Yue Yue was just two years old, although she didn't know words, she had to take a book with her everywhere she went, even if she went out for a meal, she had to take it out to see.
Such behavior, there will often be parents come up to the moon mother to learn the scriptures, so that the moon mother is also very distressed.
It's not that I don't want to share, but I say that many parents don't believe it, because Yue yue's mother doesn't know how to form it.
Thinking about it carefully, it should be from the time of the 5 months of the month to insist on parent-child reading, at least half an hour a day.
1. Children should not read utilitarianly
For the matter of reading, the attitude of parents is more important than speed.
Children's reading is not a means for parents to show off, ignoring the original intention of reading, which leads to a decline in children's interest in reading.
Mom and dad should not always compare with other people's children, other people's methods can be borrowed, do not copy.
Too utilitarian may cause children to lose interest in reading, and even affect future studies.
2. How old is the child to start reading?
With the prosperity of the infant book resource market, more and more parents realize that the infant and toddler period is a key period for cultivating early reading interest, and reading has an important impact on children's lives.
Generally, children are about 5 months old, you can sit for a while, and parents can prepare for parent-child reading.
Reading in infancy is different from literacy. Studies have found that when a child reads early, he is not attracted by the content of the book itself, but by the feeling of preferring to listen to stories in the arms of his parents and parents. In other words, parent-child reading is not a book, but a parent-child relationship.
3. How to make children fall in love with reading?
Enjoy parent-child reading time
Parent-child reading can be performed from about 5 months of age.
Parent-child reading is not a routine, mechanically read words to children, such parent-child reading will find that it will not last long, and finally parents will label their children as "not fond of reading".
Mr. Nao Matsui said that picture books are not books that children can read by themselves, but books that adults read to children. When parents or readers tell their children about picture books with their own voices and their own feelings, this joy, joy and beauty can be brought into play.
I remember that a mother said that the family is a son, and she prefers picture books with exciting scenes such as dinosaurs and cars. At first, the mother was responsible for reading picture books, and found that the child could not listen to it for a long time and could not wait to fight with the father.
Until one time, my mother worked overtime and did not have time to read, and my father played and told a story about dinosaurs to the child, but it worked very well.
Since then, Dad has been responsible for picture books for these stimulating scenes, and Mom for warm, educational picture books.
After this adjustment, the child likes to read and looks forward to the time of parent-child reading every day. When I see that my parents are okay, I will also choose picture books for my parents to read.
Lead by example and stimulate your child's interest in reading
Always envious of other people's children who love to read, their own children only love to watch TV and play mobile phones.
Why not look at what other people's moms and dads are doing?
When other parents are reading picture books to their children, they complain that their children do not like to read books while looking at their mobile phones.
Is this unfair to the child?
Children's learning ability, imitation ability is very strong, parents love to read, children will be attracted to the ocean of books.
You can choose some vivid images or story content that children are more interested in to stimulate children's interest in reading. For example, for children who like dinosaurs, parents can choose dinosaur-related picture books; children who like princesses can tell more stories about castles, and even buy/rent princess costumes and have a family with their children.
American scholar Ellen Handler Spitz said: While reading picture books intimately, adults and children enter the space of imagination together.
Parent-child reading is an excellent opportunity for parents to accompany their children, which can not only enhance parent-child feelings, but also greatly help the accumulation of children's own abilities.
Parents who love to read children should not worry that their children will become nerds, let the children grow up in their own rhythm, and parents will guide them in a timely manner.
Children who do not love to read, parents should not blindly compare with other people's children, according to the situation of their own children, set reading goals, and it is not too late to act now.