We grew up reading: "Guan Guan Ju Dove, in the River Continent." Ladies and gentlemen. Such verses grow.
Naturally in the eyes of most people, love is often men to be more active, and men must learn to actively pursue women in order to get love.
And the beginning of the relationship is indeed that men are more active, because they like it, because they are happy in their hearts, so they don't mind getting closer to each other step by step.
But as the saying goes, "a woman's heart is a needle in the sea", men and women are different species, and their attitudes towards love are also very different.
Naturally, the initiative will not always be so successful, and love is not something that seeks kindness, so many times, the initiative is not sweet love.
Over time, men will feel tired, will feel that love is too difficult, obviously have tried their best to do but still have no good results, they do not want to work hard.
But as the saying goes, "As long as the result is good, it doesn't matter how tortuous the process is." ”
In the same face of love, as long as two people can come together, how about using a little small method to promote its process.
In the face of love, if men have not been able to overcome it, they may wish to change their thinking, learn a little method and small skills, and let women take the initiative to pursue you, which may be much better.
01.
Learn to make the other person notice your good side
There are thousands of people in the world, everyone is unique, has their own unique place, has their own advantages and disadvantages.
As long as there is a glowing side in themselves, then they can attract people who pay attention to this aspect, and the same is true for women.
As people often say about talented women, women are always attracted to people who are talented or good enough in some way.
Because people have a Strong side in their hearts, people who see excellent people can't help but want to get close to him and want to have further contact with each other.
If a man chases a woman fruitlessly, it is better to show his excellent side to the other party, so that she may take the initiative to pursue you after feeling your excellence.
I think everyone has heard such a sentence: "Serious people are the most beautiful, and men who concentrate on cooking for you are the most heartwarming." And its essence is that because the other party's serious attitude makes people can't help but indulge."
Every relationship is precious, everyone's heart is incomparable, rather than pleasing each other, it is better to let the other party realize that you are special.
And the time to bow your head for a long time is often easy for you to ignore your excellent side, and the other party is also easy to not cherish your feelings because of your move.
02.
Learn to make the other person value your presence
Some people say that love is actually a game process, and one party cannot be allowed to lose completely, nor can one party win completely.
There are backs and forths, there are losses and wins, so that two people have the willingness to continue to go, just like flying a kite, the line is too tight and too loose is not good.
Wanting to get away with it is a good way to let the other party understand that you are not right or wrong with her, so that the woman's heart is not sure of your attitude, but it will provoke her desire to conquer.
Sometimes, men can't chase women because their attitude is too low, so that the other party has a feeling that you can't do without her.
For women, what they actually want in their hearts is a partner who can help themselves in life and can rely on themselves when they are in difficulty, rather than a partner who bows his head in everything and seems to have no opinion and principles.
The appropriate regression on the road of pursuit, looking down can let the other party see your sincerity and feel your love, too much is not good.
Lust and indulgence make women have a feeling that they can't hold you, but they will be emotionally attached to this feeling, and continue to be obsessed with you as a person, curious.
And when a woman cares about you as a person, then you are half successful, and then show your specialness to her in a timely manner, she will take the initiative to pursue you.
03.
Learn to break off the connection and cool down the relationship
Too easy to get people do not know to cherish, whether men or women, it is so, easy to see easily.
In life, some men do not find nothing on the road of pursuit, they may have touched each other's hearts, but it is difficult to go to the last step.
In fact, it is because they are too "enthusiastic", just separated to send messages to each other, morning, middle and evening greetings continuously, frequent contact with each other.
No matter what you do, you must learn to be appropriate, especially when a woman has a certain good feeling for you, you must learn to guide her to pay for love and take the initiative for love.
Even if it is a meal, what you make yourself is always better than others, no matter what the feelings are, at least you will know how to cherish it when you participate.
And proper withdrawal, disconnection from the other party at a certain point in time, or cool down the relationship, so that the other party back to the days without you, is a good way.
When a woman is used to your booing and greeting, suddenly interrupting or unable to contact you, she will suddenly begin to miss your good, and then can't help but start contacting you.
After all, people are accustomed to the sudden loss of something, and then they begin to think about its existence and the meaning it brings to themselves.
The so-called way to let women pursue you is based on sincerely admiring each other, and sincerity is always the best shortcut to the beginning of love.
In fact, it doesn't matter who chases whom in the relationship, as long as two people have feelings and righteousness, like each other and love each other, what is the point of thinking so much.