Three years ago today, the old man I admired the most, the man like the mountain, was gone.
Three years ago, when I learned that the old man had passed away, I stopped the hurried pace of life and faced the southwest, deeply remembered, and I was overwhelmed with emotion.
Mr. was born in the peasant gate, poor in childhood, eager to learn in his youth, enterprising in his youth, and became famous in middle age; Mr. Was convicted of his destiny, parole in ancient rarity, started a business with a staff, revitalized in the old age, and died on his back; Mr. Passed through the army, passed through Shi, became a rightist, went down to the farm, saved the enterprise, created a brand, yawed the direction, went to the prison, packed the barren mountains, and revived the industry. He died on 5 March 2019 at the age of 91. Mr. Wang's life has a city government, does not deceive the dark room, does not hide flaws, has no shame, and is bright and upright; Mr. Wang's life is full of highs and lows, twists and turns, twists and turns, ups and downs, and repeated victories.
One day a few years ago, I read mr. Wang's story. I smoked a Red Tower mountain cigarette and began to think about the meaning of being alive as the cigarettes swirled and rose. I hope to find the true meaning of life from mr. success and failure, setbacks and endeavors. My husband's experience tells me that life has no meaning, and what you give it is what it is. In my husband's experience, I understood a principle of doing things as a person.
At today's age, I am no longer surprised by the ups and downs of people and things, and I always think that resistance and struggle depend on dreams and destiny, and the fate part of it may occupy a greater part in my thinking mode. In a word, Mr. Li's experience is to say: the talent who constantly strives to move forward may have a good fate to take care of him, the person who fails and lies down and does not do it is doomed to a bad life, and people's yearning for a better life is our goal.
Today, my husband's life also tells me that a man in the ancient rarity of the year "only wants to win, does not want to lose!" "Talking about career, this is the nature of men." We all know that life is impermanent, and we don't know whether today's happiness will come again tomorrow. However, we can only see the sun tomorrow morning, so we should try.
Mr. Li has succeeded, failed, has a higher heart, and has also been lost, and finally in his prison career, he has thought through the animal "man", the group of "human beings", the selfish and popular settlement of "society". He didn't want to admit defeat, he didn't want to lose face, he knew that what was lost was the face of a man, and this face was not the face of a woman who was smeared with grease and powder every day, and a man who lost this face was ashamed to survive in the world. So, he doesn't want to lose, he doesn't want to lose face. He was in prison thinking, I'm going to win, I'm going to succeed, I'm not a loser. So I calmed down and thought about and planned in prison for ten years, how old was I when I went out? What else can I do? What should I do? To what extent? What difficulties will you encounter? How do I face it?
God is fair, he succeeded.
His success tells us that if we have a dream, we will succeed, and we will succeed if we persist to the end.
So how did he succeed? The answer is not certain if we fall down and get up again like him.
Why?
First, he lived to be 91 years old, which is the first condition for success. This shows that as long as the length of life is long enough, it is not known how vast the width will be and how long the breadth will be.
Second, he was not overwhelmed by the shadow of failure and the grind of prison life, which fully proved that as long as the heart is strong, there is no mountain of flames that cannot be passed. His heart is as wide as the sea, his ambition is as tough as a mountain, and he would rather stand and die facing the wind and the waves, rather than go with the wind and steal life.
Third, he has been successful, and he has a circle of successful people. He was virtuous, and those true friends would do their best to help him in his most difficult times. This is an innate advantage, he failed, but his experience is still there, the model is still there, the real circle of friends is still there. For example, he said, "Like in the early years, when our fruit was immature and we didn't have the help of friends, sales would be very problematic." "A successful person fails, and it is inevitable that he wants to make a comeback. This accident is that he "thinks up", and this must be "remembered" and someone will help him up.
Fourth: He uses the right thinking to guide his thinking and practices. About three:
First, things do not happen overnight.
1> Today's young people are too anxious.
2> The lower the fall, the greater the rebound.
Second, no matter what we do, we must have a sense of reverence, and the laws of nature and the law of the market must be observed.
1> Product: Product competition is the competition of quality and price.
2 > Management: Just take care of the big things.
3 > Relationship: Worthy of what has been done, worthy of the person who has been treated.
Iii. What am I living for? I just want to win, I don't want to lose. This is a habit I have developed since I was a child, I have decided what I want to do, I just want to win, I don't want to lose.
Fourth, he overcame all difficulties and persevered to the end. He wanted to understand that no matter how difficult it was, he had to regain the lost face.
So he accomplished something that seemed impossible, and that success was exemplary, instructive, and learnable.
In his seventies, he talked a lot about the ideals of his eighties.
In his dreams there was a sea of stars.
He became a monument to entrepreneurs.
He became an entrepreneur among entrepreneurs.
In fact, if you think about it, this man who is as brilliant as the sun, his pain is unknown, the real man is not Xianglin Sister-in-law, can only be a doer who bleeds and swallows tears.
He said that his tombstone should write five words: Chu Shijian, a cow.
In fact, I think we should add another word, "Chu Shijian, really belongs to the cattle." ”
Now, the old man is gone.
When he was alive, he was born like the Yellow River flowing into the sea, vigorously; when he left, he died like a day on the mountain, and the sky was full of colorful clouds.
The path he walked and the things he passed through were the strongest philosophy of survival in this world, not the naked and bloody struggles and slaughters in the animal world, but the weakest philosophy of survival in human nature. He defeated most of the people with human wisdom and perseverance and re-stood on the stage of giants.
He succeeded, can we succeed?
not necessarily!!!
Why don't we? Then we have to ask, is it healthy and healthy, and do we have the conditions to move forward? If the nerves are strong or not, will they become camels overwhelmed by the last straw? If you want to stand up, does someone help you? Are those circles still there when you succeeded? Did your decadent psychology of failure damage your virtue and offend all those who were good to you?
If you have not succeeded at all, you are a loser at the bottom of human society, you want to have an opportunity and dig the first bucket of gold, not hard work can be simply obtained, the mind and body must all lose the skin, survive the days of hell and darkness, you will become an accident.
People who have not succeeded want to succeed, which is an accident in necessity; those who have succeeded and failed want to succeed again, which is an inevitable in chance.
So, an ordinary person wanting to succeed is a "not necessarily" unknown, it will be more difficult. But you don't make an effort is a known number of "must be losers".
Therefore, no matter how difficult it is on the road of your struggle, night is more than day, pain is accompanied by torture, you must persevere. You're in the ice cellar, and you can't be in a hurry.
When alive he said, "Things don't happen overnight. Today's young people are in too much of a hurry. "You have to stay up, you rush left and right, you can't do anything, and when you understand, you can know that the original successful process is a struggle with yourself, and if you can fight yourself, you will definitely fight others."
We are often people who can't fight ourselves. Because they can't fight themselves, they will be disappointed, miserable, wandering, often drunk, and crazy. Therefore, life is whether you have succeeded or not, you have to fight. Chu Shijian said: "Since he was a child, he only wanted to win, not lose. "That's all.
Are you like Chris, the protagonist of "Happiness Knocks on the Door", walking on a road full of frustration and constant suffering? Then, remember the philosophy that Mr. Hassan taught you, stick to your hopes and dreams like Andy in "The Shawshank Redemption", stick to the end like Forrest Gump, and like the sniper in "Soldiers In the City", waiting for the opportunity, one hit will hit. That is, Chu Shijian said: "Young man, you can't be in a hurry. ”
This cannot be put down in a hurry.
The gentleman was put down after the tempering of the great prison. You want to win, put it down?
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The road of life is too short, there are too many pits in front, go slowly all the way, all the way to appreciate it! Walk and cherish!!!
Today, three years after Mr. Yu's death, I pay tribute to the man who is as brilliant as the sun and writes the herbone word again and again, and the real man - Chu Shijian!!!