In 2014, "cerebral palsy poet" Yu Xiuhua wrote "Crossing Most of China to Sleep with You" became popular.
In 2015, when Yu Xiuhua was reading her own poems in "Lu Yu You Have a Date", Li Jian read it with her, and netizens directly scolded her on the hot search, thinking that she was confessing to Li Jian.
On August 14, 2020, she wrote again: "Oh, Li Jian! The next life that gives me no memory of this life, the first person I will meet is you. Give me beauty and health, give me talent as ever. Give me a clean jade, give me no sorrow. ”
Straightforward and bold expression, causing many people to be dissatisfied,
Some people say: "Yu Xiuhua has no self-knowledge and does not deserve to like Li Jian"!
One is a rural woman with cerebral palsy, and the other is a talented music poet,
How can neither of these be linked?
In fact, Yu Xiuhua originally planned to write ten poems for Li Jian, but he was "scolded" more and more fiercely.
When writing the fourth song, Li Jian himself replied with eight words, instantly making the person who "scolded" Yu Xiuhua shut up.
"Living in the mud, writing poetry in the clouds"
After Li Jian's wife saw these poems, she also replied domineeringly: It is awesome to write!
Netizens said thank you li jian and his wife for their kindness and wisdom,
A good word for three winters, just 12 words saved the soul of a rural cerebral palsy poet!
For Yu Xiuhua, Li Jian and his wife could have "stood by and watched", but they did not.
Although the reply of a few words is short, it is very heartfelt, and you can see a person's character and cultivation.
Li Jian and his wife have been on the hot search because of this matter, and there are countless fans in the circle of high emotional intelligence!
Everyone is more curious about Li Jian's mysterious wife,
What kind of woman is she, who can make the musical talent Li Jian write so many moving love songs for her?
According to the news, Li Jian's wife's name is Meng Xiaobei!
Graduated from Tsinghua University, he is good at writing, knows photography, can play the piano, can draw, has good cooking skills, and understands tea art!
Gao Xiaosong, who had seen her, said: Li Jian's wife is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen!
If these are not enough volumes, then be sure to look at her and Li Jian's love story, just like the male and female protagonists who come out of the novel.
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In 1974, Li Jian was born in a family surnamed Li in Harbin, Heilongjiang.
His father was a Peking Opera martial artist and his mother was an ordinary worker!
Because of his father's relationship, Li Jian has loved music since he was a child, and his father has always hoped that he can inherit his father's business.
When he was 10 years old, Li Jian's father's friend led the whole family to visit.
Li Jian's mother saw the other family's 5-year-old daughter and couldn't help but praise: This child is so beautiful, really like a Russian doll!
This little girl who was praised was Meng Xiaobei, and this was the first time Li Jian had seen her.
Li Jian very much agreed with his mother's point of view, Meng Xiaobei was indeed the most beautiful girl he had ever seen.
Even Li Jian, who was only 10 years old, secretly decided that he would marry her in the future!
Later, when he went to junior high school, Li Jian became more obsessed with music.
That will be Taiwanese musicians Luo Dayou and Li Zongsheng are very popular, a guitar and a song,
Li Jianshen's yearning!
Li Jian's mother saw her son's hobbies, and she also knew that Li Jian really liked it, not on a whim.
So he saved up two months' salary and bought him his first red cotton guitar.
Since having his own guitar, every night after school the neighbors can hear the music coming from his house.
Accompanied by music and learning, time crept through 7 years little by little!
In 1991, 17-year-old Li Jian followed his parents to a wedding, where he again met the girl he liked.
At this time, Meng Xiaobei was 12 years old, and she was even more beautiful and generous.
Later, Li Jian said: It was the feeling of that glance that made me write "Legend"!
"Just because I looked at you more in the crowd, I never forgot your face again..."
Hindered by age and academics, Li Jian temporarily hid this love deep in his heart, and he silently worked hard only to match her better.
On the eve of the college entrance examination two years later, Tsinghua University held a winter camp for literary and art lovers across the country.
I heard that those who achieved the ranking can also add points in the college entrance examination, and Li Jian also signed up.
During the competition, Li Jian sang while playing and singing a song "Speak from the Heart", and he did not expect to win the first place.
This opportunity allowed Li Jian to successfully guarantee his delivery to the Department of Electronic Engineering of Tsinghua University and officially become a member of Tsinghua University.
Meng Xiaobei's parents heard about Li Jian's admission to Tsinghua University and came to congratulate him.
Xiao Bei's parents said that they hoped that Li Jian could help Xiao Bei make up lessons in addition to his studies, because Meng Xiao Bei's ideal was also Tsinghua University.
Li Jian was very happy, so that he was getting closer and closer to the goddess!
The time spent together laid the foundation for the feelings of the two people,
Li Jian specially gave Meng Xiaobei a nickname "Little Shell", which is a small secret exclusive to them.
5 years later, Meng Xiaobei was admitted to Tsinghua as she wished, and became Li Jian's classmate and sister.
Li Jian graduated and became a network engineer at the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television.
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During his time in school, Li Jian never gave up his pursuit of music.
He has participated in large and small competitions in the school, and he has also won awards.
He held the guitar and sang, winning the likes of many Peking University and Tsinghua girls!
After graduating for a period of time as a network engineer, Li Jian always felt that such a life was too monotonous and boring.
The musical dream in his heart is always restless, and he is doomed to be unable to settle for the status quo!
In 1999, Li Jian met Lu Gengzhi, who also had musical dreams, and the idea of resigning was even stronger.
A year later, Li Jian submitted his resignation and turned around to form the band "Mizuki Nianhua" with Lu Gengji.
The first record of "Mizuki Nianhua" was called "A Lifetime with You", and the title song was also called "A Lifetime with You".
The song was a hit as soon as it was released, and the streets and alleys of that year were playing "Because I dreamed that you left and woke up from crying..."
Almost everyone will follow along with a few words, and this melody has become a youthful memory of a generation.
Mizuki almost won all of the Best Newcomer Awards of the year, and Li Jian and Lu Gengzhi became hot musicians.
In 2002, Mizuki Released his second album "The Legend of Youth", which also achieved good results.
Only after this, Li Jian and Lu Gengshu disagreed because of their musical ideas and held their own opinions!
Because they were unwilling to compromise, they finally had to disband the band!
Li Jian said that these all come from the pursuit of music, no one is wrong, but no one is willing to compromise!
After the band disbanded, Li Jian spent a long period of lows.
Fortunately, there is also the support and companionship of "Little Shell" on the hardest days!
Meng Xiaobei has always been very supportive of Li Jian in doing anything,
He lived with him in a rented house without heating without income, and accompanied him without inspiration to encourage him.
In 2005, Li Jian's father suddenly fell ill, and Li Jian gave up everything to raise money to treat his father.
At that time, a signed company proposed to "let him hype up with a few big-name artists to increase his popularity".
Li Jian resolutely refused: "I am particularly reluctant to compromise on music"!
Even under the most difficult circumstances, Li Jian is not willing to live up to the music pure land in his heart.
In the last stage of his father's life, his girlfriend Meng Xiaobei decided to enter the marriage hall with him, which made Li Jian quite moved!
At this time, Li Jian, who seemed to have nothing, already had the most precious thing in the world!
Green plum bamboo horse repair into a positive fruit, this is a legend about love!
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In 2010, Faye Wong called Li Jian: "Can you sing your Legend on a Spring Night?" ”
Li Jianshuang quickly agreed: "No problem! ”
On the evening of the Spring of the Tiger Year, Faye Wong's "Legend" caught fire, and it also brought fire to Li Jian by the way.
Attention began to be paid to the treasure singer, and a year later his songs such as "Baikal" and "Back to the Past" were once again popular with fans.
In the spring evening of the Year of the Snake in 2013, Li Jian joined hands with Sun Li to sing "Wind Blowing Wheat Waves", and his popularity reached a higher level!
In 2015, he took the song to the stage of "I Am a Singer" and won the second place in one fell swoop.
After "I Am a Singer", Li Jian's fame increased greatly, and the fire was a mess!
In the same year, Li Jian's Beijing concert, he stood in the center of the stage to show his love in public:
It's a stroke of luck to meet a good partner, and a good marriage makes people feel like a tiger, just like I am like a flying tiger at the moment.
Singing to the depths of love, the big screen behind put up a group photo of Li Jian and his wife Meng Xiaobei!
This is the first time that Li Jian has publicly expressed his love for his wife, a talented son and a beautiful person, a good couple Tiancheng, which is enviable!
Netizens searched for Meng Xiaobei's introduction, and suddenly found that the wife of Li Jian, the original musical talent, was actually better than him.
Meng Xiaobei graduated from Tsinghua University with a doctorate in sociology, and is said to be a "rich second generation" with a business at home.
High education is just that, looks very beautiful, in college has been discovered by scouts, but Meng Xiaobeizhi is not in the entertainment industry, politely rejected the star scout's good intentions.
During the time when Li Jian was most depressed, Meng Xiaobei often used his salary to supplement his life, and even his personal first album was Also Meng Xiaobei's expense.
Before Li Jian was not so popular, Meng Xiaobei often took photos on Weibo to share sweet spots with her husband Li Jian.
Meng Xiaobei affectionately called Li Jian "Sir", Li Jian called her "baby", and the home was full of small pleasures of life.
Meng Xiaobei will have a lot of talents, photography, illustration, tea art, etc., and get along with such people, no wonder Li Jian can write such a moving love song.
Li Jian loves to drink coffee, Meng Xiaobei will always bring back a variety of coffee utensils on business trips; Li Jian loves sports, and Meng Xiaobei will always prepare a nutritious and light lunch for him.
Without a job, Li Jian always likes to stay with his wife, and the two of them read books, drink tea, talk about music, and quietly enjoy this feeling.
Understand each other's wants, and bloom beautifully independently of each other, attract each other to care for each other!
This pair of immortal couples seems to not eat human fireworks, just like their love is fresh and unworldly!
Li Jian rarely talks about his wife publicly, and he hopes that fans will pay more attention to his works than to his private life.
But when the host asks: Can you tell me the most romantic thing between you and your wife?
Li Jian bravely confessed: The most romantic thing has always been in my song!
In the lyrics, his love can't help but flow out, making people feel that the world is beautiful!
"Legend": I would rather believe that we had a covenant in our past lives, and the love story in this life will not change again, and I would rather use this life to wait for you to find out that I have always been by your side and have never gone far...
"On the shores of Lake Baikal": In my arms, in your eyes, where the spring breeze is intoxicating, where the grass is green...
Li Jian's song is on fire, and his love is also on fire!
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The only thing that can't be understood by the two people who have the most beautiful love in the world is not to have children!
When asked: You don't want children, is it because you are obsessed with youth and refuse to recognize the world?
Li Jian said: "It has nothing to do with that, I don't think it is necessary to continue my genes, nothing remarkable, and it is not an endangered species." ”
And his wife Meng Xiaobei also supports Li Jian's idea, Li Jian put his main energy on music, he believes that if he has a child, he must be responsible for the child, to accompany him to play with him to grow up, he is not ready to be a father!
Regarding children, his wife Meng Xiaobei once sent a Weibo "Suddenly melt you, the children's play in the snow"!
Netizens also enthusiastically commented that "I really look forward to you having a baby, such a loving person"!
For this comment, Meng Xiaobei did not reply,
In her heart, this issue has been agreed with her husband Li Jian, and there is no need to keep taking it out as a topic.
The love of mutual trust is like a clear stream in the entertainment industry, flowing slowly, not comparing, not impetuous!
Once Li Jian said: The director said let me talk about feelings, what is there to talk about feelings, because love has its own providence!
Love has its own providence, and this sentence is inexplicably beautiful to hear!