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Xu Weizhou was too difficult, but this was something he had to face and endure. Some say he was very cautious about marriage. That's a must, and it's telling to see how the fans react.
This is a grown man, and it is his freedom not to marry, to marry anyone. It's just that this "freedom" is relative, and his more constraint is not from the idol can not get married - but that everyone's CP can not BE.
As long as he sings well and acts well, he is a good star. Other times, please return Xu Weizhou to himself. After all, he still has to live for himself.
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But he still apologized in his own super words, because he did not announce the relationship and directly announced the marriage.
He needs to apologize, has a girlfriend and participates in the love roundup, and also forms CP with other girls. How unfair this was to the girlfriend at the time, but also to hide from the fans. What kind of situation that girl is, at least Xu Weizhou should not be like this.
The Internet has a memory, and even if time has passed, it still cannot be erased. Be nice to your wife, she has made a lot of sacrifices.
So in addition to apologizing, Xu Weizhou also said, "I met that kind, cute, and understanding girl, she is willing to accompany me for the rest of my life, and I also want to give her all the happiness in this world." ”
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What is the meaning of marriage? Is that the highest level of love, or is it the completion of love? Is that the highest temple of love, or is it the grave where it is buried? A thousand people have a thousand answers, but many more people still don't give up on marriage.
There are unmarried people who decide to get married, and that's because only then can two people really be together. For example, for emergency contacts, you write "wife (husband)"; but writing "girlfriend (boyfriend)" doesn't make any sense at all.
This is just an example of how important marriage means to a person. Not just the form, but a more unquestionable position in identity.
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Once in a lifetime, one or two, everyone wants to hold the hand of the son and grow old with the son. That can't be said, it still needs to be put into practice.
Xu Weizhou said, "I also want to give her all the happiness in this world", which is the most correct idea for married men. When you come back from marrying a wife, you are not looking for a "mother". She is not your life nanny, and her existence is not to go into the kitchen and get out of the hall. She doesn't have you at the center of her life, she has her own time and her own world.
At least if you're good to her, that's the guarantee of happiness. As a husband, shouldn't that be? (Text/Drifting Yutong) Fans think about it from another angle: this is also a man with responsibility and responsibility, and you are not in love with the wrong person.
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It also reminds me of my good friend Ami, who successfully became a "double-lost" woman a few years ago. Lost love, it was her choice. Unemployed, that was her resignation. cause? She was in love with her ex-boyfriend who had been running for many years.
This boyfriend is very good to Ami and can give her anything but marriage. I used to wonder, "Ami, he's not married." "No, he just likes this free identity." "You're proposing to break up?" "Yes, I think the greatest love for a woman is marriage. Nothing else. If you don't have a heart, I'll rest. ”
Or, the man didn't love her enough. If this is true love, he will definitely regret his insistence. Alas, he had missed the woman who loved him the most.
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Then, look at Xu Weizhou again – you will understand why he made such a choice. Because of love, marriage has unprecedented courage and determination.
Xu Weizhou said: "Regardless of whether others are considerate and blessed, I will go forward without hesitation, there are many wrong things in this world that cannot be done, but the right things should be done, and I feel that marrying my wife is the most right thing I have ever done in my life!" ”
Very good, unswerving love! We, just send our sincere wishes...
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