Looking at "The Ferryman" again, I have left a different sense of life: the suffering of life is like an endless river, and the task of the "Ferryman" is to compress the pain of the lovelorns, send them "ashore" in advance, and let them "get rid of" the pain and crying of the past as soon as possible!
In life, our pain is thousands and thousands, and every pair of lovelorn people, they are more like "crossing the robbery", almost all of them will go through these four stages:
"Xiao Yu"'s unilateral dedication to love, what did he get in the end?
Love is sacred, love is great, and at the same time, love is not to be desecrated by others! In life, around you, are there any silly girls like "Xiao Yu"?
If there is such a girl, she actually knows that in her heart, she cares about each other very much, hopes that the other party has a good life, and at the same time, her heart is also very complicated, hoping that her own efforts will be recognized by the other party.
After watching such a news, there is a couple, the two are lovers in high school, the boy is the best in the eyes of the teacher, the girl is the best in the eyes of the teacher, the girl is directly home after graduating from high school because of family circumstances, and the boy is admitted to a well-known college.
The boy and the girl agreed: "Wait for me to go to college for four years, and when I graduate, it will be the day I marry you!" The girl tearfully agreed! As the saying goes: how much courage it takes for one person to wait for another person for four years! Win, two people icing on the cake, lose, one person is heartbroken.
Girls go out to work for four years, boys have no living expenses, and girls are obligated to pay their salaries to support their boyfriends.
At first, the boy was very touched from the heart and thought that she was a girl who accompanied him all his life! However, for the girl, there is a little bit, she is wrong, in addition to the ease of studying, but the university is also full of romance.
Four years, long is not long, short is also continuous, boys graduate from college, girls are looking forward to the boyfriend to come back, hoping that he will fulfill the promise he made to himself four years ago.
Sometimes, fate likes to tease people, and in the end, the girl waits for the boy's breakup phone, the reason is: I already have a favorite person, she can give me what I want, can help me in my career, and you, you can't give me everything I want, you are a good person!
The boy's words are like a thunderbolt on a sunny day for the girl, is his four-year wait really so worthless for him? Do you only get a so-called cheap "good guy card"?
The girl wiped away her tears and said indifferently, "I'm fine, I hope you have a happy life in the future..."
The girl worked hard for the boy for four years, she finally got nothing, she was like "Xiaoyu" in the film, Xiaoyu was willing to pay in order to hold a decent concert for her idol, and everything in the end turned into a bubble.
When fate comes, please be affectionately together
Some people say that the edge is ice, I thought that if I don't let go, it will always exist, even if it hurts to grasp, I must hold it in my hand. Fate is like ice cubes, I hold it in my arms for a long time, and when I let go of my hand, I found that the ice was gone, and my fate was gone.
There is nothing wrong with a person who loves deeply, and the love that truly belongs to him should not be a hurtful ice cube, but a cup of refreshing milk tea!
A couple has been in love for three years, and the boy will appear in front of the girlfriend's company on time and on time every day:
"Honey, you're so nice, thank you for picking me up on time every day, I love you!"
"You're my girlfriend, what's the courtesy, I often wonder, what is the reason why I come to pick you up every day, because a person's life is not interesting, so I look forward to seeing you every tomorrow." 」
As the saying goes, the distance between us and people is one hundred and twenty centimeters, in other words, with the people we like, we will try to compress this distance.
A better tomorrow
At the end of the movie, there is a line that says: I myself seem to be a person who has no tomorrow, but I hope everyone has a tomorrow!
There is a question in the film that is very meaningful: In the process of your acquaintance, what day do you think is the most important day for you?
When I saw the question, if I had to answer it, I wouldn't know, because it seemed to me that every day was important when I spent time with her.
Finally, I would like to say that we love a person and only need three conditions, in one place, need a reason to find an opponent! Only when both parties experience together can we empathize with each other, because I don't need a "ferryman", and she is the one who "ferryes" me.
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