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Speaking of nannies, many people's first reaction is nannies, a job that cannot be put on the table. That is, to help rich people wash and cook, and urinate the, so many people will look down on the job of nanny from the bottom of their hearts. I was different, from the beginning of an ordinary nanny, and then with the employer to live a life, really experienced the joy and happiness of being a hostess.
Ms. Wang said to herself.
I am 55 years old this year surnamed Wang, I am a native of the countryside, but I am not willing to be a rural person, so I work hard to study, earnestly struggle, change the environment I am in now.
When I was a child, my family was poor and I couldn't afford to read, so when other people went to school, I secretly followed. Then I listened to the teacher at the window outside the classroom, and when the teacher assigned homework, there was no homework written on the ground. Because I was desperate to read, only reading could change my life.
Then one day the teacher suddenly found me and asked me why I was always lying on the edge of the window. Later, I told the teacher that it was because of the poor conditions at home and I could not afford to read, so I could only study secretly. After the teacher listened, he felt awe in his heart for me, and then said: "Since you love to read, it is better to do this, and every day after school you will come to my house, and I will teach you privately." "Seeing the teacher say this, I did not hesitate to agree, because such an opportunity was too rare for me.
Later, under the patient guidance of the teacher, I was admitted to high school. However, the conditions in the family were not good, and there was no money to pay the tuition, so they could only give up. Although I can't go to school, it still can't stop my desire to learn. Even after I came out to work, I still insisted on reading every day.
With no money to study, I came out early to work. But now looking for a job is to pay attention to academic diplomas, if you do not have a degree, then you are excellent many companies will not want you. So no way, I went to interview one company after another and never found a job.
Just when I was desperate, I suddenly heard others say that the current nanny work, which does not pay attention to academic qualifications or social experience, as long as I try to do it and want to make money. In order to solve my own survival problems, I decided to give it a try.
My first employer was an aunt who was a people's teacher, and retiring in him I seemed to see the appearance of a former teacher. Don't stay with Gu Zong, it is particularly intimate, and even sometimes I will mistakenly think that he is the teacher who taught me that year, and I have a full sense of belonging in my heart. So when I was working, I was extremely serious and took care of it as my own relative. Slowly, my aunt saw that my little girl was very diligent and had a good personality, so she suggested that I be a live-in nanny at his house. First, the salary is high, and the second is to save rent, so I agreed.
In this way, I have been a live-in nanny in my aunt's house for more than 10 years, and for more than 20 years, I not only work hard and complain, but also as long as I have time, I will take a variety of books to read in my aunt's study to improve myself and enrich my knowledge. Slowly, I also regarded my aunt as my grandmother, and my aunt also treated me as a granddaughter.
When I reached the marriageable age, my aunt also introduced me to a partner, who was not bad, so it didn't take long to know each other, and we got married and had children. The pressure after marriage is also relatively large, but since my husband is a very good person, he has never let me suffer. Even hold me in the palm of your hand and love me like a daughter. I am very fortunate to have met such a loving husband in my life, and I have a pair of lovely children, this life is also a consummation, no regrets.
But the good times did not last long, when I was in my 40s, my husband suddenly died of illness. Because he usually works day and night at home, the pressure is relatively large, so he exhausts himself. At first, I had no way to accept it, if I left my husband, what would I do after that? How can I feed my children alone? Because I have never gone out to work in all these years, it is my husband who is taking care of me and giving me money to spend.
But now everything has changed, after my husband died, my health became worse and worse, and the whole person slowly became more and more decadent. But there is no way, I am still alive, then I should be optimistic to face the new life of each day. Later, under the persuasion of my children, I slowly walked out.
But life goes on, and without my husband I lose my financial resources. I had no choice but to go out and look for a job, but because I had never done any work, I used to be a nanny, and now you suddenly asked me to look for a job, and I didn't know what kind of job I was suitable for.
So you have to go back to your old job as a nanny, because nannies are not only demanding, but also have high salaries. In this way, I don't have to worry about my own life problems, and I don't have time to think alone, the best of both worlds. So I asked the housekeeping company to help me find an employer.
The current employer, surnamed Liu, is 80 years old. Uncle Liu is an entrepreneur, when he was young, he started his own business, and now he is old, he has saved a lot of money in his hand, his family conditions are good, and he lives in a large villa. However, because the children in the family are usually busy, he is alone at home and has no one to take care of him. So they asked me to take care of Uncle Liu, usually wash and cook for him, chat in his spare time, and pass the time. The work is still relatively easy, there is no pressure.
After a period of getting along, I found that the employer this time, Uncle Liu, was very good. Not only is the character good and loving, but he also takes everything very seriously. In addition, I especially appreciate his talent, although he is now 80 years old, but the years can not hide his past glory. The study was full of his various certificate trophies, and he was also middle-aged and elderly, and Uncle Liu became an idol in my heart.
Suddenly, one day Uncle Liu said to me: "He said Xiao Wang, how did you feel about being a nanny in our house recently?" I feel that you are a good person, and you love to learn, although you are old and often read books, I really appreciate you very much, because there are very few people as old as you, and there are people like you who love to learn. It is better that you move in to our house as a live-in nanny, so that you can not only save rent, but also work conveniently, without having to run around all day. ”
Later, I thought about it for a while, and indeed it was, so I agreed to Uncle Liu's request and moved to his house to be his live-in nanny. But after a while, I slowly found that Uncle Liu seemed to have a different feeling for me. Suddenly, one afternoon Uncle Liu said to me, "Xiao Wang, you have been living in our house for a while, how do you feel about me?" I think you're pretty good, and if you don't mind, let's live together. "At that time, I did not promise Uncle Liu, because I had to think about this issue carefully.
At night, I was lying on the bed and turning over, should I agree to Uncle Liu's request? If I had given him a live-in nanny, I would probably have been treated much better than I am now. Because the nanny is always a nanny, there is no right to speak. But if I live with him, it's like a hostess. In addition, I also admired Uncle Liu as a person, so after careful consideration, I decided to agree to Uncle Liu's request to live with him and have a companion.
I have to say that since I promised Uncle Liu to live together, my life has become better and better, happier and happier. Like in the past, when we were nannies, we all looked at what the owner liked to eat, so we could only follow what we ate. But now it's different, living with Uncle Liu, in the future, I will eat whatever I want.
Not only that, on weekdays, Uncle Liu's relatives and friends or former partners, as long as they come as a guest or invite us to go out to dinner and meet, Uncle Liu will tell them, this is my wife. The happiness that fills my heart is the feeling of being respected and valued, and being held in the palm of my hand.
Conclusion
I never thought that in my old age, I would still meet someone who was so good to me. From the beginning of the nanny was not welcomed by others, now with Uncle Liu to live a life as a hostess. I've gained respect and recognition, and I've met a lot of big people. I went from a rural woman to a graceful old woman today. All this is due to Uncle Liu, who gave me a happy old age.