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The more I look back at the drama "Meet the Season", the more I feel that Ning Yu has no empathy for her family, and outsiders know the pain of her brother Ning Shu, but she does not know, and she also tries to protect the enemy family and fall in love with the enemy family.
First, the father was forced to die.
Ning Yu was born in a very ordinary worker family, his mother Ning Hui was a pharmacist in the hospital, his father Cui Hao worked in a factory, and in the early years, in order to rescue factory equipment, his father jumped into ice water to repair, resulting in the body leaving a sick root and unable to do hard work.
At first, the factory was still conscientious and had been raising him, but then the factory changed its boss, and the efficiency of the factory became worse and worse, the new director borrowed money everywhere to raise funds, and fired many employees, and Cui Hao, an employee who could not do hard work, was also dismissed in disguise.
That is, the factory arranged for him to do the work of turning sand, and knew that he was a person who was physically ill and could not do the hard work, so let him do the work of turning the sand, but was it not forcing him to leave?
And the factory didn't pay him, so he spent the whole day in a fog, either drinking or sleeping.
His wife Ning Hui was fed up with the hardships of raising the whole family alone, so she had a fight with Cui Haoda at home.
Ning Hui scolded: "You are a big man, you don't earn a penny, in addition to drinking and sleeping at home all day, you let me a woman go out to earn money to support the family, are you not a nest?" If you are a man, you should go to Jian Zhiguo and get back the salary you should ask for, otherwise I will not be able to do this day! ”
Ning Hui's words greatly hurt Cui Hao's self-esteem, and Cui Hao also ran excitedly to the office of the boss Jian Zhiguo and forced Jian Zhiguo to take money for him.
And Jian Zhiguo was also in a period of anxiety, not only did not give him money, but also used words to stimulate him, shoved the knife into Cui Hao's hand, let Cui Hao kill himself with a knife, Cui Hao did not dare, Jian Zhiguo scolded Cui Hao as a soft egg.
These insulting words made Cui Hao's self-esteem hit again, but he still did not think of stabbing Jian Zhiguo with a knife, but put the knife across his neck, and Jian Zhiguo went to grab the knife when he saw it, and under the robbery of the two people, the knife accidentally stabbed Jian Zhiguo in the stomach.
After the incident, Jian Zhiguo was taken to the hospital, cui Hao was afraid and desperate and chose to jump off the building to commit suicide, and the tragedy of the Cui family was staged.
Cui Hao's death is largely because of the Jian family, if Jian Zhiguo did not marginalize him, did not use words to stimulate him, and did not grab the knife, it would not lead to the tragedy of eventual death and injury.
The real hatred between the two families was caused by the Jian family after Cui Hao's death.
During Jian Zhiguo's hospitalization, his daughter Jian Minmin believes that Choi Hao stabbed her father, and although the person is dead, his family does not want to live well.
So she first went to smash people's homes, and then put news around that Cui Hao had killed her father, Cui Hao's family were all family members of murderers, and eventually she lost Ning Hui's job, and also beat Ning Shu into a serious injury, leaving the sequelae of epilepsy.
But in fact, when Jian Minmin started to beat Ning Hui and Ning Shu, Jian Zhiguo had woken up, as the party who knew the whole thing best, he did not explain the reason to the family, but only said to his son Jian Hongcheng that the root cause of this matter was that he did not run a good factory, and this matter passed like this.
He said it ambiguously, and only said this to his son Jian Hongcheng alone, not to the rest of the family, is this not to let Jian Minmin come and go?
Moreover, Jian Minmin later beat Ning Shudu to serious injuries and did not intend to let go of the Cui family, as a recovered Jian Zhiguo, why did not stop his daughter?
It can only be said that everything That Jian Minmin did, Jian Zhiguo knew and acquiesced, otherwise how could he, as the head of the family, let things develop like this?
However, after Ning Yu went to college, she fell in love with Jian Zhiguo's son Jian Hongcheng, at first she hated Jian Hongcheng, but under the relationship between the two, she also fell in love with Jian Hongcheng, and after a sweet period of time, the two were forced to break up because of ning shu's appearance.
Ning Shu, who was only a teenager at the time, went to Ning You's school to give Ning You food, and when he learned that Jian Hongcheng was Ning You's boyfriend, he was emotionally agitated and had a recurrence of epilepsy, falling to the ground and convulsing constantly, foaming at the mouth.
After her mother Ning Hui learned about it, she rushed to the hospital in a furious manner, slapped Ning You, and demanded that Ning You must break up, and Ning You and Jian Hongcheng drew a clear line.
Second, the younger brother was beaten into epilepsy.
In the whole thing, Ning Shu was the most innocent and the most injured one.
Cui Hao's death, Jian Zhiguo had a share, Ning Hui had a share, but it had nothing to do with Ning Shu, at that time Ning Shu was just a child who was only a few years old.
But such a big child was beaten into epilepsy by Jian Minmin and ruined his whole life, how could Ning Shu not have hatred in his heart?
Since Ning Shu had epilepsy, his life had darkened.
He grew up to be ridiculed and bullied by his classmates, when he grew up, he went to find a job, all the companies did not want him because he had epilepsy, he found a girlfriend, originally the two had a good relationship, but the girlfriend learned that he had epilepsy and hid from him, these things accumulated in his heart one by one, making his hatred for the Jane family deeper and deeper.
Such a thing, no matter who is placed on it, cannot be easily forgiven.
Therefore, ning shu after becoming an adult tried everything to set up a big situation, that is, to make the Jian family bankrupt, but because of Jian Hongcheng's intervention, the plan was not successful, and Ning Shu was also carried to the bright place, suffered from the enemy in the abdomen, and was beaten by The brother.
After Ning Yu learned the truth, he asked Ning Shu to apologize to Jian Hongcheng, but Ning Shu did not agree.
In the quarrel between the sisters and brothers, Ning Shu said his true words.
He envied Ning You, and he also hated Ning Yu.
He envied Ning You's good health, was admitted to the ideal good university, found a good job with an annual salary of 2 million yuan as soon as he graduated, and formed a family, and his sons were in their teens.
But what about him? He had nothing, even his job was given to him by Ning Yu, and everything he needed was alms from his sister.
And his sister still protects the enemy, falls in love with the enemy, and asks him to apologize to the enemy, how can he not hate?
He hated that Ning Yu had forgotten his hatred, and he hated that Ning Yu had never looked at things from the perspective of his own brother.
Obviously from the beginning to the end is the Jane family sorry for the Cui family, why is the Jane family getting better and better, and the Cui family has to hide from the Jane family for a lifetime, and bow their heads and admit their mistakes for a lifetime?
Cai Lingxiao and Ash Ash, two people who had not experienced Ning Shu's pain, both knew that this incident was done by the Jian family, and they all knew that ning shu was distressed, but Ning Yu did not know.
III. Conclusion.
Ning You loves her family, but she loves Jian Hongcheng even more.
Because she hurt the least.
Ning Yu has always attributed her father's death to her mother, because she believes that if her mother does not quarrel with her father and does not force her father to ask for wages, her father will not die.
Therefore, when she saw Jian Hongcheng, she still felt sorry in her heart, because she felt that it was her father who stabbed the father of others, which attracted the retaliation of the Jian family.
But she did not think for her mother, a woman goes to work to earn money to support the whole family, and her mother is also overwhelmed by hardship and pressure, and will argue with her father who has not received a salary for a long time.
Moreover, the father did not deliberately stab Jian Zhiguo, it was when Jian Zhiguo went to grab the knife and accidentally stabbed it, how wronged was the father?
And whether it was when Jian Minmin smashed their home, or when Jian Minmin beat Ning Hui and Ning Shu, Ning Yu was not substantially hurt, so she could not understand the pain of her mother and brother.
Coupled with the fact that Jian Hongcheng is really good to her, when she went to school, Jian Hongcheng achieved all kinds of protection for her, gave her a sweet first love, and in middle age, Jian Hongcheng solved her ex-husband's bad heart for her, which can be said to be deeply affectionate to her and very attentive to all her things.
Therefore, she has always protected Jian Hongcheng, no matter how dissatisfied her mother and brother are with the Jane family, she has maintained contact with Jian Hongcheng, and the contact has become more and more frequent with the contact between the two people, and the feelings have warmed up very quickly.
After Jian Hongcheng sent Ning Hui and Ning Shu away, the relationship between Ning You and Jian Hongcheng took a qualitative leap, seemingly for the sake of the overall situation, in order not to let Jian Minmin hurt Ning Hui and Ning Shu, but in fact, Ning Yu was so that he could communicate with Jian Hongcheng fearlessly.
But after Ning Shu arrived at the company arranged by Jian Hongcheng, the whole person was emptied, and the people in the company directly said that he was only arranged to offend Jian Hongcheng, and everyone was monitoring him.
Isn't this a disguised blow and insult? After Ning Shu learned the truth, he had a big fight with Ning You, and wanted Ning Yu to give an explanation, but Ning Yu still elbowed out to speak for Jian Hongcheng, saying that Jian Hongcheng arranged for him to go to Hainan to let him work well.
But to work well is not to let people work, to empty people's homes, and to let the whole company monitor people's homes? It's not work, it's "go to jail!" ”
Ning Yu couldn't understand these pains completely, because Ning Yu suffered the least harm, so she couldn't empathize with Ning Shu, but she shouldn't partner with Jian Hongcheng to deceive Ning Forgiveness, and she shouldn't persuade Ning Yu to let go, without the suffering of others, don't persuade others to be good.