Xi Murong said: Five hundred times I look back in my past life, in exchange for a passing in this life.
Life is short, and the years are merciless. Vast sea of people, it is not easy to meet, and it is good and cherished.
The people who can walk with us in this life are friends who share joys and sorrows, parents who care about us, and lovers who are with us.
The coming day is not long, we never know tomorrow and the accident which one will come first!
So, don't wait, don't wait for the next time. Sometimes a goodbye is never seen again; sometimes a wave of goodbye leaves no longer a connection.
Be grateful for every minute of encounter, cherish every peer!
Between friends, encounters are fate
Lu Xun once sighed: "It is enough to know oneself in life, and Si Shi should regard it with the same heart." ”
However, people will always meet such a person in this life, know that you are cold and warm, and understand your sorrows and joys. The so-called best friendship is to understand you without words.
There is a legend that Yu Boya, a man who is good at playing the drum and piano, is depressed because he can't find a confidant all the time. It was not until he met Zhong Zi that Yu Boya's life added infinite color.
Although Zhong Ziqi was only a woodcutter wearing a bucket hat and a cloak, he could hear the mood and story in Yu Boya's music.
Yu Boya once played a song "Mountain Flowing Water", and After Listening to this song, Zhong Ziqi seemed to be immersed in the scene, standing in front of a majestic mountain, and the river also rushed past him...
Yu Boya was very happy, and only Zhong Zi period in this life could understand him. Later, when Zhong Ziqi died, Yu Boya broke the drum and piano and stopped playing.
The bell period that was in tune with his own soul left, and from then on, the world no longer knew the sound, and Yu Boya felt that the good instrument was also in vain.
Just as all encounters in the world are providence. Friends are a gift from Heaven, and how lucky we would be to find someone who understands you among thousands of people!
Even if time flies, you and I are separated, but to meet is fate, and it is more worth cherishing to be able to experience together!
Perhaps the best friendship is to worry about each other when they are busy!
Between families, getting along is a blessing
Zi Yue: "What parents love and love, and what parents respect is also respected." ”
Without our parents, there would be no us.
Just as the so-called sheep have the feeling of kneeling milk, the crow has the meaning of feeding back. To be able to become a family in this life is certainly a blessing cultivated in a previous life, and it is also a blessing accumulated in this life.
During the Han Dynasty, there was a man named Han Boyu. From childhood to adulthood, he made a lot of mistakes, big and small. Although his mother beat and scolded him fiercely every time he made a mistake, he never cried once.
Until one day, he made a mistake again, his mother hated iron not steel, who knew that he cried loudly.
The mother was frightened, thinking that she had beaten him too hard and hurt him, but Han Boyu said, "When you hit me before, it really hurt, but I knew that the beating was in the body of the child, the pain was in the mother's heart, and you were educating me, so I never cried."
But now, when I am older, when you hit me again, I can feel that your strength is much less, which shows that I am growing up, and you are slowly getting older, and my days of filial piety are getting shorter and shorter, so I am sad and sad to cry! ”
Time flies, the years are merciless, and the strong bodies of the parents in the memory have long been rickety. The wrinkles on their faces and the white hair on their heads are all traces left by the years!
Long Yingtai said: The so-called parents and children only mean that your fate with him is that you and his fate are constantly watching his back drift away in this life and this life.
As a child, don't think that you will come to Japan for a long time, and don't wait until "the tree wants to be quiet and the wind is not stopping, and the son wants to raise and not to wait".
As the saying goes: parents are here, life still has a place to come, parents go, life is only the way home.
When people live for a lifetime, they must cherish their fate in the time that comes, accompany their parents to the fullest, and treat their parents well.
Between lovers, knowing each other is love
Life is a long journey, in the tens of millions of people to meet the person you want to meet, not one step earlier, not one step later, in fact, is a wonderful fate.
Being able to become an intimate lover and husband and wife in this life is the fate cultivated in the past life, everything comes from chance, but it is inevitable.
It is said that all encounters in the world are reunions after a long absence.
Once upon a time, there was a scholar who, through the orders of his parents and the words of a matchmaker, betrothed to a girl of the same age, and since then the two of them have respected each other as guests and got along very well.
Shusheng originally thought that the two could be happy for a long time, and they would grow old with white heads, but they did not expect that after he returned from the exam in Beijing, the girl actually liked others and left him from then on.
Shusheng was indignant in his heart, so he went to ask the chief: Obviously, we love each other, why can she easily like others?
The Taoist explains: There must be a cause and an effect, and everything is fate!
Shusheng was very confused, and the taoist told him a story: a long time ago, a young woman fell into the water, and the body floated on the water for a long time before it was washed ashore, and the woman was still unclothed, and the body had long been puffy and frightening.
Pedestrians passing by are mostly blind. One hurried past and covered the woman with a dress, while the other left after burying the woman.
The woman who is betrothed to you, she was the woman who lost her footing and fell into the water in her previous life. You are the pedestrian who has covered her with a dress, and the person she is marrying is the same pedestrian who buried her in a previous life.
As it turned out, Shusheng suddenly realized. In his previous life, he only had the love of covering this woman, so falling in love in this life can also be regarded as repaying him.
Encounters and partings in this world are caused by cause and effect. The length of each other's companionship in this life depends on the depth of each other's past lives.
No matter what the relationship, no matter how reluctant it is, it is inevitable to gather and disperse because of causes.
All encounters make sense. Only cherished, only worthy of possession. So, from now on, be kind to every encounter!
Say less hurtful things and do less regretful things. Let the past church itself love and cherish, let the present have less regrets and pity.
May the rest of your life, cherish every encounter, and be grateful for every encounter.