The name Choi Hwan-hee is unfamiliar to many friends in China, he is a Korean male singer who debuted last year, but there are definitely many people who have heard of his mother, and she hanged herself because of the Internet violence.
On September 24, Choi Huan-hee spat bitterly at a Korean variety show: "(Life) seems to be impossible to get rid of in the shadow of my dead parents." Choi said he was too distressed by the large amount of sympathy he had attracted from his relatives who had committed suicide and was difficult to express honestly, and did not dare to tell the truth even if he spoke to his friends, because he was afraid that "his negative emotions would cause a bad impact on others." ”
Why Choi Huan-hee wrapped his heart so much, this is inseparable from his growth environment is very desolate and tragic, and Korean netizens have too much sympathy for him.
In 2000, her mother Cui Zhenzhen and her father Zhao Chengmin entered the palace of marriage, which was also the beginning of the tragedy. In 2002, She suffered domestic violence during Choi's pregnancy — she was pushed down the stairs by Cho Sung-min. For the safety of the child, Cui Zhen chose to separate from Zhao Chengmin, but her husband Zhao Chengmin ran to her house and beat her and her brother into the hospital. In 2004, the two divorced, and for custody, Choi Real paid a huge fee, so It is said that Choi Huan-hee's brothers and sisters were unfortunate from the beginning of their birth.
In 2008, Cui Zhenzhen had just changed a pair of children to their mother's surname, and even greater disasters befell the broken family. In September 2008, South Korean actor Ahn Jae-hwan was found to have committed suicide in a car. Because Cui Zhen and An Jae-hwan's family were good friends, and it was suddenly reported on the Internet that Cui Zhen "put out usury" to force An Jae-hwan to die, so that Cui Zhen was plagued by rumors and hanged himself, at the age of 39.
And Cui Zhen's death not only caused an uproar in public opinion, but also let the public see the power of Internet violence for the first time, and the "Cui True Law" was born in this way, so that people who like to spread rumors on the Internet have awe. Unfortunately, Choi Jin, who was praised by Korean audiences as "forever Cinderella", disappeared in this way.
However, Cui Zhen's hanging suicide seems to open Pandora's box, and in 2010, Cui Zhenyong's brother Cui Zhenyong committed suicide at the age of 39! This is a huge shadow for Choi Hwan-hee siblings, who have been cared for by their uncles after their mother's death. But life is always too good to be bad, and in 2013, his father Zhao Chengmin also committed suicide at home, at the age of 39! What's even more chilling is that in 2013, Choi's former agent Park Sang-ho also committed suicide!
The death of relatives left the lonely brothers and sisters helpless, and during the period of being raised by her grandmother, her sister Choi Joon-hee once reported to the police that she had been abused by her grandmother and suffered from depression. And the lack of love Choi Joon-hee married at the age of 17, and later revealed that he had lupus erythematosus.
And such a bizarre and terrifying experience has also made Cui Zhen's family known as a "cursed family" by Korean netizens, and of course, a large number of Korean netizens have sympathized with Cui Zhen's pair of children who are still underage. As Choi Huan-hee said on the show this time: "People often say to me, 'Be strong.'" Of course, it's good to have support, but don't say it again... Wish I could look at me like that (normally). ”
Cui Huanxi said in the program that some of the dynamics he posted on social platforms always encountered a large number of sympathetic replies from netizens, which made him feel a kind of "discrimination". For example, sending out very ordinary photos and photos of music work, there are many people who always leave messages asking me to "cheer up" and so on. It made him feel very uncomfortable, he wanted people to think of him as a normal musician, and he wanted to communicate with people through music, even if people said that my music was not good.
However, the host advised Cui Huanxi, saying that the netizens' messages are all well-intentioned, and they kindly hope that you can live well, cherish life, no matter how difficult, please stick to the end. However, the host finally advised the audience: "I hope that we will no longer mourn for our Huanxi's mother and see Huanxi as a healthy 21-year-old." ”
Hearing these Choi Huan Hee said: "There is something between me and my mother and the public, and I'm not sure what that is. That's probably what people say. If that's what it means, I'm going to live harder! I might be happier planning how to enjoy my life. ”
And in the show, Choi Huan-hee also responded to some bad remarks pointed out by the host that "debuted by his mother": "Yes, debuting in such a context is, in a sense, a parachute." But I would remove this bias by making better music. ”
Through Cui Huanxi's self-statement, it can actually be understood that sometimes people's kind sympathy is also a kind of pressure for the parties in the unfortunate event, and every time they want to start a new life, these kindnesses will drag them back to the pain they don't want to touch, and over time this kind of kindness will become a kind of "discrimination" for them. What are your thoughts on this? Welcome to leave a message to discuss~