In the eyes of many married women, their husbands will always be the ones they can always rely on. However, after watching the divorce variety show "Spring Day Delayed Departure", I found that only my parents were my eternal backing!
When the program team asked: "Do you have the most sorry person after the divorce?" Murphy said that the people he is most sorry for are his parents. She has always been the pride of her parents, beautiful and good at work, but only the divorce has hit her parents very hard!
Especially for more traditional families, most parents will think that their children's divorce is a shameful thing. Mo Fei admitted in the show that since the divorce, he obviously felt that his relationship with his father was a lot estranged, but he was also helpless, and he didn't want them to worry about their own affairs at such an old age!
But Wu Yating has a different point of view, in her opinion, in fact, the father may just not be good at expressing, he does not feel that his daughter's divorce is humiliating, but because he is too guilty of self-blame.
After Wu Yating's divorce, although she did not talk about this matter with her father head-on, she could feel that her father was actually angry with herself. Because he felt that he had done a wrong thing in encouraging Wu Yating to get married, he did not help his daughter choose the right person, and he did not protect his precious daughter!
Remember that Wu Yating once revealed in previous episodes of the show that she and Wang Quexin actually had a child before they got married, and they were originally married because they were pregnant, but they didn't expect that the wedding had not yet done the child but it was gone!
Wu Yating's father did not recommend that his daughter get married at that time, because he did not want the man to marry because of the child, but he could not help his daughter to marry Wang Quexin. Who would have thought that in less than five years, this marriage would come to an end!
Presumably Wu Yating's father blamed himself because of this incident? If she had been more determined at that time and shared some marriage experience with her daughter, perhaps Wu Yating would not have chosen to get married and have children at such a young age, nor would she have suffered so much harm after marriage!
Until now, Wu Yating can't help but cry every time she mentions the days when she was just divorced.
Especially during the time when she was just divorced, Wu Yating was once a little depressed! She had always wondered why Wang Quexin wanted to divorce herself. He even often falls into a state of self-doubt: "Am I doing something wrong?" "Am I not good enough?"
Fortunately, her girlfriend's words woke her up: "Ya Ting, you are not wrong! See for yourself how well you've managed this home over the years! With the encouragement of her girlfriend, Wu Yating gradually walked out of the haze of marriage, and now she can still live well with two children alone!
In fact, Wu Yating's experience has also sounded the alarm for many divorced women, admitting that they are not ashamed to see the wrong person before, but knowing that they are wrong but still have to be wrong is the most shameful. Women should never punish themselves with the mistakes of others, because only the love of their parents for themselves is unrequited, and whether people are alive or happy is the most important!
Finally, I would like to say that marriage is a moral constraint, legal marriage is legal divorce, so divorce is not shameful at all. I kindly ask everyone to be more tolerant and understanding of divorced women, and not to have too much malice towards them!