It is said that studying hard to become an excellent talent is an important turning point in life, and learning knowledge can not only enrich oneself, but also cultivate oneself and enhance one's inner connotation and external image. Allow yourself to be able to present yourself at any time and get more people's approval.
At present, the state has vigorously developed education and added many new policies and measures. Mainly to reduce the learning pressure of students, improve the learning efficiency of students in school, which makes many parents also begin to pay attention to their children's learning problems, put their own expectations on the child, and expect the child to have a better life and a happy family in the future. He also dedicates his or her own strength to the country.
There are thousands of family educations in China, and each family's education of their children is different, and the way and concept of education are also very different; every parent may feel that their education is right and the best for their children; but the fact is that it is also the case, and it may also cause other parents to talk about it.
In fact, there are many such families in China, and parents are good-looking on the outside; especially good children with excellent grades and obedience and understanding are also the most liked by everyone, and parents will be very proud. However, some parents have taken this matter out to "show off", which has caused many parents to resent it.
It is a gathering of parents, the party is in the parents' family, next to the lively parents gathering, on the other side is the child's learning environment, parents began to show off their children study very hard, in any environment can be immersed in the atmosphere of learning, do not have to worry about parents, has always been the best in the results, has always been our pride.
When parents are proud of their children, they do not get the approval of other parents, but they talk about it; in such an environment, they can still immerse themselves in learning, and they are not active, which can only show that this child reads dead books and does not deal with others, even if it is excellent academic performance. Will there be higher achievements in the future?
Listening to parents say that their children have entered high school, academic performance has always been very good, but in the lively noon, there is no rest and lunch, but has been studying, is it because of poor grades that they are studying all the time? Don't hang out with friends? Is it unsociable? Parents are still happy because of this, and they do not pay attention to the child's own problems. Some netizens left a message: Hard work is right, but also to grasp the measure, excessive learning will only increase the pressure and bad impact on children.
"Combination of work and leisure" is the most powerful learning method in the student era, providing a better learning environment and learning style, which can improve the learning efficiency of children; appropriately taking children out to exercise and relax can expand children's vision and vision, add more interesting things, and can also have a broad thinking.
Especially in the case of some cases where they have not received good learning and teaching, they prefer to let their children enjoy it, pin their hopes on their children, and hope that future children will not be like us, working hard for a lifetime. Some children understand things, can understand that parents are willing to study hard, but if they are more rebellious children, it is easy to bring bad influences, thus affecting the child's life. Many times, from a family's mode of getting along, you can see the child's attitude to learning, at any time the child can be more confident, and grasp the learning time, indicating that the child under the influence of the parents, has a better way of learning, and therefore as a role model; the more special family is very concerned about the child's achievements, may require the child to learn more every day, reduce the time to go out to play, the child will appear "disgusted" emotions, do not like to learn attitude, in front of the parents is only to do the way to learn, There is no result at all in learning.
Now many parents have begun to compare psychology, always want to give their children a better learning environment and cram classes, increase the child's various skills and interests; however, children's learning is not to give parents to fight for external face, more for their own future, to achieve a better self, I hope that parents should focus on their children and respect their children's choices.
Each child's preferences are different, the choice is also different, parents do not blindly give their children a variety of cram schools to learn because of the comparison psychology, which will only increase the learning pressure of the child. Only by understanding the child's preferences and interests and enhancing the child's shortcomings and deficiencies in other aspects can the child make up for the shortcomings.
The new college entrance examination mode in 2022 is also changing, and the current education is no longer the more traditional thinking of the past, more test content is to examine the students' thinking mode and multi-angle solutions to various types of questions, if it is still blindly dead reading, the impact on children is very large. Parents should also timely follow the education policies of the corresponding countries to guide their children to correct learning methods and education.
Conclusion: Students learn to work hard, as parents should give encouragement to their children, rather than using this matter to publicize and show off, if you get bad words, parents will also be angry, affecting the mood; the suggestions for other parents should be worth learning, and the children's progress together.