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"What kind of person is the most suitable for you?" There is such a problem online.
Someone said: "The person who can make you fall in love at first sight is the person who is best for you, because such a person is often your soul mate." ”
It is also said: "Those who love in love but can't love are often the best people for you." ”
So is this really the case?
The answer is no.
The people who can make you fall in love at first sight are often not suitable for you at all, because those people are often people you can't climb high.
As Mr. Qian Zhongshu said: "In the field of mate selection, there is also an unwritten but very interesting law: a person's favorite and most memorable is often the person he/she does not deserve, in fact, there are so many male gods and goddesses, but they are not worthy of appearance, education, ability, family status, social status and other aspects;
And those who can't love are not the best people for you.
Yang Dai once said: "The person who is really suitable for you is not the person who loves but can't." The person who is really suitable for you is the person who is willing to accompany you when your life is at a low point. ”
So what kind of person is the most suitable person for themselves?
Whether the person is a good fit or not, don't look at what he says, but look at what he does to you.
His mouth may deceive you, but his behavior cannot deceive people.
Such a person is not for you.
The person who puts both responsibility and pressure on you is not for you.
In love, if your partner always pushes the responsibility and pressure on you alone, then it means that the other party does not love you at all, he is just an absolute egoist.
Just as in a love, if a man is unwilling to take responsibility for a woman and encounters difficulties, he will throw his brain to the woman, flee alone, and do not want to be in the same boat with the woman.
Do you say this man is a good fit?
The answer must be no, this man must not be suitable.
Because he has no sense of responsibility, it will only add pressure and trouble to women.
A person is unwilling to take responsibility for his partner, in the final analysis, not because he is unable to shoulder the responsibility, but because he thinks that the partner is not worthy, so he will shirk and escape.
Such a person cannot give happiness to his partner at all, so it is not suitable.
An inappropriate partner will make you feel stressed and miserable.
If you ask me, what kind of person is the most suitable?
I will definitely tell you that the person who can make you laugh all the time is the best person for you!
The person who is really suitable for you will always make you laugh, make you feel relaxed and happy, and let you live without any heart and resentment.
"The most beautiful love is that I am willing to spend my whole life to make you happy, even if I lied to you, you are willing to be deceived by me for a lifetime, and I am willing to make you happy for a lifetime into a vow!" 」
The person who is really right for you must be the one who makes you happy, not the one who has been torturing you.
People who don't always think about you, aren't for you.
In the relationship, the person who always does not consider you and makes you sacrifice for the big picture does not actually love you.
Because they only consider their own gains and losses in their hearts, and never really think about themselves.
They don't think about you, they don't think of you, they don't love you so much.
Think about it: when you're driving your partner's car, something goes wrong.
You call the other party, you want to get the comfort of your partner, but who knows that the partner's first sentence is: "My car is fine, did not hit someone else's car, you are not fully responsible" and so on.
Will you be in a good mood?
I think that you must not be in a good mood, but deeply doubt whether the other party loves you or not.
In fact, a person who always thinks about his own gains and losses first does not love you so much at all, so it is not appropriate.
The person who is really the right person for you must see you as the most important, and they care most about your feelings, not yourself.
Just like the truck driver who reported his wife safety in a car accident.
At that time, the driver of the pickup truck was sandwiched between his legs in the deformed cab after the accident, and the cargo and the scale at the back of the vehicle were also squeezed around the driver due to the impact, but he endured the pain, asked the surrounding firefighters not to make a sound, and answered the phone softly.
And ask the firefighter to save the money first, and then save him.
When asked why, he replied, "That money is important, my daughter-in-law is going to give birth soon." ”
You see, the people who really love you are all thinking about you, and everything is done for you.
People who don't love you don't care about you at all, they only care about their own gains and losses.
Even some people, even if you are sick, do not want you to spend money for you, let you carry it yourself, you say that such a person, can really give you happiness?
The answer goes without saying that such people simply don't give you happiness because they only care about themselves.
People who hate you in behavior are not appropriate.
Zhang Ailing said: "I thought that love can fill the regrets of life, but what creates more regrets is love. ”
When you like a person, your eyes are full of joy, and when you don't like a person, your eyes are often disgusted.
If a person is not even the slightest bit polite to you, nine times out of ten it is boring. If there is some physical disgust, then it is more likely to be disgust.
A person who physically rejects you must be inappropriate, because they don't love you at all.
A person may lie to you verbally, but his body cannot deceive you, because that is the instinctive reaction of his body.
Whether a person likes a person or not, his instinctive reaction is often the most real.
He will deliberately pull away from your rejection, he will instinctively reject your physical contact, and even laugh at you with the people around you.
The person who really loves you, he will say hello, but he will never allow others to say that you are not good because you are his heart meat.
People who will do this to you are not suitable for you, do not love you, do not waste time, and immediately stay away is the most responsible behavior for themselves.
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