Love is easy to get along with, when in love you are thick and I am thick, how to feel beautiful, after marriage involves chai rice oil and salt, involving each other's family, after a period of time how many once happy couples, but also can still be as happy as the beginning, not by the real life of the complicated, trivial hit by a chicken feather, and real life is composed of ordinary and complicated, trivial.
People often say that there are only two kinds of feelings in the world: one is to be bored with each other but tired of old age, and the other is to forget each other but miss to cry. ......
After The wedding of Hu Dong and Wang Mi, the two discussed starting their honeymoon journey together.
The first stop on the honeymoon trip is Ganzhou Baohulu Mountain Villa, which was chosen because it is Wang Mi's hometown.
It doesn't matter what the scenery along the way is, what matters is who you see along the way. At this moment, two people who love each other feel that no matter where they go, they feel that it is heaven and they feel happy.
There they played almost all the entertainment facilities, they played as much as they wanted, they enjoyed taking photos. In just two days, they reveled and enjoyed the happiness that their honeymoon brought them.
Before leaving, they bought a lot of local souvenirs such as the famous Sha Tin grapefruit, and with these foods and happy memories of these days, they returned with a full load.
The second stop on their honeymoon was Beijing, and the next day they boarded a train to Beijing after a short break. She snuggled into her husband's arms, and as the train moved forward, objects on either side of the train gradually moved backwards, and they embarked on a journey to Beijing.
After more than ten hours of travel, they finally set foot on the soil of Beijing with full of exhaustion.
The sky in Beijing is clear without a trace of dark clouds, the sky is very blue and blue, and the white clouds bloom everywhere like flowers, as if to welcome their arrival. She took her husband's hand and walked along the streets of Beijing, feeling the happiness unique to newlyweds. Smiles were written on both of their faces, and we snuggled up to each other.
They went to the Forbidden City, the Great Wall, the Summer Palace, the Temple of Heaven, the Ming Tombs and many other attractions, followed the tour group to play all the way, at that time to give them the feeling can be described in one word is tired. Every day at about four or five o'clock, the wake-up service at the front desk urged them to get up and then get on the tour group's car and set off for the attractions.
The whole itinerary is full, they feel tired and feel the happiness at the same time, and the attractions leave their happy footprints.
A few days later, they ended their trip and returned to their warm home from Beijing, and the two lamented that the golden nest and silver nest were not as good as their kennels, and they were not as comfortable as home.
On the day of the honeymoon they stick together like glue every day.
Soon the marriage leave ended and they lived their own commutes.
When she woke up one morning not long after, she felt uncomfortable, dizzy, wanted to throw up but couldn't. When her husband saw her like this, he thought she was sick and said, "Wife, what's wrong, go and see if it's a cold." ”
She looked into her husband's concerned eyes and said, "It's okay, it's fine for a while, it was like this yesterday, and it's better after a while." ”
The husband was anxious to hear it and said, "Yesterday you were comfortable?" That's more to go to see, you yourself are in the hospital, it is convenient to see, go and see. She nodded.
When she arrived at the hospital for the morning meeting, she went to the doctor to see and talk about her symptoms, and the doctor prescribed a test sheet to her and asked her to go for the test. She went to the laboratory, and her colleagues saw her and asked, "What's wrong?" My bride. ”
She and her colleagues talked about these symptoms of getting up in the morning, and the colleagues looked at her and smiled, and she looked at her and asked, "Laughing at what?" ”
The colleague mysteriously asked, "I don't know, did you not come to that this month?" ”
She didn't react for a moment and asked, "Which?" What! ”
"You're a fool for your honeymoon!" Colleague said.
She looked at her and suddenly realized, "'That,' oh yes, it's been more than a week." ”
"That's right." Colleague said.
She was confused for a moment, thinking in her heart, "that" is normal for me to postpone a week in advance.
The colleague looked at this and said, "Don't think about it, you are definitely pregnant." ”
Her heart went up and down, but it didn't feel so fast, and the colleague looked at her disbelieving eyes and said, "You don't believe it, I'll help you test it, and when the results come out, you will believe it." ”
She gave her what she wanted to be tested and went back to work.
When she was about to leave work, she went down to the laboratory to get the test form, and when her colleagues saw her from a distance, they smiled at her and said, "I said yes, you see for yourself." ”
She picked up the test form and looked at it, and it clearly wrote the two big words of pregnancy. She was surprised, in fact, she did not want to have children so early, and she did not know whether she was happy or worried about seeing this result.
She thanked her colleague and took the test form and left, went down to the first floor and picked up the test form again, looked at it again, and finally picked up the phone and dialed her husband's phone.
The phone rang and she said, "When I went to the test, I didn't find anything abnormal." ”
He said anxiously, "What's going on?" ”
She deliberately said slowly: "I don't know, but I just got the test sheet and it showed a positive urine test." ”
"Masculine, what's the problem with that," he asked anxiously.
"It's just pregnant, I don't understand this, it's stupid." She said.
On the other end of the phone, she heard her husband say excitedly, "Is it true?" ”
She let out an "um" and said, "What to do?" ”
He smiled and said, "What if it's a good thing, give birth to it." ”
She said unhappily, "No, I don't want to be angry." ”
He hurriedly said, "Sooner or later, I will be born, let me be born." She hung up the phone without saying a word.
That day, her husband came to pick her up from work, and he saw that he was very happy. Chattering along the way, she sat quietly in the back of the car and listened.
When he came home and went upstairs, he supported her, just like he was afraid of falling. She looked at him so happy and angry, and said, "Without your help, I can go up on my own, and I don't usually see you being so good to me!" ”
He said: "Usually it's better, now it's better, come, good, I'm holding on, you're now a key object of protection." ”
She pretended to be angry and said, "You think I'm a panda, so I want to focus on protection." ”
The husband smiled and said, "You are more precious than a panda now." ”
Laughed at by him, she gradually relaxed, the original pregnancy made her very nervous, her heart was full of contradictions.
When Hu Dong knew that she was afraid of the pain when she gave birth to a child, he encouraged her: "Don't be afraid, with me, I will accompany you." In the end, under the repeated persuasion of her husband, she finally decided to give birth to a child.
But the next thing she did not expect, after pregnancy, she vomited badly, what to eat, what to vomit, even drink water. In this painful torment, she blamed her husband. Although her husband took good care of her, he could not replace her pain.
Half a month because the pregnancy reaction was so severe that I couldn't even go to class. So she asked her employer for two months of sick leave to stay at home.
But even this did not alleviate her pain, and she vomited until she had nothing to spit out, even bile.
Late one night, my husband saw that she had not been dripping water for several days, and at night she was uncomfortable, so she had to take her to the hospital on a motorcycle.
Along the way, she sat on the motorcycle and leaned on her husband's back, and the husband was afraid that she would not have the strength to hold him tightly, sometimes only with one hand to grasp the car, the other hand to grasp her hand, so the car slowly drove forward. At that time, although she was unwell, her heart felt warm.
The sky was full of stars, and the wind blew through her long hair. She leaned against him quietly, looking at the lights on both sides of the road, flickering on and off, as the car slowly moved forward.
When they came home from the hospital after a drip, it was also early in the morning, and they were able to rest.
This kind of day of eating and vomiting continued, and later because it was too far to run back and forth to the hospital and it was inconvenient, she asked her friend to prescribe a drip at the hospital to her home for infusion.
Those days it was my friend who came to her house every day after a busy day of work and gave me an infusion, and she asked her how it was, asked her how she reacted at that time, and said she didn't want the child or anything like that. The friend advised: "You have this reaction, don't do it now, the next estimate is also this reaction, and you are now so old, you will be born well." She was also frightened after listening to her friend's words, so she had to continue to endure the pain of pregnancy under the persuasion of her friend and husband.
Fast forward two months, her weight plummeted from her original weight, and she lost 5-6 pounds.
Two months later, because the unit did not give leave, she had no choice but to return to work.
During this period, the mother-in-law fell and was injured, and the husband had to take care of the mother-in-law and could not take care of her, she could only go back to her mother's house to live and ask her parents to take care of her.
In this way, she began to work in a state where the pregnancy reaction did not ease, because of physical reasons, she went to see her mother-in-law a few days late, so that the mother-in-law later said to her colleagues in the unit that she had never seen her, and the colleagues of Sanba and other colleagues said everywhere, making her suddenly become a typical example of a bad daughter-in-law.
This was heard by her friend and told her, and she was very angry when she heard it. She was so uncomfortable with her pregnancy and had to work again, but her mother-in-law actually said with a clear conscience that she had never seen her because she had gone to see her a few days late.
She said this to her friend, and the friend said don't care what she said, as long as she takes care of you and the child during the month, take good care of it, and forget about it. She nodded with tears, after all, she is her husband's mother, what can she do, her mother-in-law wants to say this, what can she say, go to her to question or tell her husband, will her husband believe in his mother or believe her, and even if he believes in her and what can she change, can he say noise about this little thing? More is better than less, she did not tell her husband in her heart, she believed in how, he knew better than her, and there was no need for her to say anything.
The husband's brothers and sisters-in-law are out of town, their son is at home for the mother-in-law and the husband to take, this time the mother-in-law fell, neither of them will come back to help take care of the mother. Her husband just doesn't take care of her, he can't take care of the old and the young when he wants to go to work, and she is pregnant and reacts so badly, and she really needs his care.
This husband knew very well, he called his brother and sister-in-law to let the two of them, at least come back to take care of one, both of them did not want to come back on the pretext of work busy and could not take leave. Maybe her husband was also angry when he heard them say this, after all, their son had been left at home for his mother and him to take with him for a few months.
Now that I am married, my wife is pregnant and reacts heavily, and she needs to be taken care of, and she also has to take care of her mother who fell and has to take care of your son who is a brother, and she still has to work, where he is busy.
She didn't know what her husband had said to them at the time, and a few days later she got a call from his brother saying, "You have to understand your husband, he's not easy." It would be nice for us to come back and take the kids away, what else do you want? When she heard this, she did not bat an eyelid and said, "It would be good to take the child away, and don't forget that this child is yours, not ours." What do I think? What can I do, I just want to tell you, the money can't be earned, your father is gone, your grandmother is gone, the old man in the family only has your mother left, and now your mother falls to you and you don't come back to take care of it, when are you going to come back to take care of it. Do you have to wait for her to be gone, and then you will come back to fulfill your filial piety? Of course I understand him, and it's you who ignore him! ”
His brother said: "We are out of the house of course to take care of things, he can not take care of it, you can ask for a nanny, I send 500 yuan back to ask for a nanny." ”
She said angrily, "500? I won't say if I can get a babysitter, but do you know what your mother said? Scold your brother for having a few fart money, please what a babysitter. It means that people are to take care of it alone. ”
His brother said, "What's the matter with me, what do you have to take care of when you're pregnant, and I didn't take care of my wife when she was pregnant." ”
She said angrily, "Really? I heard that your wife was pregnant and you came to take care of her, didn't you? ”
His brother said, "I... I don't remember. Not because of you, if it weren't for you, my brother would be like this? Will it keep us back? ”
She listened to her head and said, "You have to say this, I can't help it, I want to ask you, big and small things in the family, what have you managed, did you come back to take care of your father when he was sick?" No, you only come back once when someone else is gone. You never came back when your wife left, and you still gave your brother everything big and small. Even if your wife gives birth to a child, you have not returned, and it is also your brother who runs back and forth upstairs and downstairs, tired and sweaty. This is what you, the father and husband, should do, but let my husband Wu Jun help you do it. Your wife is also helping your brother before and after he is busy, have you forgotten all this? ”
His brother let out a sneer and said, "He is my brother, and at that time he was not married and did not have a family to help me, what is wrong with this big brother?" ”
She said, "Yes, of course, he didn't say a word of complaint in front of you." But now the situation is different, he is also married and has children, in this case, you two can't take leave to take care of it? He also said that I did not understand him and asked me what I wanted to do. Help you take your son sick for five years which time is not my family Wu Jun back to the hospital to see, no matter the spring, summer, autumn and winter of which the bitterness of which you know? Know that it's your son, and that should be your responsibility. ”
After hearing this, his brother said, "This is a family affair in our family, and it is not your turn to take care of it." ”
She said angrily, "Do you think I want to take care of it?" It was you who called to accuse me, I was just talking about things, you have a brother like this, you are satisfied. Now that your mother is not someone else, you can't watch her come back for the sake of the child she has brought for you for five years, take care of it, and help your brother. ”
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Hanging up the phone, her heart was sad, is this a person who is a brother? Does he have a little family responsibility? She had a series of questions in her heart, and now that he was at home like this, he could still stand idly by and watch all this indifferently.
In the end, his sister-in-law came back a day or two to take the child away and left his mother to her husband alone.
In order for her husband to take care of her at ease, she offered to go back to her mother's house. She thought to herself, "I haven't done this enough, what else do you want me to do?" At this time, a feeling of vertigo struck instantly, because she was in a bad mood and the more serious her pregnancy reaction became.
In the days that followed, her husband took care of the injured mother-in-law every day, he was afraid that he would fall asleep, and his mother did not want him, so he slept in the same bed as his mother. During the day, he rushed back to work with just one phone call, going back and forth several times a day.
The rule in her hometown was that pregnant women could not go back to their mother's house for a long time, and after three or four months, she offered to go home and live. My husband said reluctantly: "I still have to take care of my mother, how can I get it when you go back to live?" ”
She said angrily: "Three or four months have passed, your mother is almost fine, how long do you have to stay." Is your mother a son of yours? Why did they go, and they didn't see anyone for months. When this happened at home, I couldn't live in my mother's house, and I lived for more than three or four months. Do you want me to live until the child is born? And I didn't let you go back, you want to continue to take care of it, I went home alone. ”
In the days that followed, every day after work, she returned to her deserted home alone. Sometimes I make some food to eat when I am not feeling uncomfortable, and if I am uncomfortable, I will not do it, and I will eat any snack bought at home.
One day, because she was unwell and had no appetite, she came home from work and lay in bed, unconsciously falling asleep. When she woke up, her stomach grunting, she opened her eyes and saw nothing clearly, she didn't know how long she had been asleep, she struggled to get out of bed, thinking about all this sad crying in the darkness of the paint.
Then her husband walked in, saw her sitting on the dark bed crying, came over and hugged her and asked, "Have you eaten?" She burst into tears and said, "No, you still know to care about me, I and the baby are starving to death." Other people's pregnancies are the queen of the family, and the family takes care of them, which is very good. I didn't care, but no one asked. ”
After saying that, she pushed him away and asked him to accompany his mother and leave them alone. Looking at her sad face as she cried with her big belly, he also shed tears, this was the first time she had seen him shed tears. He hugged her tightly and muttered, "I'm sorry." ”
She cried as she struggled to break free of his arms and said something to let him go. Her husband suddenly knelt in front of her and said to her with tears in his eyes, "I'm sorry, I didn't take care of you." I also couldn't help who made her my mom. My brother and sister-in-law don't care, don't I care? "People often say that men have gold under their knees, to describe a man who does not easily kneel. At this time, he knelt in front of her with tears and she was sorry, even though she had all kinds of grievances, at this time all the grievances in his heart disappeared. She threw herself into his arms and cried, saying: "After getting married, I realized that marriage is not that you love me, we can be happy, and we will not be happy without a good family that cares about each other." He hugged her tightly and said, "We will be happy, I will definitely make you happy, you believe me." ...”
The two held each other in the dark room for a long time without letting go, allowing tears to flow freely.
Since he really didn't trust her to live alone, after all, her stomach was getting bigger and bigger day by day, and he was afraid that she would have some accidents at home alone.
Since then, he has waited for his mother-in-law every day after work and returned to their home to cook for her and accompany her.
The time flickered to the expected date of delivery, due to the umbilical cord around the neck, less amniotic fluid and other reasons, and finally decided to caesarean section surgery. She called her parents, and her husband informed her mother-in-law, and they all arrived quickly. The operating room doctor told him and her parents that there would be some dangers during the operation, such as heavy bleeding during the operation, infection after the operation, etc. Many intraoperative and postoperative and postoperative situations would appear, where her parents had seen this situation, And Wang's father was angry on the spot after listening to the reasons of fear: "You can't guarantee this, that can't be guaranteed, you can't do it in the end, you can't guarantee safety, then what surgery will be done." After saying that, he left angrily.
She entered the operating room with both nervousness and fear, and when she did not know whether it was fear or what, she felt a feeling of suffocation shortly after the anesthetic was applied. She panicked and said to the doctor, "Doctor, I can't breathe, I feel like I can't breathe." ”
The doctor saw her like this and quickly comforted: "Don't be nervous, take a deep breath." Then they adjusted a little, and slowly she eased up.
Half an hour later her son was picked up by the doctor and placed in front of her, and the sight of her son she forgot all the pain of her previous pregnancy. The birth of their son turned their two-person world into a happy family of three.
She was immersed in the joy of her son's arrival, though the pain of the operation struck.
The next night, she lay there with her eyes closed, and her mother-in-law, thinking she was asleep, said to him, "After the full moon, you have brought your own children, and I don't have time to take them." ”
He paused for a few seconds and said, "No time? What's the matter with you? ”
I heard my mother-in-law say loudly, "I'm very busy with anything to do with you." ”
He didn't say anything after listening to it, but she felt sorry for her husband after listening to it, how did he take care of her since she wrestled. Will she be unclear? Even their neighbors near their house knew that he had a conscience and was a filial piety.
But she actually said such a thing the day after her son and daughter-in-law had just given birth to her son, which was really scarred and forgot the pain. Everyone knows very well that there is nothing wrong with her, what can she do? All she was referring to was going to play cards near their house every day, if that counted.
On the third night of the operation, his mother-in-law said to him: "You stay at my house as a confinement, one pays 600 yuan for food, and 1800 yuan for three people is almost enough." She didn't know what her husband was thinking at the time, but she didn't know what it felt like to listen, and she even wondered if it was his mother? She is not without money, she has a salary of more than a thousand a month and is not short of money, why is it that on the third day of her daughter-in-law,000 words and money are so clear.
On the fourth day after giving birth, he had something to do and could not take care of his wife's mother and his mother. At night, the little guy cried and Wang's mother immediately picked up the child and coaxed, but her mother-in-law lazily lay on the bed and said: "This guy is really noisy, I think my eldest grandson was not like this, my eldest grandson is good." ”
Mother Wang looked at her daughter and said, "Children are like this, and there are people who don't cry." ”
At this time, her mother-in-law sat up and said, "Alas, tonight the daughter-in-law of the old Liu family is going to have a child, and I will go to see it." "After saying that, the wind was gone. Leaving the two mothers and daughters stunned on the spot with surprised eyes.
Mother Wang looked at the back of her departure and asked, "Xiao Mi, is your mother-in-law not very kind to you?" ”
Xiao Mi said: "Mom, no, it's okay." ”
Mother Wang said: "Don't lie to me, it's okay, if you can, you will leave your daughter-in-law and newborn grandson alone at night to see someone else's daughter-in-law give birth." ”
I heard my mother say these little secrets and said, "Say, alas, what can I do?" Who let Hu Dong be honest, you know what his said to Hu Dong the day before my surgery? ”
Mother Wang looked at her daughter and asked, "What do you say?" ”
Xiao Mi said: "She said that she was very busy with our children after we finished confinement, and said that we had to pay money for confinement at home." Alas, is it necessary to say these words to his own son? You take good care of her, you don't say that we will also give her money, when did Wu Jun, a filial son, treat her badly. In such a situation, anyway, I was not very comfortable listening, I don't know how he felt after listening to it? ”
Mother Wang said, "What did Hu Dong say at that time?" ”
"What can he say, not a word, a nest of wastes." Xiao Mi said.
Mother Wang said, "Well, it seems that too honest is not enough." ”
Yeah, I like him honestly, no matter how bad people say is, naïve to think that as long as he is good to me, now it seems that this is not the case at all. 」 She said.
A few hours later, at about four o'clock in the morning, her mother-in-law walked into the ward with a spring breeze on her face and said, "You guess what happened to the old Liu family's daughter-in-law." ”
The mother and daughter did not respond to her, she said excitedly: "Another daughter was born, the first child was a daughter, I wanted to have a son but did not expect to give birth to another daughter, haha... I see that she has no son's life. ”
Looking at her like this, Mother Wang said: "Giving birth to boys and daughters is the same, the current society is not like our original era, especially in the countryside, we must have a son, now it does not matter if we give birth to boys and girls, as long as they are healthy." ”
Her mother-in-law said, "That's not the same, if I were her mother-in-law and she would have a daughter, I wouldn't help her with the child." ”
After lying on the bed, Xiao Mi thought in his heart: "Hmm, what about I gave birth to a boy, you are not telling your son that you will bring your own after being a confinement person, I don't have time to bring it." ”
Mother Wang said: "We can help our children a little as adults, and they are quite tired when they have to go to work." ”
The next day, in the ward, Xiaomi looked at the time to nearly 10:30 and said to my mother: "Mom, wait for the next meal, you ask my mother-in-law what she wants to eat, go downstairs to help her fry well, and serve it." Her feet are not too convenient either. Mother Wang said, "Well, well, rest assured." ”
At noon, she heard her mother say to her mother-in-law in the aisle: "Dear family, what do you want to eat, I will go down and fry it for you." ”
After hearing this, her mother-in-law said: "No, joke, my feet are not unable to move, which can make you stir-fry, I can do it myself." ”
Mother Wang said, "It's all right, aren't your feet too convenient?" Or I go, Xiao Mi specially promised to help you fry well. ”
The mother-in-law sneered, "No, no, I can come myself." "Talk and go.
Afterwards, her mother-in-law complained first in front of his son: "Thinking of her mother is angry, I am inconvenient for my feet and do not say to help me go down to eat, let me go down to eat by myself, the people in the hospital are better than her mother, saying to help me eat." ”
A week later, Xiaomi and the baby were discharged from the hospital and returned to their mother-in-law's house to make confinement.
On the third day of returning home to do confinement, her father was afraid that his son would not have thick warm clothes to wear, and braved the cold wind of winter to ride a motorcycle to the county about ten kilometers away from home to buy two sets, so that her mother sent them over, and her mother-in-law did not pick up and said coldly: "No, you take it back, keep it for yourself as a grandparent." Mother Wang was stunned on the spot, angry but did not dare to attack.
Afterwards, she heard her mother-in-law and husband whispering in the kitchen: "It seems that her parents sent their grandson away with these two sets of clothes." ”
He said: "Her parents are afraid that the child will not have warm clothes to send two sets first, and when the full moon comes, she will come with her brother and sister to pack money together." After hearing this, the mother-in-law said loudly: "Will be a fart, they will give you money, you dream." ”
He said, "Yeah, that's what they said to Xiao Mi." ”
"Just fool you idiot, just wait." The mother-in-law said coldly
Only then did she understand that her mother-in-law was such a money-hungry person who was unreasonable and only recognized money.
A month of confinement, she felt that a year would be long. In the month, the mother-in-law often pointed to Mulberry scolding and grinning, she was weak after childbirth, easy to sweat, she and her husband said: "Last night there was another sweat, this dress is going to be changed today." ”
He looked at his wife and said, "Change, I've been wearing this one for several days, and I've washed it together." ”
The mother-in-law heard their conversation and said to him, "You are a neurotic, you have not washed your clothes in your past life." ”
After listening, he whispered, "I wash my own clothes, and you have to take care of this." ”
As soon as her mother-in-law heard this, she jumped up and scolded: "You are a neurotic, you roll, you don't live in my house, I don't care." ”
He listened without a word, and she lay on the bed not knowing what it felt.
Suddenly, the family was dead silent, and no one spoke.
In the days that followed, every time the son cried, her mother-in-law hugged her grandson and scolded: "You dog thing, cry and cry, cry to die, cry and throw you to the ground and kick you to death." ”
Hearing her mother-in-law scold her grandson like this, her heart was very sad, this is her grandson, it is not normal for children to cry, but she is like this. She thought to herself, "How did my husband take care of her in the first place, and how did she take care of me and my son?" She felt a pang of sadness.
Every day he was busy going to work at nine o'clock, and he just left on the front foot, and his mother-in-law left on the back foot. The old rule is to go to the nearby shop to play cards and let her and her son stay at home without asking. The son she couldn't get alone, so she had to call her husband to get him back. He came back to pass by the shop where she was playing cards, and every time he saw his son come back, she followed her back. As soon as he got home, he sat there motionless, and touched his feet vigorously and said, "Alas, my foot hurts and I can't walk a step." ”
Xiao Mi looked at all this and didn't know whether to cry or laugh, watching this scene was really a bit of a taste of crying and laughing.
In this state, it was hard to look forward to the full moon, and the day before the full moon, the mother-in-law suddenly said in front of his cousin: "Wang Mi, tomorrow will be a full moon, you can call your parents to drink the full moon wine, what else to do, but also our family kneeling and begging them to drink full moon wine, your parents are something." ”
As soon as she heard her mother-in-law talk like this, no matter what she did or said for a month, she never resisted her, at this time all the anger finally broke out completely on that day, she said angrily: "You can scold me how you want, you scold my parents is not OK, where did my parents provoke you, how good do you think you are doing?" ”
She and his cousin said: "My parents bought two sets of new clothes to send over, she can't pick them up, don't say that it's the new clothes my parents bought, that is, colleagues and friends sent old clothes, she should also take a thank you." Not to mention my parents, you said that if you change to whom, who will not be angry, I just told your cousin this, let him personally go to my parents to drink wine, is this also wrong? Moreover, it was less than ten minutes away. ”
The mother-in-law listened to her say this and jumped to her feet even more angrily, what do you say, you dare to say me. At this time, she could jump and jump, but she didn't see half a pain.
Wang Mi saw all this and said, "You can scold me, I don't care, but you are not qualified to scold my parents." You and others go around saying that my parents didn't fulfill their responsibilities as grandparents. Have you fulfilled your responsibility as a mother-in-law and a grandmother? Why did you say to the people in the hospital that you fell, and I never went to see you. ”
After hearing this, her mother-in-law did not admit that she had said this, and said, "I... I didn't say that. ”
Wang Mi said, "Didn't say? Say or don't say you know it yourself, don't say I'll know? ”
Her mother-in-law said, "Whoever said I said it, you found her and confronted her." ”
Wang Mi said: "Joke, still find out the confrontation, said that you did not say that you know in your own heart that you still use the confrontation?" How dare I say I can't admit it. ”
Hearing her say this, her mother-in-law immediately said, "I... What about when I said it? What can you do with me? What do I dare not admit, you went the wrong way that day, and you will come to see me when you encounter a ghost. ”
Wang Mi really didn't know how to respond when she heard this, this was her mother-in-law, this was the words spoken by an elder, she was really speechless.
Seeing that the daughter-in-law did not speak, she continued: "I am lazy to tell you this, tell you, when you buy a house, you borrow me and his brother's money, immediately give me back, if you dare not pay it back, you try it." If you two get into a fight, you two are not the opponents of my eldest husband and wife. ”
Wang Mi was shocked after hearing it, she felt incredible looking at the mother-in-law in front of her was so strange, was this the words of a person who was a mother and a mother-in-law?
When she and her husband got married and bought a house, her husband did borrow some money from her mother-in-law and his brother, and they never wanted to come back. But the mother-in-law said such ridiculous words, she really did not know what the mother-in-law's heart was thinking.
She looked at her mother-in-law's arrogant look and said, "We never said anything about not paying back." ”
The mother-in-law said, "If you dare to try it back, give it back to me immediately." ”
She thought in her heart, "Who are you forcing, forcing your son?" It depends on the owner to beat the dog, I haven't told you what to do, even if I ignore it, look at her son's face, she shouldn't say this. Looking at the mother-in-law's look, there was an indescribable taste in her heart.
She was thinking about how it happened that her husband was not going out at this time, and she should let her husband listen to it in person and look at the real face of the fuck.
The more she scolded, the more she scolded, and she scolded something when she thought of it, and her voice was very loud, and there was a great momentum of not letting everyone know that she was unwilling. His cousin said, "Well, why are you doing it so loudly that you woke up your grandson." The mother-in-law said in a sinister tone, "Scared, this dog thing." ”......
Ten minutes later, Hu Dong returned from outside, and the mother-in-law who had just scolded vigorously saw her son return, she sat on the stool and cried. Say how the daughter-in-law scolded her and bullied her. The momentum just now suddenly pretended to be pitiful, but she immediately became a bad daughter-in-law.
This kind of plot, which can only be seen in TV dramas, really happened in her life. She was really shocked by this blow, but fortunately, her husband did not believe her mother-in-law's words. Looking at her who had not fully recovered from the operation, she did not say a word of her no, which made her feel very relieved.
By the time it was time to eat, she was still angry, and he told her to eat, and she didn't eat. He looked at her and said, "Eat a little, it's not good for your health not to eat, and you have to feed your baby obediently." ”
When the mother-in-law heard her son persuade her daughter-in-law to eat, she was uncomfortable again, and she immediately revealed her original form and said to her son: "I tell you, tomorrow's full moon wine I will not go to participate, you look at it yourself." And you'll get me out of the full moon tomorrow and go back to your own house. ”
At this time, Hu Dong thought that he was also intolerable by what had happened this month, thinking that he had done his best to take care of her and honor her, he did not expect his mother to say such a thing.
Utterly enraged by this, he pointed his finger at his mother and said, "Well, I solemnly tell you where to make full moon wine tomorrow." If you dare not go, you don't think I will take care of you in the future, don't think that I will step into this gate in the future. ”
The mother-in-law was stunned by her son's remarks and obediently shut up.
This was the first time he had spoken to his mother like this, it turned out that no matter what his mother was, he didn't say a word, she didn't expect her husband to be so angry that time, maybe it was a long-suppressed anger, and it broke out for a while.
After the full moon, they were driven out and returned to their warm home with their sons. During the day he went to work, she was alone at home taking care of her son, and at night they took care of her together. At that time, although life was very hard, there was no mother-in-law's scolding in her ear, although it was hard, they enjoyed it, and they took care of their sons together with kindness and love.
Time passed quickly, and in the blink of an eye, her son was three months old, and she had to return to work after her maternity leave.
Since the son was not taken with them, they took the son to her parents' house and entrusted the son to the care of the parents, they went to work during the day and took care of the son together at night.
I thought they were living their lives peacefully, with nothing to do with the unreasonable mother-in-law.
It was close to the New Year, but he consulted with her and said, "Xiaomi, my mother... She didn't want to go to my brother's for the New Year, she said she wanted our family to celebrate the New Year. ”
She looked at him angrily and said, "I don't want to go to your brother's house, she doesn't say in front of people all day that your brother and sister-in-law have a lot of conscience, saying how bad we are, why don't you want to go to that and want to come to our house for the New Year, is there any mistake?" ”
"Well, that's what she said. The wife forgot about the previous things, and the mother may have figured it out and felt that what she had done before was wrong. After all, she is my mother, and I can't let her be at home alone for the New Year! The husband looked at her and said.
Looking at him, thinking of his kindness to her, she reluctantly agreed and said, "Look at your face, all right, come when you want to come, but you have to promise me that she will not be okay to find things again, scolding and grinning so that we all have a bad year." ”
He saw her agree and said happily, "Okay, I promise." Looking at his happy look, she put a big question mark in her heart, hoping that this year can be peaceful and calm.
Chinese New Year's Eve hu dong came that morning, and he didn't say a word to her. Xiaomi's husband cooked and she stood behind her and said one sentence at a time. Without looking at her and her son, she wondered in her heart whether this was an attitude of admitting mistakes?
The dishes were ready until half past six, and they were ready to start eating. Since her son was too young to walk, she put him on a cart in the living room to feed him every time he ate. Let her son be full, she will pack the rice and the good dishes, carry it to the living room and sit next to her son, watching him eat, because she is afraid that the naughty son will fall off the car.
That day she carried her meal to the living room to feed her son as usual, and only a few minutes later she heard her mother-in-law swearing and grinning there, and at first she did not understand what was going on. As her mother-in-law's scolding grew louder, she understood that she was cursing her.
Saying that she did not eat at the table was deliberately not welcoming her so much, what was going on. She went over and asked her husband, who said, "Mom said you didn't come to the table to eat." When she heard the fire coming, she asked, "We don't usually do this, I go to the living room to feed my son, since I have a son, when have I ever eaten at the table?" ”
My husband also said to my mother-in-law: "Mom, you think about it a lot, we are like this every day." ”
The mother-in-law seemed to feel that her husband was looking at her and said, "I don't care how you usually are, I can't do it, she just doesn't welcome me." ”
She said, "You can't come, you didn't come in the morning, didn't we eat like this in the morning?" Didn't you also eat with your son to the living room while watching TV? Wouldn't that be okay? ”
As soon as the mother-in-law heard this, the scolding was even more ugly and more energetic, so she opened the pot for such a small matter and made a fuss on the night of the Chinese New Year's Eve. She really didn't feel good about her mother-in-law like that, and at the same time regretted that she promised her husband to let her come to the New Year. No matter how much she scolded, she never spoke and continued to feed her son.
Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law saw that she did not resist the scolding and said more vigorously: "You think you are a good thing, before you got married, I heard that people introduced you to two or three objects, and you and these people are not clear." Only my son is stupid enough to want you. ”
Hearing this, she couldn't help but say, "Which of your eyes looks at me and others is not clear." ”
The mother-in-law said forcefully: "I still use it to see, and I can think about it." ”
She said angrily, "Think about it?" You're really bored, I've not been confused with others, your son knows, it's not your turn to talk nonsense here. ”
She looked at her husband and said, "You fool, you're talking." ”
The husband heard his mother say this to his daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law looked at him and asked him to say a word. He felt embarrassed, his wife's personality he knew, he did not want to be afraid of his mother let her misunderstand the daughter-in-law again, he said: "Mom, you don't talk nonsense, this kind of thing can be said casually, you are a life attack." ”
When the mother-in-law saw her husband say this, she jumped to her feet and scolded: "You beast, you have no conscience." I don't have your son, so you'll send me back now. You just don't send me back, I'm going to walk back today. ”
The husband stood there without moving, she was afraid that her son was afraid, and she carried her son to the balcony.
I heard my mother-in-law scolding her son loudly and saying, "You either divorce her or send me back quickly and fulfill your obligation to be a son for the last time." If you don't get divorced, you won't step on my door again, and I won't have a son like you from now on. ”
Under the repeated persecution of the mother-in-law, the husband helplessly sent the mother-in-law back home.
After her husband and mother-in-law left, looking at the cold and clear home, she held her son and could no longer hold back the tears flowing down. She was sad, aggrieved, but no one told her, she picked up the mobile phone and dialed the home phone, the phone was connected, she cried and cried and cried and said the beginning and end of the matter, and her father said angrily: "It is really a neurosis, a young girl who is not married, someone introduced the object of what is wrong, in her mouth actually said like that, how can there be such a person." When he comes back, if he also says like his mother that he wants to divorce you, he will leave him, and such a ghost family will not stay for a long time. ”
Just like this, the husband braved the cold wind to shuttle back and forth, and when the husband returned, it was eight o'clock in the evening, and she stood on the balcony holding her son still dazed, looking at the dark night outside.
The husband came to the dark balcony to find and hug her and her son, she broke away from his arms and cried, "Didn't your mother let you divorce me?" What else are you going to come back for, we'll leave after the new year. ”
He still hugged her and said, "Don't get angry, I won't agree to leave." ”
She cried and said, "You don't leave? You did the Lord, didn't your mother say to keep you and me apart? I don't want to stay in such a family, so it just calls her heart as she wants. ”
He looked at her and said, "I can't do anything About the Lord, this is my marriage, and I make my own decisions." ”
Hearing her husband say this, she finally shed tears again, and they hugged each other tightly, and by this time her son was asleep in her arms.
By the time they returned to the living room, the meal on the table was already cold. He reheated the plates, and at about ten o'clock they began to eat Chinese New Year's Eve night's meal, and this is how they came Chinese New Year's Eve this year.
I thought it was over. I didn't think that two months after the end of the year, I heard a friend tell her: "Your mother-in-law went around outside saying how you were not good to her, saying that she had no sons and no grandchildren, and that when you crossed the road across the road, she was still spitting on your back and cursing you." What's going on! ”
Listening to this, she didn't know what it was like at that time, she didn't want to take out these unhappy feelings and say it, just think about the past and let it pass. However, the mother-in-law's approach did not let this matter pass, but became more and more arrogant, broadcasting everywhere.
As the saying goes, the ugliness of the family cannot be publicized, and she never took the initiative to say this in this way. Helplessly forced by her, look at the eyes of others to see her under the inquiry of colleagues and friends. She had to bring up this sad past that she did not want to mention.
Colleagues and friends understood everything in her story, and she shed tears again without a fight. Colleagues and friends said angrily: "It is too unspeakable to have such a person." Leave her alone, simply neuropathy. And said as long as he was good to her, leave her alone. Just when she didn't exist, treat her like air.
But is it really that simple? She did not annoy her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law still broadcast everywhere, letting people who did not know the inside story point out to her, and her heart was very sad, when she said this to her husband. But he chose silence but chose silence.
In this kind of day, she was very depressed, listening to her mother-in-law's radio every day, and then passing them to her ears by others. She was so upset that one day she said to her husband, "Let's get a divorce!" I don't want to live like this. ”
Her husband looked at her in surprise and said, "Divorce? No, I disagree. You don't care what she says, as long as we are gracious and loving together, her rumors will soon be self-defeating. And when she said she was tired, she didn't say it. ”
She sighed and said, "What kind of person is she, don't you understand?" Will she say tired? It's been two or three months since it's been over, is there any sign that she's tired? I see that the more she talks, the more energetic she is. ”
The husband stood aside and stopped talking, just insisted on not divorcing, she looked at her young son and was also very confused, and the divorce was over.
After a while more in this case, she heard again about his mother out scolding them all over the place. She couldn't help but talk to her husband again, and said, "Your mother is like this, you don't dare to say a word." Is she influencing us well now? We don't live here, but we work here. She doesn't want a face, I want. If you don't come forward and say it, I'll hear it again next time. We divorced, not negotiable. ”
She had already said this, but her husband said: "I understand her person, I said she will listen?" And if I say her, she might be able to do something worse. ”
She felt a pang of fear after hearing it, and when others knew that she was in love with him, people revealed incredible expressions and told all kinds of fucking things. At that time, she naively thought that as long as her husband was good to her. Colleagues and friends also said: "Living together, things are not as simple as you think, unless you let him buy a house and live separately after marriage." Listening to many well-meaning people say this, she, a person with no heart, had to have an extra eye at this time, and when her husband tentatively asked her about buying a house, she insisted on buying it. Not because of her power but because of the future if, as people say, there will be a way out. For this reason, she and her husband almost broke up over this matter.
When the mother-in-law drove them away on the day of the full moon and let them roll, she was glad that she insisted on buying a house, otherwise they would have nowhere to go when they were kicked out.
But she still thought too naively, even if she didn't live together, she still had the ability to make a mess of their lives, and there was a lot of wanting to break up this marriage and not give up.
After such a long period of suffering, things did not get as good as they thought, and they often heard from time to time that the mother-in-law was still broadcasting the little thing everywhere.
After a long time, she finally got bored, and when her husband was on a business trip abroad, she sent a message to divorce her husband again. She herself didn't know how many divorces she had filed. The unexpected thing is that this time the husband did not insist that he did not agree to the divorce, but said: "Look at you so unhappy during this time, if you feel that you can live happily after the divorce, leave." ”
After she saw it, she was very unhappy, after all, the divorce was not a matter of their feelings, just his boring mother. She looked at the message for a long time without speaking, thinking that since he agreed, let's leave. This was good for him to everyone, he insisted on not leaving before, she also had an excuse to say to himself that he cared about her and her son, and he did not leave it.
And this time, since he agreed, then she had no excuse not to leave, so let's leave, and also go along with her mother-in-law's heart.
She even laid out the divorce agreement and waited for him to come back and sign it and then divorce. But they disagreed over the upbringing of their children. He insisted on having a son, and she insisted on not giving in, and her reason was that she was not at ease to give her son to someone like his mother, and she said you forgot how she scolded your son to your son during the month? Her son grew up so big, did she ever care? My husband has also become dumb at this time.
Some colleagues knew about this matter, but in the end, because of her son, she chose to compromise again and made up for her son, and because their feelings did not reach the point of divorce.
The husband continued to take care of her and her son thoughtfully and did not take that matter seriously, they did not weaken their feelings because of the divorce, but because they experienced this out, they let each other understand that in fact, they still love each other. After all, why should love divorce, why should you give up your marriage because of your mother-in-law's will, if you do that, you will really regret it.
The mother-in-law's various broadcasts have not stopped, and she chooses to ignore them. As a colleague friend said, she completely treated her as air, as if this person did not exist at all.
Until her son was two or three years old, one day she went to her husband's office, and her mother-in-law also came to her son, and saw her mother-in-law scolding and grinning and went to the next office. She clearly heard her mother-in-law scolding: "You are also here with this dead faceless..." Her husband was also in the office, and she believed that he also heard it, but pretended not to hear it.
Because she was worried about being in her husband's work unit, although she was angry, she pretended not to hear it, and did not say half a sentence to her. Afterwards, she told her colleague about it, and the colleague said: "Your husband and colleagues all heard it, you didn't make a sound at the time, they thought you didn't hear it?" She smiled helplessly and said, What about hearing it, do I learn to scold each other like a shrew in public? His colleague later learned of the matter and her colleague said: really excessive, every day to say how bad her daughter-in-law is, we can't listen to it that day, in public people have not provoked her, she is there to scold. It is that her daughter-in-law does not scold her, if we hear that our mother-in-law has nothing to do to find something to scold herself, she will definitely stand up and scold. ”
"Yes, guarding a son with such a conscience, the daughter-in-law is not bad, the son, grandson, daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law's family of four are living a good life." I don't know what she thinks in her heart, but her head is really in the water. His colleague said.
"Yeah, it's too bad for her to go on like this." You should let your husband go home and have a good talk. Colleagues said to her.
She smiled and said, "Will he go?" I used to call him, he's not going, and you thought he didn't hear that day? I questioned him afterwards, and he said at first that he hadn't heard it, and then he couldn't stand my repeated questioning that he didn't want to make things bigger, which meant that he was deliberately pretending not to hear it. ”
After so many years of tolerance, she found that their tolerance did not make her conscience discover, but thought that they were afraid of her. Therefore, this time under the words of her colleagues, she had to say to her husband again: "After such a long time, I have put up with her again and again, have you also let me see the usefulness?" Even your colleagues say that your mother is excessive, let me ask you to go home and talk about her, don't make trouble like this, after all, this is not good for anyone. ”
After her repeated requests, her husband finally agreed to go home and talk to his mother once and said, "I said I would talk, but I didn't listen, I can't guarantee it." ”
She only nodded helplessly when she heard this, thinking that she simply thought that marriage was a matter of two people, as long as they loved each other, everything else was not a problem. Only when you get married do you understand that it is easy to love each other and difficult to get along, marriage is not just a matter for two people, marriage is a matter for two families. Because of his mother-in-law's relationship, he watched her being wronged and ignored it, is this a manifestation of love? Sometimes even she was confused, because of her mother-in-law's practice of all this, her parents could not sit with such a person calmly, and the mother-in-law regarded her parents as enemies even more, so the marriage between the two of them led to discord between the two families.
In the days that followed, the gust of wind blown by her mother-in-law was not calm, and life did not become quiet, but after experiencing so much, she had become accustomed to becoming calm and calm. She is no longer irritable, and she just wants to live her little life calmly.
In her husband's words, as long as they are together, the days are long, and who is not determined. Even if they are misunderstood by people, as long as they live a good life and have a clear conscience, let them say what others want to say. As the saying goes, who does not say people behind their backs, who does not say behind their backs, she decided to go her own way and let others say it. ......
Fortunately, after experiencing these things, they did not separate from each other, and they felt that even if they were stronger in love, if they were not managed well, they would eventually be worn down by the trivialities of life, so they decided to love to the end and carry out marriage to the end.