Are your children independent, have you found that adults and children are the same, and they can only rely on themselves without dependence. Those left-behind children may seem pitiful, but it is too difficult for a society to survive in today's society without exercising its ability to stand on its own. How many dolls at the age of 10 can't cook and eat, wash their own clothes and pants. If there are doting elderly people in the family who dot on children, they are even more obstacles on the road to children's growth. Sometimes I think that children are free to their own hearts, and they may understand things after playing greedily. But often once relaxed, neglect of discipline, it is more like a kite without a line, and it takes a long time to have a little self-consciousness to learn.
On the other hand, those left-behind children can take good care of themselves, and some can even learn well and do housework well. Some people may say that parents are irresponsible, but there is no way for them to be forced by life. The same is the child, why the ability to stand on their own in different environments is so different, which is worth reflecting on by every parent