Asked about the status of marriage, Yuriko Ishida said:
"I hate people saying that you can really become an adult when you get married."
The first impression of Yuriko, many Japanese insiders will say, respectable and pure.
I can't feel if the guys have a crush on me... But the rhythm of living alone has been formed, and there is not much yearning for love.
Compared to Tianhai Youxi's domineering "whether the old lady wants to get married or not, what is the matter with you".
Yuriko Ishida felt that at this age, it was the most important thing to be good at herself.
It's not that you don't want to be in love, it's that you don't want to change the lifestyle you've become accustomed to.
"The more people ask me about the ideal type, the more I can't understand it, because I just like this person, not what type I like."
And in an instant, the line between drama and life has cleverly disappeared.
The male and female protagonists who married in the Japanese drama "Escape Is Shameful but Useful", Hoshino Gen and Niigaki Yui, suddenly announced their marriage in the real world.
Many people who have been talking about "marrying my mother-in-law" for 4 years have suddenly become "divorced" "national ex-husbands".
However, getting married is not really "national mourning".
I know if "Escape, Shameful but Useful" allows many people to find their national wives.
Well, there should be a large group of people who find not Yui, but Ishida Yuriko.
Some netizens said:
"Seeing a woman like Yuriko will actually arouse a feeling of wanting to protect her."
The audience will fall in love with the heroine because of a play, which is a testament to the charm of the film and television work.
But for the actors who act, the scene may not really make them really impressed with the heroine.
It was clear that Hoshino was not such a person.
And if you say so: even actresses who are privately moved by actors may be eligible to be called national wives.
After all, after the actors get off the scene, they can see each other's real state after taking off their makeup and costumes.
There is also fatigue that cannot be hidden from long shooting.
A screen beauty that haunts people in the case of real appearance, or the worst tired image.
It's hard not to show the true face of complaining!
After all, to examine this point, we have to ask Ishida Junichi, who has read countless people.
The playboy of the movie theater has said that "no lun is culture", an embarrassing Japanese famous saying throughout the ages.
Mr. Junichi, who has been in contact with 4 women at the same time, naturally has read countless people.
He had collaborated with Yuriko Ishida, then 23, in the 1992 pure love tragedy drama "Walk Alone in My Way".
And how did he describe Yuriko's charm?
"At first, it feels cool, and it's like a desert oasis for women. However, although I have a pure orthodox beauty, I often feel that the melancholy hidden under that beauty is released into me in one breath. ”
Sure enough, it is a playboy, very good at describing ah.
It is different from the sunny and energetic image of her sister Ishida Hikaru.
The charm of yuriko comes from the temperature difference at different levels.
The photographs she took when her photography-loving brother, Yuriko, was still living in Taipei, China (for 3 years) as a teenager.
It seems that Yuriko is as graceful as a certain tycoon, and it seems that his speech will not exceed 5 decibels.
She was the kind of being who could feel incomparably healing just by looking at her quietly.
However, Yuriko is not the big lady in the show.
She has been a strong swimmer since she was a child, and in elementary school, she also won the 8th place in the Junior Olympic Freestyle Competition.
Those achievements are still vividly imprinted on her.
Her femoral joints are very soft, and she can sit on the ground with her legs bent back at the age of nearly 50, thanks to the good habit of swimming for many years.
In high school, she was discovered by a star scout in front of an ice cream shop called Kameya Mannendo.
She did not think of joining the show business circle, but felt that it should be a good sign to be talked about in a place with "turtle" and "ten thousand years" in the name.
Also because of this cute and naïve idea, Yuriko officially joined the entertainment industry in 1987.
"Outer softness and inner rigidity" may be used to describe Yuriko, but it cannot be close to the two sides of her body.
When he was the director of Xing Dingxun, he collaborated with her on the 2005 film "The Zero Year of the North".
There is a scene where Yuriko must be below zero, wearing a kimono, walking on the ice in a snowstorm.
The director was so shocked by the beautiful scenery in front of him that he did not realize how dangerous the shooting situation was.
The director said:
I shot too intently and was asked by Yuriko in a cute tone that definitely didn't sound like she was complaining.
Yuriko teased and said:
"Are you going to kill me?"
In the end, Yuriko won the Japan Academy Award for Best Supporting Actress for "Year Zero in the North".
Although it is basically a person who does not say what is on his mind, his mood is often expressed in the wrinkles of his eyebrows.
Yuriko is actually a very stubborn person, and at the same time has an innocent briskness.
Yuriko's stubbornness is hard to imagine from her appearance.
In 1988, she first performed in a film, which was to perform the great director Munakata Yamamoto's amazing work "Stars of the Sea".
This is a work that subverts the style of Japanese underworld films at that time, and is a masterpiece written and directed by Morita himself.
Even though many advised him to make it more like a commercial film, Yamamoto still stuck to his signature style of "80s movie ghost talent".
It is conceivable that the filming scene of this director's obstinate willfulness must also be shrouded in a high-pressure atmosphere in which the director becomes a ren if he is unsuccessful.
And Yuriko Ishida, who acted in the film for the first time, was scolded by the director for her poor acting skills to the point of dog bloodshed.
Even being ridiculed is still to give up the road of acting in movies quickly.
If you can't do it, give me an exit!
Yuriko, who was only 19 years old at the time, said something that was not like a 19-year-old girl would say.
Even if I drag on, I will continue to insist on being an actor!
At that time, I felt very hurt, but my heart gushed out a reluctance to be praised and appreciated by the director.
Leftover women like me must live handsomely!
This line from "Escape Is Shameful but Useful" by Yuri Tsuchiya also seems to echo the life of Yuriko Ishida.
Yes, being handsome is what women really need.
So you can easily find the kind of firmness, the reassuring stability we see in Aunt Lily in "Escape Shameful but Useful."
After shouting "card" during filming, it is the same as standing on the diving platform ready to jump into the water when swimming.
When Yuriko shoots, she is like a swimmer she is good at, and she can retract and relax freely.
In fact, perhaps as early as the age of 19, Yuriko already existed in the heart that we can't see.
This is not surprising, just ask the knot sauce.
Yui Niigaki is a well-known super housewife, and is a "house" that can generously indicate the degree of wetness of her home on the show.
You can never go out, stay at home, and sleep for more than ten hours.
In an interview, she mentioned that she had recently started a new habit of reading.
I haven't had a habit of reading in my life, but I've recently started trying to read.
She said it was because a friend recommended her a good book. But who this friend was, she did not say.
But the book reveals the answer: Yui's favorite is "The Lazy Man's Guide to Enlightenment," an inspirational book of the American psyche in the '70s.
So who introduced this book, published in Japan in 1988, to Yuki Niigaki, who was born in 1988?
The answer is actually very simple, that is, Yuriko Ishida.
Yuriko Ishida loved the book so much in high school that she pushed it around.
Yoshida and Hikaru Ishida also read the book on her recommendation.
We may be able to see through the so-called "Yuriko charm code".
The lazy man's enlightened guide to encouraging herself, loving herself, and believing in her thoughts influenced her future life.
With such literary skills, she has published eight collections of essays such as "The Landscape of Happiness" and "Lily's Daily Fragments".
Full of gentleness and healing brushstrokes, she talks about her values and views on marriage in the book.
So it's better to say she's still single than to say she's enjoying being single.
In fact, it is reasonable to say that Yuriko is already so red, but she admits that she is not suitable to stand in the spotlight at all.
But perhaps it is precisely because Yuriko does not have a big star shelf on her body, but it is also like a country aunt sitting in a rocking chair playing with cats.
Simplicity and humility are her second qualities.
Perhaps she herself could not have imagined that she would become popular again after entering the show business circle for many years.
"CRISIS Public Security Mobile Search Team Special Search Team", "Enemy of the People~", "BG: Personal Bodyguard", although she plays a supporting role
However, the weak water on Yuriko's body seemed to be able to make everything soft and hard.
Just like "The Shared House where People with Hidden Feelings Gather" takes in the homeless lady Asada Junzi, or "Before the Coffee Is Cold" always sits in the seat and does not say a word.
It's really fitting that these roles can be played by her.
Yuriko said:
I hate beauty care to prevent aging;
The wrinkles and spots on his face when acting are beautiful rings;
Even if you are old, even if you are fat, this is not deterioration...
Are these words like the "Guide to Enlightenment for the Lazy" that says, "Never deny yourself" and "love yourself"?
Others can say that this is self-escape.
But many women are redeemed from such words, a redemption that smells of freedom.
I hate people saying that after marriage, you can really become an adult!
It's not that I can't get married, I'm just not getting married. Because, I have done a strong sense of consciousness and relative responsibility for the life of not getting married.
And when you've reached that point, do you really need a certificate, or another person, to make you happy? The answer to this question may become dispensable.
Whether married or not, being a person who can entertain himself alone may be the real problem.
The truth is that the actors love her, the directors respect her, and the men want to marry her.
Even the women want to marry her Ishida Yuriko, which is to some extent the "national wife" that fans do not realize.
What we expect is not that she will be our other half, but that our whole body and soul will be as independent of the world as she is.
What we expect is that we will become so beautiful and so stubborn.
Don't look at your husband's face, don't be afraid of your wife becoming a yellow-faced woman.
It was like an oasis in the desert, making the desert forever jealous of her there was always cool.
Back to the issue of the greatest concern.
The reason we need the "national wife" is because she will always take the initiative to take care of us and find the needs that we have not found.
Like Yui Niigaki, Hoshino Didn't give up on hoshino, and took the initiative to hug us on Tuesday.
But that's not the wife's responsibility, that's the mother's obligation—the mother will have such a love for the child without reason and without asking for a price.
Our so-called national wife is actually the national mother, so that we can legitimately cover up our Oedipus complex.
At the same time, Moriyama Shiori sat in the seat next to the soundless son and became the national wife of the rightful person.
But Yuriko Ishida is not like this.
She was fully prepared to bravely shoulder her responsibility for not marrying.
She set up her own personal brokerage firm to ensure financial autonomy.
When her beloved cat died, she didn't seek comfort online.
She said: I can't go on to be depressed all the time, I have to try to take care of the other three little ones.
Today, she has 14 cats and 9 dogs at home, and records their lives.
When the selfie of the internet celebrity also had to put on makeup and lighting up, she took a selfie directly with a plain face.
Put an account with her 2.7 million followers.
She is active in her body and mind, taking 2 gym and Pilates classes, 2 French and English classes, and 1 guitar lesson a week.
Moreover, the class is only basic, and she also has to set clear goals.
The guitar must learn to play a certain song, and the fitness is so that you can learn to split your legs 180 degrees in a year.
Although she was in her 50s by this time.
She is free, autonomous, spontaneous.
In "Walk Alone in My Way", Yuriko plays Junichi Ishida's fiancée.
In the end, Ishida chose an ex-girlfriend in the play, and he said this privately:
Although it is played in the play, if it were in real life, I would definitely choose Yuriko Ishida.
It's a pity, Mr. Junichi Ishida, Yuriko Ishida didn't have your last name on it.
This honorable national wife does not need to be anyone's wife, because she can love herself.