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Among the three children of the Cheng family, the eldest Cheng Qiao has a good temper and is gentle and honest. The second elder Cheng Man is talented and excellent. Only the old Sancheng Shu was too willful and somewhat contrived.
Seriously, I want to fast-forward when I see the clip of the old three. Too much, this girl. I don't have the ability to open a homestay and call my relatives to help. I owe a lot of affection and don't say thank you. He was relieved to eat the old man and let his sister pay her debts for her.
It is not good to open a homestay, live broadcast every night until dawn, and sleep during the day. You have a boss who is upside down day and night, relying on employees to manage the homestay well?
As a result, what awaits her is the employee's salary collection, and the debt is mainly debt.
It was such an irresponsible and selfish and wayward girl, and there were actually two men who were fascinated by her.
First of all, the ex-boyfriend Wei Qi died begging Bai Lai to come to the door to ask for a compound, to say that this Wei Qi is also a famous anchor, to be rich and beautiful, he wants a girlfriend, what kind, but he is partial to Cheng Shu obsessed.
If Wei Qi is said to have always felt guilty about Cheng Shu because of the false accusation incident many years ago. Then Liao Ran, a high-achieving student who graduated from Tokyo University of Biology and a young talent with a wealth of tens of millions, just because he was persuaded by The Process Shu in the most difficult place, he was deeply rooted in love, preferring to give up tens of thousands of annual salaries to run to the ravine to be a cook for her, and he had to let people say that Cheng Shu was lucky.
But is Cheng Shu really lucky? After Liao Ran left, she showed wei qi a showdown, said every word of her heart, and also told a big lie.
1 Because of Wei Qi's injury, Cheng Shu gave up on himself
Cheng Shu and Wei Qi became acquainted because of filming, and as the two people became more and more in contact, their feelings became deeper and deeper.
Later, Wei Qi went to live broadcast, she went to see him, but accidentally found a head rope under his pillow. So the seeds of jealousy began to sprout, and her fiery temper came up, vented, and left angrily.
It was supposed to be a little episode between lovers, but she was soon devastated, first someone broke a small video of her online, and then the overwhelming water army scolded her.
Poor Cheng Shu, a small actor of eighteen lines, who can withstand this kind of online violence.
In fact, that night she was in a bad mood, went out to drink, and cried with the master under sadness, and the master helped her back to the hotel, but she was secretly photographed. Her master is a well-known person in the industry, or is he married. After the scandal came out, not only was her master's reputation damaged, but she was also isolated. After all, there are many actresses, and who would want a bad artist?
Cheng Shu was secretly photographed, his reputation was ruined, and his job was gone. But she didn't know that all this was arranged by Wei Qi's boss.
That night, Wei Qi held a party to celebrate the tens of millions of fans. After Wei Qi was drunk, a fan sent him home, it was already three o'clock in the morning, Wei Qi was afraid that the fans would not be safe on the way back, so he let her sleep on the bed and sleep on the sofa by herself, and as a result, Cheng Shu found the head rope.
If there is a misunderstanding between ordinary lovers, you can explain it. But Wei Qi is a celebrity, and his boss is afraid that Cheng Shu will burst out a shady scene that is not conducive to Wei Qi, so he starts first and sends someone to track and secretly photograph Cheng Shu.
The video they secretly filmed can fully prove that Cheng Shu and her master are pure master-apprentice relationships. But Wei Qi's boss wanted to clean up Cheng Shu and let her stop pestering Wei Qi, so he put the edited video on the Internet. Cheng Shu's career was completely ruined.
Cheng Shu was already very uncomfortable being split by her boyfriend, and now that she was wronged by her master, she thought that Wei Qi was looking for someone to secretly shoot it, and she hated Wei Qi to the bone.
A pair of former lovers parted ways in this way, and Cheng Shu returned home with hatred. At the beginning, she wanted to go to art school, thinking that acting was her lifelong dream, but she did not expect that when she talked about a boyfriend, not only her reputation was destroyed, but her dream was also destroyed.
Wei Qi's boss successfully used this scandal to make Cheng Shu hate Wei Qi and beat Cheng Shu back to the same place.
Several people in this incident were not innocent. Cheng Shu was grumpy, and if she had been willing to patiently listen to Wei Qi's explanation at that time, I am afraid that things would not have worsened. The biggest person responsible is Boss Wei Qi, who found someone to secretly shoot and put the edited video on the Internet, which is intended to destroy Cheng Shu. Wei Qi also did not take responsibility, if he stood up in time to clarify, the matter would be revealed, but he chose to escape.
As a result, several people had their own thoughts, and Cheng Shu became the biggest victim.
She sold the house she bought in the city and went home to open the homestay. Live broadcast at night, when the owner of the homestay during the day, she is in a bad mood, there is no intention to operate, the homestay is on the verge of closure, the employees urge her to pay wages, and the customers urge her to pay for the goods. In such a serious situation, Cheng Shu is still live broadcasting at night and sleeping during the day.
Cheng Shu lived a life of morning twilight and decadence and depression.
Baby Anne wrote in "Lotus": In this world, there are always some unreachable places, people who cannot be approached, things that cannot be completed, feelings that cannot be possessed, defects that cannot be repaired.
At this time, Cheng Shu completely let go of herself because of that former relationship, she ignored her parents' worries and disregarded the interests of employees. In order to help her pay back the money, her father even mortgaged the house to give her a loan.
Cheng Shu didn't want anything, she used decadence to pay tribute to that rotten and spoiled love. Trapping yourself in an inner cage, struggling.
The ex-boyfriend begged for a reunion to make her explode again
People say that they read a lot and have a wide range of knowledge, and this is most appropriate for the two sisters of the Cheng family.
Cheng Man has been a bully since she was a child, and her thinking and insight are far superior to others. It is undeniable that Cheng Man is domineering, but people have the qualifications to be domineering.
Cheng Shu is a pure female being. Aside from having a pretty face, she doesn't have any other conditions to get her hands on. But even so, she is very good at it.
She opened a homestay, her ex-boyfriend came to stay in the hotel, if you don't want to leave guests, directly bomb out, if you want to use Wei Qi's identity to bring resources and traffic to the homestay, you should learn Luo Zijun in "The First Half of My Life", Luo Zijun went to sell shoes after divorce, met her ex-husband and Xiao San, and met her old classmates who laughed at her. How did Luo Zijun do it?
Luo Zijun took advantage of the guilt that her ex-husband and Ling Lingli still had for her and successfully sold two pairs of high-priced shoes. Not only do you earn income for yourself, but you also give yourself a boost in another way. This is what the real heroine does.
In the face of adversity, if you want to keep high, then continue to be high, if you want to live, then swallow your grievances into your stomach and do business well. Sugar cane can not be sweet at both ends, see what is most important to yourself, do the same first, let yourself out of the quagmire, as for the rest, later. Just like Cheng Shu, knowing that the homestay is about to close, the most important thing at the moment is to save the homestay first, rather than letting his own nature go to fool around.
She should make the best use of all resources, open the homestay well, and settle the arrears owed to employees and others. Only worthy of her parents and brothers and sisters.
However, in the face of Wei Qi, she still lost her temper as before, and she still couldn't move her face. If it weren't for Liao Ran, it would only be a matter of time before her homestay closed.
Later, Wei Qi's boss was afraid that he would never recover, so he found Cheng Shu, explained the origin of the matter, and asked her to cooperate in saving Wei Qi, and Cheng Shu was relieved.
Wei Qi did not know the inside story, he saw Liao Ran gone, his heart was overjoyed, thinking that he had another chance, so there was a showdown between Cheng Shu and him. Cheng Shu's showdown can be described as a literal curse.
showdown
The showdown between Cheng Shu and Wei Qi has two meanings. Each layer is not a thoughtless word, and each layer has a deeper meaning.
1 Don't love Wei Qi or she tells the most white lies
Cheng Shu said to Wei Qi:
When I broke up with you, I also cried, a little aggrieved, and Angry, but I didn't feel sad... I'll be honest, you're going to be angry. I don't love you, you know? I have never loved before, and I have had a good feeling. But love in the true sense of the word is completely absent.
This was a lie by Cheng Shu, and if it wasn't as uncomfortable as she said, she wouldn't have quarreled after seeing the head rope under the pillow and then drunkenly crying.
Because of Wei Qi's words, she bought a house in that city. Because of the breakup, she sold her house again and went home.
She opened a homestay because Wei Qi told her that opening a homestay is a dream.
If two people are together and they open this homestay, it is a dream come true. But Cheng Shu borrowed money to open this homestay after they broke up.
A girl, after breaking up with the man, opened a man's dream homestay in her hometown.
Saying no love is a bit of a rip-off.
It can only be said that they had loved together before, but it was childish and immature love, and now that they have met true love, they know that they have all been wrongly paid before.
Of course, Cheng Shu said this because he wanted to cut off Wei Qi's thoughts, let him forget himself forever, and thus get out of depression.
Therefore, she said that she did not love Wei Qi, although it was a big lie, but it was a good intention. Although her self-analysis is well-written, the starting point is good.
2 Dissect yourself and grow in frustration
Cheng Shu sincerely analyzed his mental journey with Wei Qi.
When I was with you, I was like a big sister, like a teacher, to teach you, to take care of you, it was really tiring. And I'm very uncomfortable with you. Always have to hold it. Mature and stable, packed predecessors. Screwed up one of the most strenuous people. You don't love the real me either, you're more dependent on me, and maybe a little grateful, and possessive. You feel a little guilty about me, you want to help me, you want to alleviate those guilts.
This was the first time that Cheng Shu rationally analyzed herself and his feelings in front of Wei Qi, and every time she saw him before, she was angry and looked like she wanted to rush over and fight.
When a person can really sit down and reflect and ask herself inside, she is already growing. At this moment, Cheng Shu, who was sitting in front of Wei Qi, was not the girl who had lost her mind for love, she had grown up and grown.
In the past, she always put money on her lips, and Wei Qi at that time could not earn money. Cheng Shu's every nagging would make him extremely inferior. It was in this situation that he encountered the opportunity and embarked on live broadcasting ever since.
After losing her, Wei Qi blamed himself extremely, regretted it day by day, and slowly suffered from depression. Wei Qi only wanted to owe Cheng Shu, but he had never seriously analyzed their past like Cheng Shu and asked his heart. Instead, he allowed those negative emotions to grow like weeds, which eventually forced him into depression.
Wei Qi explained that he would change the previous problems, and Cheng Shu unceremoniously interrupted him, pointing out to the point:
You are only possessive of me. You obviously know that I am in love with Liao Ran, and I will be sad when he leaves, but you still refuse to let go, to put it bluntly, you just don't want to lose.
Cheng Shu's bluntness made Wei Qi very unacceptable, and he coldly counterattacked: Do you love him? Why do you love him and let him go?
Cheng Shu said:
In fact, you have never understood love. True love is not possessive, not controlling, but mutual fulfillment. He will leave me and there will be a better life, which is my love for him. He gave up the best life for me, which was his love for me. We both hid from each other, bent on wanting each other to be better, and it would be uncomfortable to give up, but we never regretted it. With him, I can be my true self, a problem, but I can be at peace. I felt incredibly relaxed, incredibly happy. Although it was only a few days, it was the happiest day of the years.
Cheng Shu's analysis of herself and Wei Qi is very clear, just a few days ago, she was still a woman who lived a muddy life, since Liao Ran came, the overall spirit of the homestay has been raised, Liao Ran has issued instructions to the employees one after another, asking them how to be a top homestay to meet the standards.
Emotionally, Liao Ran used actions to tell her what true love is. Cheng Shu, who used to be with Wei Qi, knew that she wanted money, and now she finally knew that the heart of her lover was far more precious than money.
Cheng Shu finally understood that love is not possession, not control, but mutual fulfillment. The best love is to nourish each other, not to consume each other. Therefore, she shared her experience with Wei Qi. It is precisely because of her words that Wei Qi realized her mistakes, quickly walked out of the lost love, and actively and enthusiastically helped her and Liao Ran to reunite.
The growth of a person can drive the people around him to grow together.
Cheng Shu's words to Wei Qi successfully achieved the goal of killing two birds with one stone. Not only did Wei Qi die for her, but he was no longer deeply depressed. She also sorted out her own feelings, and in the process of combing, she also grew up herself.
Save yourself in frustration
Everyone longs for a good life, a good partner, a happy life, this is the most basic need of human nature, beyond reproach.
At the beginning, Cheng Shu and Wei Qi were together, and the two people thought they were in love, who knew that a head rope incident turned them from lovers into enemies. In fact, the root cause of that incident is that emotional management is not enough, if Cheng Shu can calm down and listen to Wei Qi's explanation, if Wei Qi can stand up in time after his boss Cheng Shu, everything will not happen.
However, they allowed things to ferment and eventually became unmanageable.
On the other hand, when Liao Ran faced Cheng Shu's fried hair, he would use another method to point out that Cheng Shu was wrong with the wind and rain, not only successfully solving the problem, but also making Cheng Shu convinced him.
The fit of two people is more important than anything else.
Some people say: whether it is in feelings or careers, if life is in the wrong direction, stopping is progress, and being able to reflect is growth.
Cheng Shu had been naïve and decadent, and it was Liao Ran's love that made her heal herself. Liao Ran was also decadent, and it was Cheng Shu's company that made him regain his self-confidence. Wei Qi was depressed for a while, and it was Cheng Shu's words that made him come out of the darkness.
The writer Su Qian said: At the beginning of the relationship, you still have to consider whether you like this person or not. And after getting along for a long time, you must consider whether you like or dislike your current self. If you become grumpy, humble, and even look down on yourself, it proves that the relationship is actually not suitable for you.
As we get better and better in a relationship, congratulations, meeting the guy who can nourish each other. On the contrary, when we are getting worse and worse, please be sure to stop and reflect.
It is not terrible to love the wrong person, it is not terrible to love the wrong person from the beginning, the terrible thing is that Cheng Shu and Wei Qi, after being hurt or abandoned, once can't come out, there are not so many Liao Ran in life to save us. Only on our own, facing the trauma we have suffered, stepping out of the inner cage, to break the situation, to grow.
As there is a saying in "Mr. Toad": If you have the power to take responsibility for yourself, you will know that you have the power to change your environment and yourself.
Be responsible for yourself, be responsible for your family, face your heart, and be reborn. There are vast fields ahead!
I am Xiao Fan, who continues to share dry reading goods and emotional stories to accompany you to grow up together.
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