#婚姻的两种猜想征文 #
Shen Mingbao, the heroine of the TV series "Two Conjectures of Marriage", was pregnant in October, and gave birth to a pair of cute twin babies, and gave up the job she loved and brought the baby alone at home.
In fact, for Shen Mingbao, this time is actually her most vulnerable time, out of shape, because she has to take care of her children and can no longer go her own way.
What makes her even more unbearable is that she has to take care of her children, can't go out to work, and loses her financial independence.
Who was her only life-saving straw? Of course, it is her husband, Yang Zheng, who cares and considerates in family life.
Unexpectedly, Yang Zheng was busy at work, often working overtime, not only did not know how to care about his wife Shen Mingbao, but instead let Shen Mingbao's mobile phone receive a photo of him and his boss in the late-night office.
Shen Mingbao, her last straw is gone, she completely collapsed, with her two children, ran away from home, fortunately there is a good sister Xue Kexin to take in, not to live on the street.
What's next for her? Angry and divorced, a single mother? Or was he completely depressed and never recovered?
None of this, as an independent woman, she strives to complete her self-redemption.
Patiently listen to the advice of good sisters
When Shen Mingbao suspected that her husband really had an ambiguous relationship with the company boss Zhao Songwen, how was her good girlfriend Xue Kexin judged?
Xue Kexin: "Do you think, Zhao Songwen is a watertight person, she meets with a man, will she leave a slit in the door and secretly shoot people?" ”
Shen Mingbao: "That was sent to me on purpose?" ”
Xue Kexin: "At least there are doubts." ”
This really made Xue Kexin right, this is the bureau set up by Zhao Songwen.
Yang Zheng because of eating instant noodles, shirt splashed into the soup, dirty. Just happened to have a new shirt in the office, when he was changing, Zhao Songwen came in, saw that the hangtag was not cut, deliberately helped him cut the shirt tag, someone took the opportunity to take this ambiguous photo, in fact, it was a misplaced photo.
Of course, all the coincidences were arranged by Zhao Songwen in advance.
What is Zhao Songwen's purpose in doing this?
Xue Kexin: "The day you gave birth to the child, there was a lot of bleeding, although Yang Zheng arrived at the hospital late, he still left the company's mess and came to the hospital desperately." It was this incident that hurt her self-esteem and she wanted to win it back. ”
Shen Mingbao: "She is sick, right?" ”
Xue Kexin: "Giant infantile disease is like this. ”
Through Xue Kexin's persuasion, Shen Mingbao herself rationally analyzed that she really did not fall for Zhao Songwen.
Active emotional counseling, not evasion
In addition to Shen Mingbao's willingness to patiently listen to her girlfriend's analysis, she also did a very right thing, that is, to take the initiative to emotional counseling.
There is a problem in the marriage, and the most terrible thing is not that you are hurt, but that you are deeply involved in the hurt you have set, and this is the most painful.
Maybe marriage counseling won't solve your marital problems in one step, but at least it will sober you up and make you think.
Shen Mingbao asked the doctor, "Can I do something?" ”
Doctor: "Exercise more, relax and take care of yourself." ”
Although it was only a few simple words, for Shen Mingbao, who needed to be warned psychologically, this was a golden jade good word.
She is no longer confused, but more determined to think that marriage is not an escape, but to face reality.
She made her own decision, "I thought it over, I'll go back tomorrow, go back to recover the lost land, stay here (girlfriend's house) is not my style." 」 ”
Therefore, Shen Mingbao returned home with the baby.
When she left home, she felt like a soldier who had lost a battle and fled into the wilderness, and when she returned home with full energy, her face was full of confidence and strength, as well as freedom, which was the joyful Shen Mingbao.
To be a woman, you should be like Shen Mingbao, face the problem head-on, dare to face it, work hard to solve it, and at the same time take care of yourself.
Such a woman is more beautiful!