Without money, life is hard enough, don't tear the family apart, lose harmony and stability. All happiness and good life are carried out on the basis of family harmony, and even poverty is only temporary, because the family can bring generous power to people.
On the other hand, there is no money, family life is still turbulent, want to turn over, it is more difficult, so do not mess with yourself, find the center of gravity of life.
Life is full of ups and downs, ups and downs, in a sense, this is not a test for couples, testing each other's determination and faith.
Whether it is a breakup or a divorce, in essence, it is because it has not passed the test, and it has not passed the test of time, life and interests.
Of course, this is not the way to solve the problem, but the beginning of the problem, the more in the absence of money, the more timely adjustment of the mode of getting along between husband and wife.
How should couples get along when they are short of money? Remember these five sentences!
1, do not question, complain and belittle.
We must remember that the more you have no money, the more you can't question, complain and belittle, you must manage yourself well, control yourself, otherwise it will cause internal friction between husband and wife, seriously destroying the family fortune.
Why did you question your original choice?
Think of it this way, everyone longs for a rich life, but not everyone can live a rich life, and they just fall at a normal starting point, pay attention, it is the starting point, and the future is unknown. As long as two people are willing to work hard and are willing to endure hardships, there will be infinite possibilities.
Complaining is useless, seeking change will have a way out. It's not fair to take the anger of not having money and completely vent it on your partner, after all, you don't have any money, don't you?
He or she is not rich and can't make a lot of money, but if you can make money, you can also change the quality of life, right? So don't always look for other people's reasons.
2. Avoid unnecessary household expenses.
Be meticulous, cut back on food and clothing, and spend all the money you earn, albeit not much, on the family's necessary expenses.
The money earned must first meet the family expenses and family reserves, and then meet the personal needs of the husband and wife, the family interests are greater than the personal interests of the husband and wife, only in this way, the family will be built well. Instead of receiving money, meet the needs of the individual and then use the rest for household expenses.
Household expenses are also necessary and unnecessary, and the more money is lost, the more extravagance and waste must be avoided, and the province will be saved.
When you have money, you have plenty of money in your hands, and then you think about changing it, and you will feel a great burden when you have no money and pursue a high-quality life, and you will feel a great burden from this burden.
3. Minimize contact with the outside world.
Live your life behind closed doors, tidy up your days well, so as not to go out and be laughed at, make yourself more emotional, and have a big mental breakdown. The more you have no money, the easier it is for your mentality to collapse, and the comparison in your subconscious will bias your beliefs and forget your original intention.
For example, the more you think about it, the more unfair it is, why can others live so well, but it is so difficult to live by yourself? The same starting point, how the gap is so big.
So don't stare at people's days, you can only live your own life. The more you compare, the easier it is to stimulate your dignity, face and vanity, and finally be controlled by desire into a puppet.
Life is your own, it is easy to be affected by the outside world, and you can only make your own life worse.
4. Have a clear plan for the future.
No money, why no money? Lack of money, why lack of money? In the end, it is not enough to make ends meet, spend too much money on one's own, and the ability is not worthy of desire, or the money earned is indeed too little.
The first step in solving the problem is to find the problem first and acknowledge that it exists. So for the future, at least have a short-term plan, what you want to do, what to do, and what you can do.
Without planning and seeking change, life may be like this, no matter how sad, no matter how complaining, it does not solve practical problems.
Calm yourself down, think about where the problem is, how to solve the problem, and then give time a little time, give the process a little process, will slowly get better, mainly have a goal.
5, have a pragmatic attitude towards life.
Stop having wild, unrealistic ideas, or thinking about pie in the sky and soaring into the sky. The only thing that can save you is yourself, and the only one who can change your life is yourself. Never pin your hopes in anyone.
Instead of complaining, it is better to adjust yourself and work together with your partner to create a better life. In front of two people, there is a goal, and between two people, there are also values of common struggle.
Be pragmatic, rely on the efforts of two people, live a down-to-earth life, even if you are not an ordinary person, you must first define yourself as an ordinary person.
When you can't even live a good life for ordinary people, is it useful to think of those illusory things? Think more about what is useful, the most useful, always change, always action, don't just force your partner to work hard alone.
Marriage is the most realistic life in the world, the most realistic life, inseparable from the support of money, so money is indeed very important, but more importantly, or our own attitude. If you have a correct attitude, there is no money, and the impact on your life and psychology will be much smaller.
Life is staged, it is difficult at a certain stage, this is normal, no matter who it is, can not be an exception, so there is an old saying, sunny days are prepared for cloudy days.
What couples need to pay attention to is that when there is no money, the eyes do not stare at each other, they will only attack each other and complain about each other, which will form an internal friction between husband and wife, and the two people will become cages and shackles that torment each other. In this way, how can it be turned over, how can it usher in the first day.
Rich and rich life, no money and no money life, the peace and certainty of the spiritual world, the most precious. Manage your desires, restrain your emotions, learn to speak well, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome, the key is to be able to hold on and move forward in a direction.
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