Text | Xu Wen
In the early winter of last year, I ate at my parents' house, and occasionally told my brother about the fear of the cold of the winter, the ice water of the kitchen washing, and the numb feeling of freezing my hands. The younger brother said that this is not easy, this is what age, high-tech popularity, kitchen faucet to buy a heater to install. In fact, I have not thought about it, first, I think it may be too troublesome, and second, I always feel that there is no time to operate, procrastination, so many years, every year is myself who suffers. Therefore, under the guidance of his brother, a heating treasure was selected from Jingdong, and the seller arranged for the master to install it for free. Finally, this winter, I no longer have to endure the torture of cold water, and I am no longer afraid of the cold of winter.
Speaking of which, this is a simple thing, a heating treasure, cheap tens of yuan, expensive hundreds of yuan, according to the current consumption level, it is simply too easy to do things, why will it not think about solving it for so many years? Have all these years of sin been in vain? The reason is that I am too lazy, not good enough for myself, and not loving myself enough.
Knowing that they are afraid of the cold, but blindly endure, instead of actively trying to find a way to solve it, who suffers from their own sins? Therefore, sometimes, women, to remember to be good to themselves, must first learn to love themselves in order to better love others. Don't expect others to think about you in every detail, after all, others are not roundworms in your stomach and cannot know you well. Life is not easy, and women are even more difficult.
We often describe women as women made of water. Women are gentle and virtuous, women are delicate and feminine, women are flexible and strong, and women are hard-working. Women, in life has a pivotal position, women can sacrifice themselves for the sake of the family, without a woman's home, can not be called a complete home. Looking at the women with bright appearances, who can appreciate the hardships they silently pay?
They gave up too much rest for the sake of their children; they refused to socialize many times for the sake of their husbands; they gave up the entertainment of gold chasing dramas for the sake of the elderly; for the sake of work, they overdrew their exhausted bodies. The child with the mother is a treasure, the child enjoys the mother's love with peace of mind; behind the successful man there is a strong woman, the husband stands in front of the flash and talks; filial piety to the old man is righteous, she will be a good daughter and a good daughter-in-law; the towel does not let the eyebrows, the strong man at work, who says that women are inferior to men! Women, living beautifully, is a skill, want to be happy, do not have too much obsession.
Women, may not have a beautiful appearance, but must have a funny soul. Don't give yourself too much bondage, occasionally give yourself a holiday, come to a trip that goes; often reduce stress for yourself, chat with girlfriends, go shopping, and then do a beauty; happiness should have a sense of ceremony, important festivals, and your husband can come to a candlelight dinner; appropriately reduce stress for yourself, don't want to cook for a while, go to the restaurant with your family, don't want to clean up, you can ask for an hourly worker; warm winter sun, don't mind sleeping a lazy lunch break; afternoon leisure, a book and a cup of tea, slowly kill time.
Mu Xin said: "The best state of life is the cold and cold wind and fire. "On the road of life, the best way for women to live is to treat themselves well, cherish themselves, and manage themselves well." Beautiful women live as they want.
About the author: Xu Wen, the word Mengxue. Originally from Jiangyin City, Jiangsu Province, he is now working at Zoucheng Construction Bank in Jining City, Shandong Province. In his spare time, he practiced writing, and won many essay awards from the Municipal Construction Bank, the Provincial Construction Bank, and the CcIC General Bank; the articles were scattered in newspapers, magazines, public accounts, etc., and some of the articles were included in the "Silver Altar Literary Collection", "Blue Ocean Confucian Wind", "Silver Sea Sail Song", "Literary Highland", "Silver Sea Song", and was a member of the Zoucheng Writers Association.
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