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In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

author:Go to your bullfrog

Recently, indulging in "Talk Show 4", seeing the thick accumulation of this industry, the newcomers shining, the veterans a top two, really interesting.

Xu Zhisheng, I thought he ate more or less by his appearance, after all, he stood for five minutes without speaking, and there would be many people laughing for 5 minutes. But Xu Zhisheng in the second scene, his text, rhythm and expression are so perfectly integrated, I feel the horror of the unity of heaven and man, the person who was born to eat this meal!

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

Birds and birds, although in the first scene there is a suspicion of melting stems, in the second scene in the talk: the world faced by beautiful people and ordinary people is completely different, and even death cannot eliminate this gap, such as: Lou lan beauty and dry corpse no. 2. It's both funny and meaningful, and while the performance is a little weaker, the text writing is strong.

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

The most difficult thing is Zhang Jun, about the male gaze and male perspective, the text is strong, the size is good, the performance is also relaxed, and the output of views, it is more rare not to sensationalize through "judgment". It's a pity to be eliminated. Losing to Pang Bo may still be reasonable, but his performance completely beat Wang Mian, probably because he did not sign a contract to laugh and was eliminated?

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

However, several of them are not in the scope of today's discussion. Today I'm going to talk about Rock, well, that one,: Rock. In him, you can see the shadow of most middle-aged people -

When people reach middle age, there is no sense of existence in the workplace

Shoot advertisements with Yang Kasa, and everyone can only see Yang Kasa;

Make memes with Zhisheng, and everyone can only see Zhisheng;

Writing for Xu Zhiyuan with birds and birds, everyone only saw birds and birds.

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

One thing to say, to write a manuscript for Xu Zhiyuan, this sentence was said by Li Shi after the bird performance. Maybe it's to cheer up the newcomers, "accidentally" forgot about Rock. But Zhou Qimo wrote such a paragraph in an article that year -

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

How like the middle-aged people in the workplace, although the starting point is not low, but will eventually be slapped to death on the beach by the back wave. The back wave will step on the shoulder of the front wave to ride the wind and waves, and one wave is higher than the other. Therefore, the mission of middle-aged people is to pass everything on to young people, including "daddy", and then quietly forget.

Some netizens on Weibo commented that old employees like Rock have good business capabilities, but they are not top-notch. There will be a kind of thing, without him something missing, but compared with some business masters, he does not seem to be so powerful.

Much like the status of middle-aged people in the workplace, high or low, struggling on the edge of youth, one moment thinking I can, the next moment thinking that Lao Tzu does not want to work hard! Leaders look at these middle-aged people in the workplace are also full of contradictions: one moment they feel that they can still save a hand, when necessary, experience and connections must rely on middle-aged people, and the next moment they look at them "you can't get used to me, and you can't kill me", and the broken things that daily leave of absence, really can't promote these people.

There is no sense of existence.

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

When people reach middle age, everything is not satisfactory, only sighing

Rock's sigh, too soulful ~ ~ I once wrote in the article "Sigh is the survival magic weapon of middle-aged women", sigh is the survival magic weapon of middle-aged women, and there is only sighing without words.

The gatherings of middle-aged women all begin with sighs, end with sighs, hug each other for warmth, and scream in the sky. The middle woman needs to sigh daily and exhale turbid qi, so that the yang qi in the body can rise and return to the blood.

People are happy and cheerful, and people are sad and sigh. Middle-aged people have long been in a sad life mode, there are old and young, the mainstay depends on them, the parents in the family occasionally do one, the children are disobedient for a long time, the partner also wants to be a demon; the boss in the workplace is dissatisfied with it for a long time, colleagues are looking at it, but every day there are rare things waiting for them to clean up the mess, they are not short of oxygen Who is deficient in oxygen?

So, every time I see Rock appear with a sigh, I feel the same way, even middle-aged men have to sigh. But he does not have the drag of the family, really not as good as the middle-aged woman Pi Shi.

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

And that's not even the deadliest. The most fatal thing is that when middle-aged people face young people, the sense of inability to substitute is always reminding you, you! old! finish!

This time in the group, Rock was surrounded by three newcomers, quite a feeling of three British battle, out of the game is inevitable.

To be fair, the text in these two issues of Rock is good, but the theme doesn't quite fit young people! At the scene of the talk show recording, the audience is mostly 20 years old and 30 years old, and it is impossible to resonate and feel a sense of substitution.

Think about it, when you are about 30 years old, you don't know what depression is, and you can only worry about giving new words; but when you reach 40, your friends around you tell you every three or five minutes: you are depressed! You can empathize.

Anyway, Rock depression talk show is not funny enough is also true, after all, like Xiao Jia to integrate their own congenital diseases into the paragraph and blossom from the mud, it takes a lot of offline training, only the core of the tragedy is really digested and crushed, in order to transform it into the power of humor. Obviously, the middle-aged Rock cannot yet have an "exotic (depressed) style" (the terrier of The Great Zhang Wei).

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

To give a few suggestions, Rock can perform like this -

1. Begin with a sigh, end with a sigh, and call back.

2) His point can fall on how stubbornly he is not admitting depression.

3, his introduction is too fast, the audience can not accept depression at once, can be from their own sigh can be broken.

This stage may not tolerate the fatigue of middle-aged people, who love CP more. Life is already so bitter, why don't I find some sugar for myself?

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

People have many problems in middle age

Once middle-aged, the path of life is blurred, but the way of life is clearly arranged. We sent them on a long journey, sent them away, and finally looked at the heads of their peers one by one, until they were offline.

When people reach middle age, you will find that you or the people around you first begin to get sick physically, breast nodules, thyroid nodules, ovarian cysts, stomach diseases, hemorrhoids, fatty liver, and various cancers...

The body is not healthy, and the psychology is beginning to be distorted: anxiety disorder, depression, mania... That's why overnight, all over Shanghai is looking for mooncakes at 600 Wanping South Road... Because they are all sick!

Middle-aged people practice what they preach and use their personal experience to give us a history of disease development.

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people

Rock's notebook this time wrote about depression, and the observation is still very delicate, especially the difference between laziness and depression. Lazy people, lying on the bed will smile, when it comes to eating will immediately get up; but depression is not the same, the brain seems to live in an Easy Lijing, no matter what you do, will ask you if there is any meaning.

Young people don't know depression, middle-aged people know it too well! Who doesn't have two or three depressed friends around! According to my chat summary with my depressed friend, there are a few points that can help middle-aged people reconcile with depression -

First, the medicine cannot be stopped. Depression is not necessarily a completely mental illness, part of it is a physiological problem, so, unless the doctor agrees, generally do not easily stop the drug.

Second, conditionally arrange psychotherapy. The role of psychotherapy is to help you get out, and ultimately you have to be strong enough to get out of this chaos.

Third, reduce self-aggression and don't take the fault of others into account. It's not your problem that you're depressed, it's a problem with your environment, and you need to cut off and desensitize at this time.

Maybe in the next issue I can share with you the stories of those depressed middle-aged people.

Every time I finished talking to them, just like after watching rock talk shows, I vaguely felt a little depressed: Do I have to go to the 600 to register? How many boxes of mooncakes can I buy by the way?

In Rock, I saw all kinds of sad urges from middle-aged people