The Korean drama "Juvenile Court" is undoubtedly one of the most worth watching in recent times. Netflix shot, sure enough, extraordinary, focusing on juvenile delinquency, the scale is so large that people shudder.
The occurrence of criminal facts reflects the complexity of human nature, and even the parties concerned do not understand why they are doing so.
The so-called bystander Qing, this drama shows the causes and consequences of juvenile delinquency through the perspective of a third party of the judge.
The Juvenile Criminal Collegial Division of the District Court mainly includes judges Shen Eun-seok (Kim Hye-so), Cha Tae-joo (Kim Moo-yeol), and Minister Jiang Yuanzhong (Lee Sung-min). They are responsible for the trial of juvenile delinquency cases, the number of cases, the difficulty of investigation, the weight of information documents, and they can only work overtime to restore the facts and give juveniles a suitable punishment.
Teenagers are teenagers, no matter how mature they are on the outside, they are never adults, and it is impossible to achieve the salvation of the soul just by relying on punishment.
Therefore, when trying the case, Shen Enci summoned the guardian to the scene, and after reading out the punishment result, he still had to add: "Teenagers cannot grow up alone, and the punishment is juveniles, but the guardians who bear the burden of punishment must also share the burden." ”
Some of the juvenile offenders in the play are forced to embark on the road of crime because of the embarrassment of their parents' death, some are abandoned by their parents and choose to commit crimes by self-abuse, and even some kind children are abused by their parents to violate the law for self-protection...
All of them are because they all lack the warmth and love of the family.
So, someone on Douban asked, "Are you really ready to become someone else's parent?" “
Ever wondered? The ability to be a parent is not an instinct in the womb, it requires learning, prudence, and awe.
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The opening is the bloodiest incident of shaman corpses, and the means are extremely cruel. A 13-year-old teenager Bai Chengyou sha killed an 8-year-old child, the first time they met, the child wanted to borrow a mobile phone to call his mother, was tricked into going home, and then was mutilated.
A teenager treats life so coldly that one cannot help but think of the assertion that "human nature is inherently evil."
Judge Shen Enci investigated the case all night and found the main culprit, 14-year-old Han Ruien, who had the case background. She is "smart" and uses the juvenile law's 13-year-old age of criminal responsibility to lure Bai Chengyou to defend herself.
From this point of view, 14-year-old Han Ruien seems to have the means of an adult, using human top bags to confuse judges, cover up his criminal facts, and try to escape legal responsibility.
The courtroom is the last line of juvenile indoctrination, telling juveniles that there is a price to pay for committing crimes in a severe manner and warning juveniles to do the right thing.
Han Ruien was sentenced to 20 years in prison and sat in the prison car, his eyes were still cold, without any expression of regret.
In contrast, Bai Chengyou remembered his mother, and could not help but cry bitterly and have a sense of remorse.
The child has committed such a big crime, Han Ruien's parents do not attend the court on the grounds that they are too busy abroad, it can be seen that she has never been loved by her parents, has not experienced love, how can she feel kindness and love?
Bai Chengyou's mother, in order to survive, can not take care of the child, but finally said to her son, the mother will wait for you to come out.
Only when people feel love can they push the other from this, empathize with the preciousness of life, and love it unrelentingly.
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Another thing that touched me was the case of the collective escape of the young girls.
The principal of the aid center takes care of the convicted girls who have been sentenced by the judge to stay in the aid center for a certain period of time as if they were loving their children.
The hearts that had been frozen for more than ten years melted so quickly, and they were still messing around inside, even breaking the leg of a young girl.
It was not easy to catch the principal's illness, so they fled en masse and took a train from a remote village to downtown Seoul.
How can a girl who has no ability to survive support herself?
Judge Shen Enci said that he could only sell his body, which was the fastest way to get money.
One word for another. Sure enough, someone was arranged, forced to be helpless, and she resisted by cutting her wrist. If the police had not been present in time, the consequences would have been unimaginable.
In order to find these girls, the principal and the judges did everything in their power. Many people wonder why the principals of the center are willing to give up their marriages and choose to protect them.
"Children who are hurt at home tend to have masochistic tendencies, they commit perverse crimes or hang out with bad friends, and they know very well that they can't do those bad things, but they knowingly do it, and they want the pain of self-abuse to cause harm to the family."
Hurt by the person closest to them at home, the children think that they are retaliating against the family by masochistic crimes, on the surface, it is cruel, it is hate, but inside it is, calling for love.
The most powerful "big sister" among the fleeing girls, when she heard the news of her mother's illness, would still risk being caught to take a look.
Unexpectedly, the remarried mother said in front of her face that she recognized the wrong person.
Denied, once again abandoned, she slammed the door frantically just to confirm that it was her mother's daughter.
Unexpectedly, the man in the room came out and beat her to death, and the mother in the room looked like a stranger, showing a disgusted look from time to time.
Covered in blood, she sat in the corridor, her mind presumably asking over and over again why, what she had done wrong, and why her mother had abandoned her.
Alone, living in the world, without kindness, without warmth, being abandoned by others, as if forgotten by the world, it is easy to give up on yourself.
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"Juvenile Court" is about juvenile delinquency cases, the flesh and blood are blurred, the truth is frightening, and people are afraid of the darkness of human nature. In fact, in my opinion, this drama is still benevolent, always emphasizing the importance of family education, the responsibility and responsibility of parents.
After watching this drama, I couldn't help but think of one of the six lies that Wu Zhihong mentioned about love in "Why Does Home Hurt"--there are no parents who don't love their children. While most parents will give everything for their children, there is no denying that there are still some people who do not love their children.
Because they don't love, they beat up children; because they don't love, they will mentally abuse children.
In the book Why Home Hurts, we are reminded to remember that fatherly and maternal love is great, and that this is the most basic and important channel through which the whole of humanity continues to reproduce and transmit love. However, this is far from saying that a person who has children automatically becomes a good parent.
True love is not an easy thing. As a parent, be aware of this and constantly review and reflect on the specific way you treat your child.
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