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Some people say that how a woman lives in this life is very important, and how to live depends on the woman's mentality.
That is to say, what kind of mentality a woman has, what kind of life will be lived, when a woman has a good mentality, life will naturally get better, if a woman's mentality is not good enough, then the future life will naturally not be too good.
But how does a woman live and be truly happy?
A few days ago, when I was unwell, when I went to the hospital, the doctor said that there was nothing wrong with my body, that is, the pressure on myself was too much, too anxious, so it would be like this.
After that, the doctor said that many women are like this, and they have given themselves a lot of pressure and made themselves breathless.
Therefore, in this life, if a woman wants to live a good life, she must do three things, that is, slow, quiet, and give up.
1. Slow
Now the pace of life is very fast, many of us have no way, can only follow this fast-paced life to live, when our pace of life is too fast, we will find that we are very hard, we are tired, we are very broken.
Such a life makes us feel the happiness of life and the beauty of life.
So learn to live a little slower, when we live a little slower, we can feel the beauty of life, feel the happiness of life.
Jiang Xun once said: "Only slow, can we discover the beauty of life." ”
When we slow down, we can find the beauty of life, we can also find the beauty of life, we can see the happy moments in life, feel the happy times in life.
In fact, life is like this, when we slow down, we can enjoy life, you can feel the different beauty in life.
Therefore, if you want to live well, you must first slow down, live slowly, and slowly feel the happiness of life.
2. Quiet
When a person can't calm down, no matter what you do, you can't do it well, sometimes it's painful, sometimes it's collapsed, no matter what it is, we have to know that only by calming down can we do a good job.
When we calm down, our brains are awake, we can think clearly about some things, we can see some things clearly, at this time we are calm and rational.
When we are calm and rational, no matter what we encounter, we can face it calmly, we can face it soberly, and we know what we should do and what we should not do.
In fact, for a woman, the really good way to live is to be quiet, and quiet can always keep a clear mind and always know what we should do.
The writer Yi Shu once said: "Be quiet in everything: come quietly, go quietly, work hard quietly, harvest quietly, and avoid noise." ”
Oh, yes! Jing is a realm, a realm that is getting better and better, and those who can really calm down are actually people who are very peaceful in their hearts, very calm people, they know very well what they should do, they know very well what they can do, so no matter what time it is, they are always sober and rational people.
For a woman, Jing is a kind of cultivation, a kind of reason that emanates from the inside out, which is a kind of temperament, and women who can have this temperament can live calmly and unhurriedly, and they can also make their lives happier and happier.
3. House
In a person's life, the most difficult thing is to give up, to give up those useless, meaningless to themselves, waste of time and energy of people and things, but many times, we are difficult to do.
We are always reluctant and always feel that it is still useful, or there is only a glimmer of hope.
For example, when we meet a person who does not love ourselves enough, we are always reluctant to give up, always think that there will be some opportunities, and always think that as long as we work hard, there is hope, so we go to work hard, we go to fight.
But in the end, I found that such efforts are meaningless, because people who don't love you always don't love you.
For example, sometimes, some things we know are meaningless, no matter how hard we try, there is no good result in the end, but we are still reluctant to give up, always think that as long as we try harder, it will be good.
The more this happens, the more you will plunge yourself into pain.
Therefore, in this life, we must learn to give up, and those women who really live well know how to give up.
Abandoning the person who does not love, giving up those things that waste time and energy, and giving up those useless supplies, only in this way, their own lives are meaningful and useful, and they will not be affected by those meaningless people and things, so that their lives are unhappy.
4, this life, live slowly
Women, in this life, don't worry, don't worry, live slowly! Step by step, as long as we can move forward steadily, our life will inevitably get better and better, and our life will inevitably become happier and happier.
So no matter when, no matter what it is, we must learn to slow down, live slowly, think quietly, always know what we need and what we don't need, only in this way will our lives be better.
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