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The end of a relationship may be that the two entered the marriage hall hand in hand, or perhaps the two have broken off their righteousness from then on, and they have not interacted with each other in old age.
You can never predict where you will go, just as you don't know how fate will play with you.
But for a woman, as long as she does not trust the man's "I love you", she can avoid many harms.
Because usually, you always think that as long as a man tells you that he will love you for a lifetime, it must mean that he will marry you in the future, but in fact, the sour dead person does not pay for the love words, and the man comes to hand.
For example, he just told you today that he loved you to death, and tomorrow he can repeat this to another woman without saying a word.
Sooner or later, you will understand that love words are really just lies that men occasionally cash in, and when he says it, it is sincere, and when he forgets it, it is light, as if he just said "The weather is good today", and then turn around and forget.
To put it bluntly, how many times a man tells you that I love you, he has lied to you, but you can't hear it or simply selectively ignore the details hidden in his tone.
Therefore, at the last moment you learn the truth, you will feel so painful and unacceptable.
However, even if a man can disguise himself again, there will always be times when he will show his feet and flaws.
And you only need to reply to him every time he says "I love you" to him, "How much dowry do you plan to give when you marry me after that", and you can quickly know whether the other party's "I love you" is sincere or not.
The reason is because you ask a man whether he will marry you in the future, and he may give a positive answer to please you at the moment, but if you follow up with a specific dowry of how much money to give, the man will act a little overwhelmed.
After all, the man really did not expect you to be so direct, if he reported a number, and did not meet your standards, it would not expose his true thoughts in his heart that he did not want to marry you at all.
But if a man is in a limb and can't say it for half a day, then it will be even more like he is covering his ears and stealing the bell.
To put it bluntly, most men usually look quite gentlemanly and personable, but when it comes to the bride price, they can't help but jump up like they have been trampled on.
You know, for men, when practical interests are involved, what they love or not is completely unimportant.
Don't be ashamed to talk to men about money, don't talk about money, you can never see the man's heart, whether the man really wants to marry you, a bride price, can help you identify it clearly.
For men, love is always a secondary factor in life, and what is important is that if he spends a lot of money to marry a woman back home, can the other party give himself the same return?
If, after weighing and considering, a man finds that a woman does not seem to be able to bring any help for his career or other aspects, then he will continue to get along with the other party with the mentality of just playing with women.
Imagine a guy who doesn't want to have a future with you at all, but just thinks of you as a lonely and boring playmate at some point in his life, will he sincerely want to marry you?
The answer, of course, is no.
So women, if you want to test whether a man really loves you in his heart, then you can reply to him every time he says "I love you" to you, and then bring a sentence of "After we get married, how much dowry money will your family give to my family".
If a man is overwhelmed by your questions the first time, it doesn't matter, but the number of times you do, you should be alert.
He may not love you as much as you think, because he has no intention of marrying you or even spending money for you.
Things related to the future, whether it is a bride price, a house, a car, a wedding, these things he has never thought about, naturally can not give an answer.
He will take care of him left and right, will diverge from the topic, will blame you for being too materialistic, in short, he can find ten thousand reasons to avoid this problem.
But you should know at this time that his heart is not on you, the reason why he is with you is because you are his best choice at the moment, once he meets a woman who is dumber than you, he will not hesitate to turn around and leave.
In fact, in the end, most women are far less material than men's mouths, even if these women say at the beginning that there is no eight-car to welcome her into the door, then she will not marry this somewhat snobbish words.
But as long as the man has a good attitude towards her and impresses her with his sincerity, the woman will definitely not be unreasonable, but will choose to give the man and his family a step down.
Sometimes, women just need a definite and affirmative answer from men, she doesn't want to live every day, as if the next second will part ways with the person lying next to her, so she gives men a sense of security in her hands.
But it's never easy to hear the truth from a man with a mouth full of rhetoric.
Because men are so good at pretending, you ask him every day whether he loves you or not, and he never shows a hint of impatience, but instead responds positively and patiently when faced with your questions like this.
However, a woman's sixth sense will tell you that a man definitely does not love you as he says on the surface, because the look in his eyes when he looks at you is empty, powerless, and lightless.
To put it more directly, the man did not look at you squarely at all, so his "I love you" is undoubtedly just a random spit that he said without really taking care of his heart.
As a woman, if you can't even find this, then you will end up being deceived by men in the end, don't be careless.