Text/Little Fan Emotion
Chen Xin'er was a demon again.
The last time she wanted to jump off a building to commit suicide, she was persuaded by Ning You, who told her that she and Jian Hongcheng could not be in this life, because they had a vendetta against their father.
Chen Xin'er realized that she had misunderstood Jian Hongcheng and Ning You, and under the persuasion of Tian Jingye, she realized that she could not continue to decadence. So I decided to find a job.
Chen Xin'er was an excellent talent many years ago, and she quickly got started working in the new company, quickly gained the appreciation of the new boss, and was ready to transfer her to the finance department.
But where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, and there are people in the narrow sense of the jianghu, and naturally there are also dark villains.
Chen Xin'er's excellence was soon jealous of the supervisor, so he secretly investigated her, Shunten touched the melon and shook out the fact that she had stolen the company's bid many years ago, and Chen Xin'er was expelled.
Chen Xin'er was very broken, and a person who was hit naturally wanted to be comforted by his relatives. So she came to Shanghai with a small sweet potato. But it was a coincidence that he saw the picture of Jian Hongcheng and Ning You together. She picked up her phone and took a picture of the two together.
Chen Xin'er looked at the photos on her mobile phone and hated it to the bone, but she still had the last glimmer of hope for Jian Hongcheng, she wanted to make a final effort, she first made two phone calls to verify the truth, and then made a third call.
Chen Xin'er did not expect that she used these three phone calls to hurt herself, and painted another heavy mark on her sad life.
And her confrontation at Ning Yu's house also completely revealed the truth of her calculations and madness.
1 Chen Xin'er used two phone calls to test Jian Hongcheng and Ning You
Chen Xin'er first made a phone call to Jian Hongcheng, falsely claiming that Xiao Di Gua missed him and that she wanted to bring her son to Shanghai.
Chen Xin'er deliberately said that she was coming to Shanghai. Let Jian Hongcheng mistakenly think that she is still in Shenzhen.
Jian Hongcheng said that if you want to come, come. Say it in advance and I'll ask the driver to pick you up.
Jian Hongcheng's attitude towards Chen Xin'er was much better than before, and he also realized his shortcomings, no matter what, they were the parents of the little sweet potato, even if they could not be husband and wife, at least they were the relatives of the small sweet potato.
But the main purpose of Chen Xin'er's phone call was not to report to him, and she quickly revealed her true intentions. She asked Ning Yu what she had been doing lately, saying that she was sorry after the last incident and had been embarrassed to contact her.
This is Chen Xin'er's real purpose, she is making simple hongcheng words.
That night, Jian Hongcheng and Ning Yu were helping Tian Jingye and Shao Yan, and after the matter was done, several people ate together. If Jian Hongcheng had told her the truth, there might not have been those things later, but in view of Chen Xin'er's previous crazy behavior, Jian Hongcheng did not dare to stimulate her again, so he chose to lie in good faith. He said no contact, didn't know.
Chen Xin'er knew that Jian Hongcheng was lying to her, how could she be willing? So she made a second call.
She apologized for what she had done before, and thanked Ning Yu for thinking about her everywhere. Then the conversation turned sharply, saying that she was going to throw a birthday party for the little sweet potato. I don't know if Jian Hongcheng is willing to come? She wanted to ask Ning Yu to help her inquire.
Ning Yu politely refused, saying that she had not been in contact with Jian Hongcheng much recently.
Chen Xin'er heard Ning You say this, secretly sneering, if she still guessed before, then this time she absolutely believed that Ning Yu and Jian Hongcheng had joined forces to deceive her.
In fact, Ning Yu did not have to lie, after all, she already knew the fact that Jian Hongcheng and Chen Xin'er were divorced, and she herself had divorced, and it was not illegal for two single men and women to be together. But because of Chen Xin'er's previous act of jumping off a building to commit suicide, Ning Yu, like Jian Hongcheng, instinctively chose to deceive with good intentions. But she didn't know that she lied, originally for Chen Xin'er's sake, but in the end she set herself on fire. Because Chen Xin'er's revenge came so crazy.
2 Tempt again, calculating the weakness of Jian Hongcheng
After Chen Xin'er was rejected, she looked at the photos she had just secretly taken, and her heart was torn to pieces.
She was not reconciled and determined to take back everything that belonged to her.
The next day, Chen Xin'er went to Jian Hongcheng's company. When she entered the door, she cried and said that she had lost her job.
Jian Hongcheng comforted her, we are not short of money, nor can we be angry, we can't go home. Let her just take care of the children, and he will worry about the rest.
Chen Xin'er looked at Jian Hongcheng fixedly and said:
I don't want to cause you any more trouble, there are a lot of gossip around, saying that I am being raised, so it is not good for you to me and to the small sweet potato. I don't plan to stay in Shanghai, and I don't plan to go back to Shenzhen. Let's go back to the water. Go back to my parents so it won't cause trouble for any of you.
Chen Xin'er came prepared, she ate Jian Hongcheng's weakness, knowing that he would definitely block himself from returning to his mother's house. Jian Hongcheng was really deceived. Say that doesn't work.
Chen Xin'er pretended not to know, saying that this was not the best choice?
At that time, Chen Xin'er married Jian Hongcheng, but her parents opposed her, and she fell out with her family and wanted to be with Jian Hongcheng.
Chen Xin'er had never thought of going back to her mother's house in the past so many years, and this time she suddenly proposed that it was her temptation, and she reminded Jian Hongcheng of her dedication to him in this way.
She wanted to make Jian Hongcheng feel guilty about her. She knows that if a man feels guilty about you, it's the best time for her to take the next step.
Sure enough, Jian Hongcheng followed her train of thought and said what she wanted to hear.
Jian Hongcheng said that when we got married, you were so noisy with the family, the little sweet potato was born, your mother did not come, your mother's nature, it is not an easy to forgive others, if you go back now, then do not pull off a layer of your skin?
Chen Xin'er said firmly: I have never regretted it.
Jian Hongcheng remembered the hardships that the woman around her had suffered for herself, she had lost her ability to work because of herself, she had fallen out with her mother because of herself, and now although they were divorced, he, as a man, should also bear his own responsibility.
So Jian Hongcheng said ashamedly, or you stay in Shanghai?
Chen Xin'er got what she wanted to hear as she wished, but she also wanted to confirm it again, so she said that it was not good to retreat, she and the little sweet potato stayed by his side, in case Jian Hongcheng met a favorite lover in the future, wouldn't it cause him trouble?
After getting Jian Hongcheng did not have a favorite woman, she began to play the emotional card, saying that she had never forgotten him in all these years, could they remarry?
Chen Xin'er's proposal was explicitly rejected by Jian Hongcheng, and the reason for the refusal was unambiguous, and the two people had no feelings.
Chen Xin'er began to sell miserably from the moment she entered the door, every step was designed in advance, and she said that she lost her job because of Jian Hongcheng. Then she wanted to go back to her mother's house, in fact, she knew in her heart that her mother's family could not return at all, and she deliberately said this to remind Jian Hongcheng of her efforts for him. Feeling guilty, she proposed to remarry.
Chen Xin'er calculated everything well, but she never thought that Jian Hongcheng could sympathize with her while telling her that she had no feelings and why should she remarry?
Chen Xin'er is clever, she never knew that compassion and love are basically two different things. Jian Hongcheng had only sympathy for her, and nothing else. She also didn't think that Jian Hongcheng might not have loved her at all.
Whether a man loves a woman or not is clear from his actions. When she fell out with her family in order to marry Jian Hongcheng, Jian Hongcheng never solved it. However, for Ning You's difficulties, he did his best to help, first helping Ning Yu's brother, mother, and even Gray Gray's psychological problems to help solve them.
If it weren't for true love, what man would bother so hard to solve all the problems for a woman?
If Chen Xin'er retreated at this time, and Jian Hongcheng did not treat her badly in terms of money, she could completely use that money to live the rest of her life. Unfortunately, Chen Xin'er mistook jian Hongcheng's little sympathy for her as an afterglow.
If a man does not have you in his heart, he will not be able to regain his heart by begging lowly.
After the request for reunion was rejected, a crazy idea popped up in her mind, she wanted to destroy Jian Hongcheng and Ning You. So she made a third call.
It was this call that sparked a confrontation of five people.
3 Crazy revenge
Chen Xin'er first made a phone call to Teacher Cao. Accusing Ning You and Jian Hongcheng of being sorry for her, he then sent the photos she took that night to the class group with carefully edited text.
She knew that Jian Hongcheng and Ning Yu were both people who wanted to face, and she wanted to tear off their masks of hypocrisy in front of everyone, so that everyone would criticize these two hypocritical people, and she would firmly crucify them both on the column of humiliation.
People know not to trust rumors, and they know that some things are not what we see with our eyes. But when something polarized happened, some people still chose herd mentality, choosing the theorem of who is weak and who is reasonable. In the eyes of many people, since the original match sent photos to the class group, and since the original match was angry and posted like that, this matter is a nail in the coffin. Jian Hongcheng and Ning Yu should be blamed.
Teacher Cao and his classmates are like this, Teacher Cao has been a teacher all his life, when he saw that this kind of person actually appeared among the students he taught, he suddenly took the case, he taught students to be of high moral character all his life, he did not allow such things to appear among his students, he had to curb the development of the situation, and he wanted to seek justice for Chen Xin'er.
Poor Teacher Cao's sense of justice was overflowing, and he thought that he was acting for Skywalker, but in fact he was being used by Chen Xin'er as an accomplice. But he was used to blame himself for not having an opinion, just relying on a photo to listen to biased beliefs, and having no factual basis to slander others? In the end, the punch in the face is also self-inflicted!
Chen Xin'er took Teacher Cao to Ning You's house with great momentum, and Teacher Cao asked Ning Yu to explain to Chen Xin'er.
Chen Xin'er had to be unforgiving, and as soon as she came up, she preemptively attacked, saying that she had called both Jian Hongcheng and Ning You last night, and they both said that they had not been in touch for a long time. If you don't have a ghost in your heart, why lie?
Ning Yu and Jian Hongcheng explained that they were afraid that she would misunderstand.
Chen Xin'er said sternly: If you are innocent, why would I misunderstand?
Jian Hongcheng was forced to be helpless and said that he had divorced Chen Xin'er. He didn't have to explain to her everything he did.
Jian Hongcheng means very clearly, he is single, he has nothing to do with Chen Xin'er, who he is with, there is no need to tell Chen Xin'er, he has not betrayed his marriage and family.
Teacher Cao was very surprised to hear this news, Chen Xin'er did not tell him this before, he had not yet figured out how to open his mouth, Chen Xin'er had already opened fire on Jian Hongcheng:
We are divorced, but why are we divorced? Because you've always had someone else in your heart. You stayed well in Shenzhen, why did you suddenly run to Shanghai? Because your time has come, and you Ning Yu, you and your husband are fine, when will the divorce not work? Why is it that as soon as Jian Hongcheng arrived in Shanghai, you divorced. This is your long-planned plan.
Chen Xin'er must put a hat on Jian Hongcheng, originally it was her fault for being unreasonable, after her lies were exposed, she attributed the reason for the divorce to Jian Hongcheng and Ning You, and pointed out that they had a gouge before marriage, otherwise Ning Yu would not have been so coincidental and divorced.
Chen Xin'er had planned everything the night before, both planning, and of course she was also ready to have a plan, she knew that Ning You and Jian Hongcheng would not tie their hands in vain, and put a hat that had been dyed before marriage to them, she was sure that Jian Hongcheng and Ning You would no longer be able to justify themselves, but she underestimated Ning You's strength.
When Teacher Cao criticized Jian Hongcheng and Ning You for paying attention to their words and deeds, Ning Yu fought back.
She said: There is innocence between us, why should we pay attention? You can't just listen to Chen Xin'er's one-sided words and question us like this! And you, Chen Xin'er, don't you know what the relationship between our family and Jian Hongcheng's family is? Why didn't you tell Teacher Cao about those things? Why you divorced Jian Hongcheng, I don't know, but Both Teacher Cao and Tian Jingye can testify that for more than twenty years, I have never been in contact with Jian Hongcheng. I divorced my husband because he committed an economic crime, the lawyer's proof, the materials I can now take out to show you, so Chen Xin'er, what you just said, your various speculations, is just the obscenity in your own brain, you have not clarified the facts, just spread rumors in the group. You also came to my house to make trouble, you are violating my right to reputation. Ten thousand steps back, even if I am with Jian Hongcheng, he is unmarried and my daughter is not married, am I against morality or against the law? Which law stipulates that divorced men and women cannot be together? Why are you talking nonsense here?
Ning Yu's remarks can be said to be reasonable and loud, and she first refuted that Teacher Cao did not find out the truth and ran to Xingshi to ask questions about the crime by holding high the banner of justice. Then he pointed at Chen Xin'er's accusations against her one by one, first saying that Chen Xin'er did not say that all the facts were true, and that she had indeed not contacted Jian Hongcheng for so many years, and that Teacher Cao and Tian Jingye testified for her.
Then, Ning Yu told the truth about her divorce from her husband. Accusing Chen Xin'er of spreading rumors based only on the obscenity in her head was a violation of her right to reputation. The subtext behind Ning Yu's words was that she could completely sue Chen Xin'er for slander.
Finally, she assumed that even if she and Jian Hongcheng were really together, they would be unmarried, neither against the law nor moral, and that others would not be qualified to talk nonsense here.
Ning You is not a financial director, has a super logical thinking, look at this fire she sent, although it is a counterattack under extreme anger, but every sentence is reasonable, meticulous, not only a perfect reply to all the allegations of Chen Xin'er, but also expounded his own views, and at the same time knocked on Teacher Cao and Chen Xin'er two people, Chen Xin'er is no exact evidence, after the immorality of their own unfounded accusations, Teacher Cao is a teacher, actually did not have a little ability to analyze and judge, but was led by Chen Xin'er's nose.
Ning Yu's counterattack made Teacher Cao also have no place to look at herself, but Chen Xin'er obviously wanted to break the jar and break it, and how the follow-up story would go depended on the next plot.
But whose responsibility is It for Chen Xin'er to come to this step today? When we walk into her story, we will find out the final fate of an infatuated woman.
4 Truth
In the plot where Chen Xin'er jumped off a building and committed suicide, Ning Yu once recalled that Chen Xin'er, who was in college, went to bed early and got up early every day, never participated in the "bedtime talks" of her classmates, and she was the first person to enter a large company after graduating from college.
Such Chen Xin'er originally had a very good future, just because she fell in love with Jian Hongcheng, although we don't know what really happened between her and Jian Hongcheng, but from the perspective of her stubborn entanglement with Jian Hongcheng, she was completely out of love.
Jian Hongcheng has made it clear that she does not love her, and she goes to find Ning You, and even threatens suicide.
Chen Xin'er is too stupid, if a man does not love you, the more you fool around, the more he looks down on you.
Chen Xin'er has the ability and can completely live herself, but she consumes all her energy in a relationship without love, and the last harm is herself.
She fell out with her mother's family for The sake of Jian Hongcheng, and lost her job for the sake of Jian Hongcheng, but her biggest mistake was to follow Jian Hongcheng for those years and be completely raised into a waster. She does not know that a woman can only be independent in terms of economic independence and personality, a woman who reaches out to her husband every day for money and a woman who loves to work and fight for a career, who has stronger independence? glance.
Lawyer Wu Jiezhen once said: It is best not to let a man raise you, once the marriage breaks down, you will have no self-protection.
I like a saying: your earning power is your confidence to resist risks, control the fairy spirit of feelings, and win freedom and choice.
Money is not a panacea, but it can protect a woman's self-esteem and a woman's resilience to disasters when she encounters risks.
Chen Xin'er once offered to give Ning You money and let Ning You take her son abroad, and she wanted to use this method to block Jian Hongcheng and Ning You. But Ning Yu calculated an account for her, and she was dumbfounded. Ning Yu's annual salary is 2 million, and she lives on the money given by Jian Hongcheng, what ability does she have to pay for the high consumption of others?
Chen Xin'er can obviously live better than Ning You, her starting point is higher than Ning You, but she stops moving, she traps herself in the love network called Jian Hongcheng, a person who complains about herself, not only loses the vitality of life. He almost forced himself into a neurosis.
Although Ning You's starting point was not as good as hers, she continued to grow in the following years, and finally lived a wonderful life on her own.
Chen Xin'er will lose herself because of love, while Ning Yu will always live soberly, she can pay for love, but she will never completely give up on herself. This was the difference between the two of them, and it was also the true hidden feeling of Chen Xin'er's defeat to Ning You.
Someone once said: The most beautiful love is never to try to pursue others, but to bloom with the heart. If you bloom, the breeze will come. First self-love, then love others, give up stubborn pursuits, change directions, continue to work hard, and become the best version of yourself.
If Chen Xin'er can turn back as soon as possible, with her talent, there will be better development in the future, how about getting older? She has past experience and talent to bless her. In time, are you still afraid of having a bad time?
Long red dust, vicissitudes of mulberry fields. Everyone's life cannot be perfect, go the wrong way, love the wrong person does not matter, as long as the stop loss in time to minimize the damage. Don't regret it while continuing to be a.
Love yourself, break the attachment, to grow, when we ourselves are getting better and better, everything around us will get better and better. We live as a light, and naturally we become the object of others' pursuit.