On March 8, 53-year-old South Korean Cool Dragon group member Gu Junye publicly announced his marriage to Big S on foreign social networking sites.
Such shocking news made netizens boil in an instant.
One is the originator of the first generation of South Korean rap, the other is the host of Taiwan, and everyone is most eager to know how the two people intersect.
Gu Junye wrote in his account:
"I'm getting married and want to continue my love with the woman I fell in love with 20 years ago.
Hearing the news of her divorce, I found the same number that was 20 years ago to contact her.
Fortunately, that number didn't change so we were able to reconnect.
Time had passed a long time and could not be wasted any longer, so I proposed to get married, and she accepted it too, deciding to live together.
I hope you all have more support and blessings, thank you. ”
From this official statement, it can be known that the two people fell in love 20 years ago, and this time the relationship is to continue the frontier.
After Gu Junye's prompting, the media found the news report of the two people 20 years ago.
In the era of K-pop culture, As an all-round idol of Korean rap and dance, his cool dragon group not only swept South Korea, but also had fans throughout Asia.
In the most popular period of Gu Junye, he was invited by popular singer Su Huilun to perform on the stage together.
Xu Xiyuan, who happened to come to the scene as an audience, was attracted by the talent of the other party and had a good feeling after seeing Gu Junye.
When a friend in the showbiz industry introduced Big S to Gu Junye, he also said: "This is your super fan." ”
The two fell in love almost at first sight, and soon fell in love and fell in love.
At that time, Xu Xiyuan was only a host of "Entertainment 100%" and had no fame in South Korea.
At that time, Gu Junye was an idol, and if he announced his love, it would affect Gu Junye's career and image.
Coupled with Gu Junye's full work arrangement, the two people gathered less and left more.
At that time, after the news of the two people's love was spread, Gu Junye has always been an evasive attitude.
At the concert in Beijing, Gu Junye denied associating with Big S and also rejected the announcement of "Entertainment 100%".
This disparity in identity love made it difficult for Big S to accept, and then the two broke up.
Years later, when Big S talked about this in the show, he couldn't help but shed tears on the spot.
Years later, Gu Junye admitted in a Program in South Korea that he had been in a relationship with Big S for about 1 year, and said that he was broken up because the company did not allow artists to have romances.
Although the two people had a regrettable relationship because of the working environment before, now Gu Junye is no longer an idol.
Although he is a singer, he mainly earns money by doing DJ in CLUB and occasionally participates in variety shows, but the aura is no longer there.
And now, the big S who has just been divorced for about 4 months, why did he suddenly decide to get married?
The beauty of the past has not been forgotten
As a first-generation idol, Gu Junye not only has a great foundation in singing and dancing, but also maintains a very stylish figure.
The excellent work he has completed is a charming postcard that has always accompanied him throughout his life.
Big S once regarded Gu Junye as his idol, and in the face of this feeling, she also seriously studied Korean.
Both people love music and dancing, so that both sides have the same topic because of their common hobbies.
Although Gu Junye was timidly afraid to mention this relationship because of his career and company reasons, Gu Junye also studied hard Chinese privately.
This thought, big S can feel.
The original breakup of Big S and Gu Junye was not because the two parties were not serious and resentful of the feelings, nor was it because of the intervention of others.
The two sides are considered to be peacefully separated, but they are mixed with some helplessness of the mark of the times.
Coupled with the harsh restrictions on the development of the Korean entertainment industry, Xu Xiyuan's timidity and worry at that time was understandable.
And now 53-year-old Gu Junye for some reasons, the music career is no longer brilliant, and there is no need to consider the impact of marriage on his career.
Because Gu Junye did not seize the best opportunity to get married, most of the women who had a good feeling for him and the women who had a good feeling for him had become someone else's wife, and the range of options was getting smaller and smaller.
So, when he learned that his former lover was divorced, in order to make up for his previous regrets, he took the initiative.
Gu Junye said that he found the phone number of 20 years ago before contacting Xu Xiyuan.
This was ridiculed by many netizens as "the ex's phone should not be deleted", and staying behind will one day come in handy.
However, not all predecessors can break the mirror and make a comeback.
Even if there is a emotional connection with the ex, the previous separation must be resentful and gentle.
Only when both parties retain a good feeling for this relationship can they have the possibility and opportunity to start again.
And after compounding, the two people have to pay more effort and understanding than before to digest the feeling of strangeness for many years.
Otherwise, this feeling is difficult to maintain only by relying on the leading edge filter.
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There is affection and righteousness, and there is a sense of responsibility
The compound of Big S and Gu Junye, in addition to filter beautification, is also because Gu Junye is a particularly sentient artist in South Korea.
Gu Junye's career decline in the Cool Dragon Group was due to a car accident in 2000 by one of its members, Jiang Yuanlai.
Jiang Yuanlai and Gu Junye are both professional dancers with both rap and dancing skills, and the duo later added modern dance and hip-pop elements to rap.
The new creative style has received a warm response from all over Asia.
After Jiang Yuanlai suffered a car accident, the brokerage company proposed that Gu Junye fly alone.
But Gu Junye, who put brotherhood first, immediately rejected the proposal, saying that no matter what, Kulong would always be a combination of two people.
After that, Gu Junye stopped all performance activities and rented a house with Jiang Yuanlai's family near the hospital to take turns to take care of him until Jiang Yuanlai recovered and could use a wheelchair.
The two who were reluctant to give up their singing careers after that appeared on the stage were all pictures of Gu Junye pushing Jiang Yuanlai, who was sitting in a wheelchair.
Suffering to see the truth, Gu Junye's dedication to Jiang Yuanlai, everyone saw in their eyes.
Therefore, Gu Junye has always had the title of putting brotherhood first in South Korea.
In 2017, Gu Junye pushed Jiang Yuanlai, who was sitting in a wheelchair, to hold a commemorative party for 20 years of his debut.
In 2018, Gu Junye pushed Jiang Yuanlai, who was in a wheelchair, to participate in the Winter Paralympic Games in South Korea.
A man can take care of his friends and brothers with all his heart;
Being able to put down their career prospects and cherish their own portfolio partners is really very responsible, patient, and have a very strong belief.
And this is very similar to the family concept of big S, mainly based on family and relatives, and the concept of family sense is extremely strong.
Big S is also taking care of every role around her in the family, and she should have a strong sense of empathy for This dedication of Gu Junye.
Having feelings and righteousness and a sense of responsibility is a plus for a man.
Being able to retain excellent qualities in a complex and realistic society is also an admirable persistence.
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Urgent desire to marry
Years have passed, and Gu Junye is still single, from a popular idol to a CLUB DJ.
Not long ago, he also participated in the Korean love variety show "The Taste of Love".
He said that he had not talked about a girlfriend in 20 years, had been single, worked from home, and worked a lot.
When the host of "The Taste of Love" introduced Gu Junye, he also said that Gu Junye was once his ideal type.
But now the ideal type has been replaced by the opposite sex of the same age.
This passage also vaguely reveals: Why are there fewer and fewer women who like Gu Junye?
For Gu Junye, with the increase of age, his appearance and body have changed, and he is no longer an idol who is crazy sought after by women when he goes out.
This made him very frustrated, and the desire for recognition, encouragement and companionship from the opposite sex was the main reason why he was determined to leave single.
Unfortunately, the date with the vegetarian person still did not have the following in the end.
And big S has always been a very bold person, after the two sides chatted for three months, both understand each other's love intentions, big S said that he no longer wants to hold a wedding, nor does he want to have children.
Gu Junye also gave understanding and consent, and rushed from South Korea to Taiwan to register the marriage.
This willingness to respect each other's sincerity also allows Big S to see the other party's attitude.
The attitude of the two people to pursue love is probably the interpretation:
No matter what age, love can bring enthusiasm and hope to both parties.
Author | Yu Bing graduated from Beijing Normal University majoring in finance, has been engaged in the financial industry, and then transferred to the media industry for 3 years, a domestic and foreign film and television analysis researcher, good at thinking about life from watching dramas, as well as exploring realistic emotional values from the current situation of women's existence at home and abroad, deeply inspiring many women to marry and self-improvement.