cherish.
Therefore, the more "focused" people are, the more "it is easy to persist", which also means "the easier it is to succeed"!
That's why whether it's a "love story, a struggle story," or a kind of movie or TV series.
When you see a persistent person, your heart will be moved; when you see an incomparably loyal partner and lover, you will be full of warmth and yearning.
Because: you know deep down - "Those who know how to persevere, sooner or later will become the most shining!" ”
Some people will say: This also has a lot to do with "chance and luck"!
However, today, I will talk about a "chance and luck" are particularly good, but it is always easy to miss a constellation that is "at your fingertips" everything.
Let you understand that "chance and luck" is not a panacea.
Tell you about how this sign differs from other signs.
So, which constellation is going to be talked about today, which is "Gemini"!
Gemini: The zodiac sign surrounded by "good luck" and "chance" is "full of regrets"!
If someone asks me: Which of the twelve zodiac signs is the luckiest?
The author's answer must be: "Gemini"!
Why?
Generally, "Gemini" children will be more favored in childhood.
Because of a "clever, talkative, learning" fast kid, no one will not like it.
Moreover, "Gemini" is often lucky enough to be the most anticipated child of all: if a large family is a boy, she will be a girl; and a large family, all girls, when he wants a boy, although he is late, but he does not violate it at all.
Therefore, it can be said that "Gemini" is "lucky" from birth!
And with the growth, the care of the family, love; coupled with the "high IQ" of the "opposite sex psychology" that understands the "opposite sex psychology" regardless of the appearance value.
They generally do not lack too much money in the "growth period" and are also very good at dressing, especially they will adjust their voice, makeup, clothing, and communication methods according to the "preferences of the opposite sex".
Therefore, they generally decide: "As long as I like people, there is nothing I can't do!" ”
Moreover, wherever they appear, they feel that they are the "center of the whole field".
So, basically " Gemini " can become a "protagonist" anywhere; any "opportunity" she wants will come to her.
But is it possible for "good luck and chance" to take "Gemini" all the way up?
Not really.
Because she can "meet the opportunity", does not mean that "she can seize the opportunity"; "good luck" with her does not mean that she will "cherish good luck".
The reason is because "Gemini" has too much.
So, many times, she will have a "sense of crisis": she does not understand that something is missed, that is, forever.
She also doesn't know that "chance and good luck" is not endless.
Therefore, basically the more Geminis who have "luck and chance" when they are young, basically the more regrets they have in their hearts when they are older.
The reason is that they do not understand "cherishing" and do not understand "persistence", which has caused mistakes.
And these mistakes will become permanent regrets, staying in their hearts.
Especially in terms of "love", Gemini is the easiest to "easily" leave a person who loves himself very much and knows how to take care of himself for various strange reasons.
Therefore, geminis who are "married" become contradictions that always think about the past and have to face reality.
Gemini: Unlimited "procrastination" to enjoy "good times" and the reality of having to face
If Gemini has any "divine skills", it is estimated that she can completely forget her troubles in front of happiness.
And there is no sense of "thinking of danger in times of peace".
And this "divine skill" is like a talent.
Therefore, the general "sense of responsibility" is a stronger constellation, similar: Virgo, Scorpio, Aries, will choose to do what should be done first, and then play, while "Gemini" is "play first" and then do what should be done.
If these "things to do" can be postponed any longer, basically "Gemini" will choose "unlimited procrastination"!
This can be seen from the homework written by "Gemini" when she was a child: she always went to play first, played until she was almost at bed, suddenly remembered that the homework had not been written, and then cried and made up for it.
When she was a little older, she might be able to pay attention to the things that others entrusted to her.
But if at this time, there is something "fresh and happy" that attracts her, she will start to count the time, and she will feel that there will be no delay.
And with that "moving heart" drive: enough time, she will go; not enough time, she will lie to herself enough, still have to go.
Therefore, basically Gemini basically can not withstand any temptation, under the premise of absolute optimism and poor self-control, she seems to inevitably open the "magic box" of "Pandora": even if she regrets it very much afterwards and blames herself; she cannot control her heart that yearns for "happiness".
This also leads to: although Gemini learns everything quickly, she is easy to give up halfway and has no end to anything.
The understanding of either aspect is high, but always knows everything halfway and does not seek to understand much.
It is also for this reason that Gemini will generally be the most popular after entering a small team.
After a period of time together, she is also the most likely to be "isolated".
The reason is simple: no one likes to make excuses for everything, procrastinate, and talk very strongly, but when they really do things, they are very weak.
Therefore, many times, when "Gemini" is enjoying happiness, she will not worry about anything, nor will she have any worries.
It wasn't something she pretended.
But when she herself thinks of everything she "missed", and then thinks of the "responsibility" she has escaped; these are like heavy burdens, when she is lonely, when she is in her dreams.
If you have a familiar Gemini friend, you go to see her pillow: it must be full of "tear stains"!
Gemini: The most unique "reason" and inertia of not being able to "empathize"!
Many people have said to this writer: "People who know how to think differently are generally not too inconsiderate of others!" ”
However, this does not apply to "Aquarius, Gemini".
Deep down, she will feel that she will think for the sake of others, and she also knows how to "think in a different position".
But because of her heart that yearns for "freedom and happiness", it will restrict them from "not being able to change their positions", or using her "thinking mode" to substitute for others, and everything will be "taken for granted".
Therefore, many times you go out with Gemini, you go to buy a food, you will ask her in advance what she wants to eat.
And she goes shopping, basically doesn't care about you, directly buys what she likes, and lets you watch from the side.
When you have some conflict, she will reason with you at the beginning.
But this "reason" is talking about it, and she herself can't talk about it clearly, so she will change it to "nonsense", and put forward a series of words that have nothing to do with this matter and have no meaning at all to stir up, so that you can't continue to say it.
Moreover, they are very good at one thing obviously blame her, you are not angry, she is angry; obviously she is not happy, she can still blame all the problems on you, and then it is a series of "pretending to be pitiful, pretending to be innocent".
It feels helpless.
Especially, when in love, if it is a controlling sign such as "Scorpio, Virgo", it will be extremely hot when it encounters Gemini.
He will be very nervous about what the "Gemini lovers" are doing, what they are thinking, and why they can't reply to the message in time.
In his mind, this is how they "care" about a person.
And "Gemini" can do it even in the face of such a personality: "one person talks to three people" or does not say anything - because she understands, she can not explain clearly; and she does not want to be so troublesome.
Most importantly, she doesn't think it's "caring", she thinks it's a "limitation": she can't understand in her heart why it is "love" to stick together; is it bad to find you when I need you?
But, on the other hand, think about it: when others need her, isn't it also natural to come to her?
In gemini's world, though, it's something she'll never understand.
Therefore, many people have experienced such a bridge: a Gemini person, you desperately care about her, give her, she does not appreciate.
On the contrary, she does not care much about her, and the people who occasionally contact her, she will be a "treasure" instead.
Therefore, "Gemini" is really confusing, and it is really different!
The above is the author's analysis of the differences between Gemini and other zodiac signs.
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