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After two months of self-discipline, I finally witnessed the best version of myself.
Two months ago, I lived a life of reaching out to my husband for money and lacking dignity, he did not respect me very much, I was also particularly insecure in this marriage, often depressed, anxious, and now, I spend a lot of time writing to make money, I don't care if he respects me, I feel much better.
My biggest change was that I started doing self-media, and I took doing self-media as my side hustle.
But I put in more energy than I do at work.
After all, going to work is from Monday to Friday, and in addition to using four or five hours a day to do self-media, I am also focused on self-media for two days on the weekend.
During these two months, I didn't have any entertainment activities, and the only thing to relax was to grow vegetables.
Someone asks me if I'm tired?
To be honest, it is false to say that you are not tired, really tired, every day the shoulders are sore, and the neck is also very sore.
However, watching the total income increase little by little, watching the number of fans increase little by little, I feel that everything is worth it.
First, earned the first side income in his life
My side hustle is to write in today's headlines.
I mainly write micro headlines, and I write ten micro headlines a day.
If I still have time, I will write Q&A and articles.
Last month, I also wrote out two blockbuster micro-headlines and received a blockbuster certification from the headlines.
The way to write micro headlines is to first go to the headlines to brush the hot spots, brush up on the collection, and then expand all angles to write one when you have time.
The main types of blockbusters I often come out are as follows:
1, there is a very important thing, others may not know, if you share it, it will get everyone's attention.
I wrote this article relatively early, it was written in February, but I saw someone write a similar one the other day, which also exploded, which shows that no matter when, as long as it is useful information to everyone, it will still attract everyone's attention.
Here is a screenshot from the previous one
2, there is a commodity, the price is particularly expensive, others can not think of, take this matter out to write, will also get a lot of people's attention.
Just like Wang Sicong's bag of noodles is actually worth 850 yuan, then everyone will pay attention to it, and they are curious about what kind of noodles it is.
3) There are some people who are social celebrities, and everyone knows that someone wrote an article about him. Then if you can summarize this article and write a post-reading feeling, it is also very good.
You can also try this method.
4, there is one thing that makes others unexpected.
For example, the New Year should be happy, that look is the "worst year", then others will be very interested, just click in to see what happened. As long as the story you describe is really bad, it won't make others feel exaggerated.
5, some variety shows are very popular, there are many people watching, if you have some special views at this time, you can write one.
Because this variety show originally has its own traffic, if you write it again, there will be many netizens who will express their opinions.
6, related to money, beyond the imagination of many people, generally speaking, it is more attractive.
What I wrote about this is the real thing. It is a big family of ours to go to the movies, my family and the two families of the uncle to go to see together, a dozen people, during the New Year movie tickets are also more expensive. Each family pays for each other's own family, and there is not so much trouble.
In general: related to celebrities, Internet celebrities, money, gold jewelry, houses, house prices, and emotions, they are more attractive.
Everyone can try it.
I usually brush the headlines first every day, and sometimes I brush up on a hot event to know what happened that day.
Every day there are some hot events that we can all write about.
There are also some incidents, I don't want to use the same picture as the original blogger, I went to Baidu search, and the result was searched and searched for more information that interested me.
For example, yesterday I saw a person on the Internet who wrote an article about an egg shoe, and the shoes sold for 11,800 yuan.
I first went to Taobao Global to find a picture of this pair of shoes, and then took a screenshot of the picture with the price.
Then I went to Baidu to search for this shoe, and I found the same series of chicken feet shoes, soap shoes, and rose shoes, and I quickly wrote one.
Then in the process of searching, a few more articles came out, and I searched for several dynamic pictures through an article, one of which was a model walking crookedly in shoes, and I quickly wrote one.
You see, you search and search, you will find more interesting pictures.
We can write micro-headlines, and the text is completely written by ourselves.
Second, strive to open up a second side business
I'm currently looking at cooking videos and making breakfast videos as my second side hustle.
Preparations are still in progress.
Third, even if you have had a good time in marriage, you must have a wonderful life
When I was determined to change my life on my own, I also made an effort in my marriage.
But I'm not for my husband, I'm for me and my daughter.
I started getting up early and making a delicate breakfast.
I changed the tableware and small household appliances at home, regardless of the price, I considered the beauty and comfort.
I used to use a cup that broke, but now I throw it away and buy a new one.
If it shouldn't be saved, don't save it.
It is also important to be in a good mood.
Fourth, I don't want to be a traditional woman, I ask my husband to pay living expenses
From the day I woke up, I began to ask my husband for living expenses, and I asked him to pay three thousand yuan a month for groceries, daily necessities, etc. If he didn't give it, I refused to cook and do housework.
This money is only for living expenses, not for the salary paid to me.
But it was also very important to me, if I kept using my own money to buy vegetables and cook for the family, I would have nothing.
I used to be too traditional, unreservedly paying to my family, and the final fate was that I didn't save a penny, and my husband looked down on me.
When I complained that I was spending all the money I earned on the family's daily living expenses, my husband didn't pay attention to it at all, and he didn't reason with me.
In the beginning, he always procrastinated on living expenses, and every time he asked for money, he had to say: "Is it spent so quickly?" How can I remember to give it to you! ”
Every time he said this, I would feel very aggrieved, argue with him, and send him screenshots of the purchase list on Taobao and WeChat.
And today, I made a meal and called my child to eat, and he also came to eat, and I said, "Have you paid for your living expenses?" ”
He said, "I'll pay right away!" ”
He pays once every ten days, but each time it drags on for a few days.
I said, "Please pay on time, don't always let me talk to you!" I would like to stress again that this money is not the salary you give me, but is spent on the whole family to eat, drink and children, and I ask you not to always take the gesture of charity! I didn't rely on you to raise me! ”
He nodded and said, "Yes yes yes!" ”
Fifth, get a little respect from my husband
He used to me off when I used to argue with my husband.
For example, I said: "Other people's husbands don't let their wives work, and the money they earn is given to their wives, why can't you do that?" ”
He would say, "If you look like a celestial being, you can find a husband like that." ”
His disrespect for me is also for a reason, I make money is indeed far less than him, I go to work to mix days, after work when I come home, I will watch the children while watching online dramas with my mobile phone to brush short videos.
In his eyes, I am a woman who is not motivated.
So I didn't have the courage to argue with him before.
And now, anyway, I don't care if he respects me, I only see my daughter and making money.
For the past two months, I've been sitting in front of my computer typing every night, and I don't have time to deal with him, but he takes me seriously.
Although he still laughs at me from time to time, at least I dare not say that I rely on him to raise me.
Sixth, I got a little respect from my daughter
I used to say that I was 100% devoted to my daughter, she couldn't get up every morning, I was afraid that she would be late, so I went to help her get dressed and put on socks, which caused her to have a particularly poor self-care ability.
Now, I should cook anyway, I don't care if she's late for dinner, she's hungry.
I told her, "You have to go out at 7:40, and you have to leave without eating." You see for yourself! ”
I usually tell her, "I'm your mother, I'll do what I should do, I'll do the laundry and cook for you, and I'll check your homework." I don't care about the rest, you do your own thing, and I still have my writing tasks to complete. I want you to work with me. But if you are not willing to work hard, I will not force you, whatever you want, your life you control. ”
I found that I didn't care closely to my daughter anymore, and she seemed to respect me a little more.
Maybe I used to be a mom who played with her phone all day, and she didn't respect me.
And now, in her eyes, I have become a mother who works hard every day.
In any case, I can lead by example to influence her.
I said to myself: I am still young, it is too late to change now, the next few decades can not be muddy, I want to live a better quality, must come on!