Professor Zeng Shiqiang said: There are not many people in this world who really beat you, and it is rare for people who really intend to harm you.
What hurts us the most? It's that resentment, that resentment that you can't bear, no one can bear it.
This sentence also applies to Ning Shu in the TV series "Meet the Season".
Suffer from epilepsy
Because of his work, Cui's father had physical problems and could not do heavy work, and the factory had been raising him before. Later, after Jane's father contracted the factory, he deducted Cui's father's salary and wanted to fire him.
From the standpoint of Father Jane as a businessman, it is also understandable to dismiss a worker without labor.
Later, Cui Father stabbed Father Jian because of a moment of extremism, and he jumped off the building himself.
At this point, in fact, the hatred and contradictions of the previous generation have ended. This incident indirectly affected many people, such as the two children of the Cui family and his wife Ning Hui and Jian Minmin.
Among them, Jian Minmin (played by Luo Haiqiong) is a more influential party. At this time, Jian Minmin was 18 years old and was about to go to college, and her father forced her to marry Zhang Lixin, an employee who was older than himself, and let them temporarily take charge of the family business for her brother.
Jane's father is patriarchal in his bones, and he only wants to leave the family business to his second son, without the slightest consideration of his daughter's feelings and future.
This also deepens Jian Minmin's hatred for the Cui family. When the grudge of the previous generation should have ended long ago, both people paid the price for it. Jian Minmin provoked the incident again.
After her father was injured, she ran to Cui's house alone, went straight to the door and smashed the furniture. Let the two children of the Cui family have a shadow.
This is not the most excessive. Jian Minmin's most excessive thing is to run to Ning Hui's work unit, directly slap people, and push 6-year-old Xiao Ning shu down. Xiao Ningshu hit the back of his head, and was directly hit by Jian Minmin, who had epilepsy, and began to foam as soon as he fell ill.
Take advantage of Tsai Lingxiao
Cai Lingxiao, an alumnus of the same university as Ning Shu, is one year younger than Ning Shu. Two people are in a romantic relationship.
Cai Lingxiao was also an internal response that Ning Shu had placed next to Zhang Lixin. As Zhang Lixin's secretary, Cai Lingxiao is familiar with Zhang Lixin's itinerary and dynamics.
Ning Shu was able to successfully get Zhang Lixin into the set, and Cai Lingxiao was absolutely indispensable.
Cai Lingxiao's help to Ning Shu was more out of love. She naively thought she could move Ning Forgiveness.
Unfortunately, she looked at the wrong person and paid for it in a daze.
Ning Shu later arranged a back road for Cai Lingxiao. One wants affection, one only hates, and two people are doomed to not be together.
It doesn't deserve pity
If you stop here, Ning Shu (played by Zhang Yixing) is innocent. A 6-year-old child bears the bitter fruit of a feud between adults.
Then the ning forgiveness after that is not innocent, worthy of pity and sympathy.
First, in order to get revenge on Jian Minmin, he constantly used his human nature to instigate others, including Cai Lingxiao, Cheng Kexin, and Zhang Lixin. Instilling one's criminal intent in a person who does not otherwise have criminal intent, causing him to commit a crime in accordance with the instigator's criminal intent.
Let Zhang Lixin embezzle 80 million yuan and run away, and let Cai Lingxiao act as an internal response. Ning Shu also uses Cheng Kexin (played by Wang Churan) to frame Jian Hongtu.
Ning Shu instigated Zhang Lixin to forge a signature to borrow a loan shark and take kickbacks from it. It's already a crime here. His paranoia and resentment forced him step by step into the abyss.
He successfully exploited everyone's weaknesses to fuel the waves.
Each of his plans is actually quite perfect, he is a black-headed and excellent man, but unfortunately used in the wrong place.
He never imagined that he would meet the more powerful Jian Hongcheng (played by Lei Jiayin).
He originally only targeted Jian Minmin, but later Jian Hongcheng's intervention caused his plan to fail, and his paranoia and hatred extended to all the people in The Jane family.
Hatred is hard to dispel
The 6-year-old has been suffering from epilepsy since then, and has to move around to avoid Jian Minmin's injuries.
Invisibly, the seeds of hatred were sown in Xiao Ningshu's heart. He vows to seek revenge on Jian Minmin.
In a blink of an eye, Ning Shu (played by Zhang Yixing) grew into a handsome, capable young man, and also worked in a large company to the position of general manager.
Until then, it was normal to hate Ning Shu.
Ning Shu is already very strong in his heart, such as epilepsy, every time the disease will suffer from cold eyes and discrimination, many people will be depressed in their hearts, they can not find a stable job, let alone have normal communication, living at the bottom of society.
Ning Shu came out by relying on his own efforts, and the root and suffering of his pain naturally came from Jian Minmin.
Therefore, it is understandable that Ning Shu could not let go of the hatred in his heart. People have a dark side, they just need a fuse to be activated.
Instigating Zhang Lixin to cheat money, in fact, Jian Minmin has already paid a great price for that slap. Jian Hong became also 80 million yuan, shelved the listing loss of several hundred million. Isn't that enough?
Ning Shu did not let go of his hatred, he must see the day that the Jian family was destroyed before he gave up.
To forgive is to forgive neither others nor oneself. He is very paranoid, and the meaning of living is revenge. There was no more sunlight in his life.
He should not use Cai Lingxiao's admiration for him to achieve his goals.
On the other hand, he is scummy and righteous, and the character arc is very beautiful.
After using Cai Lingxiao, he will also take the initiative to give her money and let her go abroad to hide. He will also be grateful to Zhang Lixin for once, blocking in front of Jian Minmin to protect their sister and brother love.
Ning Shu's bones were not so bad, but he was blinded by hatred.
Why did he let the Jane family lose hundreds of millions of dollars, and his hatred still did not disappear?
It was more of a grudge that had been devouring him. At a young age, he was killed and fell ill for life, suffered from cold eyes and discrimination, and Ning Shu was still very contentious to grow up and have a successful career. If he does not get sick, he will be a young talent in the eyes of others, and he can live a good life.
Do not persuade others to be good without suffering. It is difficult for many people to empathize with his suffering.
Ning Shu, such a good young man, lived for more than twenty years after the family change and has been thinking of revenge, self-destructive future, but also taking revenge as his own meaning of existence, losing his life and self. He is also not understood by his sister Ning You (played by Yuan Quan), has no friends, and even love has to make way for revenge, hurting people who should not be hurt.
He is destined to pay the price for paranoia and does not deserve sympathy.
In the play, Jian Minmin, Jian Father, Cui Father, and Ning Shu all have their own flaws, everyone is a complex and three-dimensional person, they are not the most brutal, the most violent, the most despicable one, but they all carry some pitiful and sad moths that do not love themselves.
Cui's father stabbed Jian Shu to the extreme, Jian Minmin smashed the Cui family, and also hit Ning Hui and his son Ning Shu, causing 6-year-old Ning Shu to suffer from epilepsy.
Jian Minmin, Zhang Lixin, Ning Shu and Father Cui, none of them are innocent.
There are no absolute bad guys, just different positions, and everyone has their own reasons.
To end with Wang Guozhen's words: In the days of deep love, who can say clearly, what is sweet and what is bitter, as long as it is determined, there is no remorse. There are many things in life that you can't turn back, such as choosing and letting go.
We frown, we are relieved, we smile, and we move forward.