When watching "Know It or Not", I wondered, the eldest lady came from a family and was single-minded about Sheng Xuan, how could Sheng Xuan not like her?
Because of Chang Feng, Sheng Xuan was called by the emperor and snubbed for a day and a night before being released.
The family did not know what the situation was, and the eldest lady wept and wiped her tears, and begged God to pray to the Buddha that the officials would return safely.
When Sheng Shao finally returned to the mansion to meet the old lady, he heard the eldest lady shouting "official" and pounced on her, saying "the official clothes are there, the arms and legs are there", holding Sheng Shao a handful of snot and crying tears, completely losing the style of the big lady.
At this time, her heart was finally in her stomach, and her life could still walk on the normal track, without becoming a widow, not being sold, and not losing her identity as a big lady.
The eldest lady, who was immersed in joy, did not care at all to ask her husband what he had been locked up for for a day and a night.
The mood of the eldest lady can be understood, in that era of only kings and only husbands, women have no status at all, and once something happens to a man, women can only passively be beaten.
However, for Sheng Xuan, it does not matter what to eat, it does not matter whether he is tired or not, what is important is the anger in his heart that has nowhere to say, and what he needs is someone who can discuss problems with him.
Simply put, Sheng Xuan needs someone who can be on the same track as him mentally.
Sheng Shao has always loved Lin Xiaoniang and her son and daughter, and now it is precisely this son Chang Feng who has caused the incident.
In the eyes of outsiders, this is a disgrace to his prosperous family, but when the door is closed, the eldest lady has a voice to laugh at him: This is the good son raised by your spoiled Lin Xiaoniang?
No matter from any angle, this was a thing that made Sheng Xuan feel extremely annoyed, and it was enough to make him unable to lift his head in front of the eldest lady.
Therefore, the big lady's crying days wiped away tears, busy before and after, and booed and asked for warmth, all of which could only make Sheng Xuan feel more upset.
The reason why the emperor in "The Biography of Zhen Huan" likes Zhen Huan so much is because when the emperor has a problem to throw out, Zhen Huan can give his own opinion, and this opinion can be affirmed by the emperor.
In other words, Zhen Huan was able to catch the emperor's problems.
Looking at An Lingrong again, in front of the emperor, he will always be the inferior person who only promises, except that he will serve the emperor's diet and living, and will sing and skate, there will be nothing.
Love with different spiritual frequencies may be able to obtain temporary happiness, but in the end it cannot be long-lasting.
In the hit drama "Perfect Partner" at the beginning of the year, Chen Shan, played by Gao Yuanyuan, and Sun Lei, played by Zhang Luyi, always quarreled because they were mentally out of sync.
Chen Shan is a professional lawyer, a career elite, and can be described as a prominent figure in the circle. After Sun Lei became a family, in order to take care of his daughter and support his wife's career, he gave up his career and lived in the unit with peace of mind.
Chen Shan said that the two people can adjust roles or ask the nanny to take care of their daughters, but for Sun Lei, the comfortable days are too long, and he has become small and rich, and he has to live and live, and he does not want to work so hard anymore.
When the spiritual level of two people who were originally so loving was too different, the contradiction was inevitable.
Human society is constantly evolving, and when people are no longer just satisfied with their appetites, spiritual pursuits become more important.
Not only in the relationship between husband and wife, but also in other intimate relationships, the same frequency of the spirit is also very important.
Since the cousin gave birth to the child, all the focus has been placed on the child, the joys and sorrows are around the child, and the unit has also opened the paddling mode early, completely losing herself.
My cousin doesn't shop, doesn't work out, has no interest, doesn't even play mahjong. All she cares about is her children.
When the child grew up, he said such a sentence to his cousin. He said Mom, I want you to have your own preferences, and when I grow up and don't be at home, you can live well.
He also said, I know you love me, but this kind of love makes me feel too heavy.
The cousin cried a lot about this, thinking that the child was a white-eyed wolf.
Later, the cousin realized little by little that the child's statement was correct, and she began to gradually find herself, not only becoming happier and more beautiful, but also the child was proud to have such a mother.
The same frequency and track of the spiritual level does not require us to understand the professional field of others, but to remind us that no matter what situation we are in, no matter how old we are, we should not lose the courage to fight and the strength to move upwards.
If the eldest lady could truly understand Sheng Xuan, if An Lingrong did not have to be so inferior, if Sun Lei and Chen Shan could achieve spiritual synchronization, perhaps there would not be so many tragedies in love.