Diligence is a very beautiful word, so it is easy to be over-packaged by some people and become a kind of capital to show off.
For example, every day to advertise how long you have been studying, punch the first place in the rankings; coupled with a late-night study photo sent at 1 a.m., a self-moving text.
When people are results-oriented, they will find that this is not really hard work at all, but a low-quality hard work of showing off wealth.
The schedule is densely packed, and many times it is just to get a sense of satisfaction, but the execution is not satisfactory. Diligence is "self-discipline with a goal", not "self-moving blind busyness".
People are not robots and need to empty themselves regularly, just like a computer regularly emptys memory. In fact, if you are too busy to even have time to catch your breath, it is not worth advertising, but to review your own arrangements, whether it is scientific.
There are many ways to succeed, and we never advocate squeezing our own bodies.
I read a speech: "Over the years I have been reminding myself of one thing, don't touch yourself. Most people's seeming efforts are only caused by delay. It is inevitable that people are born with self-pity, and only by staying awake at all times can we see where the real value is. ”
If you feel like you're trying very hard and you're not being productive, think about whether you've fallen into this self-motivated pseudo-diligence.
Pseudo-hardworking people have a misunderstanding of suffering.
In their conception, suffering is a very glorious thing, symbolizing self-motivation, hard work, and even equivalent to the achievement itself.
But suffering is only a means by which we achieve results, not the results themselves.
Very late, I saw the takeaway brother still in front of the traffic lights, riding while staring at the order in the mobile phone screen, hurrying.
Many people in every city leave early and return late, sometimes so busy that they don't even have time to eat.
As night falls, we inevitably feel touched by ourselves: I have worked so hard, why is fate not in favor of me.
However, after I started my own business, I deeply understood that the world would not pay an extra 1 yuan salary because a person slept 1 hour less a day. It will only give a certain reward because one person creates more value.
This is life, it seems cruel, but in fact, it is fair. The world is not going to be made better because of one more person who doesn't eat, drink, or sleep.
Compared to working hours, we should pay attention to work efficiency.
How to avoid pseudo-diligence and keep yourself in an efficient state of study and work, there is a small trick, that is, to write a review diary.
In fact, the review is not as complicated as it is said on the Internet. To put it bluntly, it is 3 steps: review the goals, compare the results, and correct them in time.
As the day draws to a close, spend 15 minutes writing today's review diary: How did you accomplish your goals? How much remains unfinished and why? What are the periods of efficiency and inefficiency? How can we improve tomorrow?
Weekly, monthly, quarterly, do an overall review, think about the recent direction of work, whether there is a deviation, whether the goals set are completed, and whether the goals in the next stage should be adjusted.
Every time we do such a review, our brains are more awake. In the next day's work, I will deliberately avoid making the same mistakes, and I will not easily fall into the self-touching blindness.
Don't misunderstand the meaning of effort, effort is not medicine, medicine is hidden in effort.
Source: Daisy Witch
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